I was sexually assaulted many years ago and I would never have dreamt of calling the police. Today I would I taught sex Ed in middle school in Brooklyn and the kids had a real “click “ moment..One of the boys was saying how girls love it when they get Whistled at on the street One of the girls said that they don’t like it and the boys insisted they did. Another girl said , “that’s how you call your dog” There was just silence and one boy meekly asked, lwhat should we do?” A girl said, You can smile at us and if we smile back you can talk to us but if we ignore you don’t say ‘what is your problem bitch’” I kept a straight face.
Most Men would be happy if women were hollering about how good they looked daily. It's quite flattering and I love if when women do that to me. I guess guys don't get offended by complements.
In clubs I used to have women constantly feel my chest as I walked pass, pinch my bum and even had a random lady grab my crotch and left her hand there whilst I was taking a shot while playing pool. Guys brush these things of and tend to find them funny and they are not a big deal. For me it certainly wasent anyways. I just saw it as just part of a night out and ladies tend to turn into over sexualised gropey sex obsessed maniacs when they've got a few drinks in them. There is no way I would ever walk up to a random girl from behind and start rubbing her ***** when she's bending over. Women get away with stuff like this and it's not considered a big deal. Same with a girl slapping a guy. You see it all the time. But if a guy does it it's a huge deal.
If women were treated exactly the same as men in society I'm telling you now women would be sexually and physically assaulted a whole lot more.
I view an assault by an average woman the equivalent of the average 13 yr old boy, use the appropriate amount of force to defend yourself, breaking a 13 yr olds jaw/knocking him out isn't appropriate, it's excessive...slap me they'll get slapped back...if a 200lb woman comes at you with a knife, yeah that's a different situation...
What have you got against gays? You keep mentioning it and frankly you're comming off as homophobic! I would take it as a compliment why should the person being gay matter.
It happens all the time. Stick a bunch of mascline men together and that happens a lot joking around. It's all a game and a laugh. A lot of straight guys to the gayest stuff to each other as a joke and a form of bonding. Most men would never dream this of doing to a woman that's not their partner.
As with the stuff above. I even had a mate throw a bag of cum at the face of my other mate as a joke. So if women where treated the same they would be subjected to all this nonsense. You don't see many pictures off a passed out girl with a guys balls on her face do you? It's not ridiculous as guys are always fighting over the silliest things. Violence is a common thing in a man's world. Wind the wrong person up, say they wrong thing there is very likely a fight will take place. A girl can say things to a guy and get away with it. Where's a guy saying the same thing will very likely be confronted with violence. And if a guy hits another guy the guy attacked will almost always respond with violence. The only people who will regularly fight back agiant women is other women If they were treated as equals (which I don't think women should) when a woman chats **** she would get banged. I've fought with quite a few times the guys in my adult life (never once did i instigate it) and what triggered the fight would have never trigger any form of physical violence against a girl. Men hold women in the same regard as a naughty child in the regard of not reacting with same response as they would to another adult male.
Honestly if a smaller weaker looking non disabled adult male attacked me I would fight until the fight is over and not hold back or hesitate. With women I would be hesitant to defend myself and probebly act like a punching bag. Most guys are taught to act like this at a young age, no matter what a woman does you're not to hit back. Women are not treated as equals in this situation. Surely nobody can say women should be treated as equals? Or do I still have a old fashioned mindset? I know for sure if society had convinced me that man and women are equal in every respect growing up and I were to treat them as I would a man in all situations I would have beaten up a lot of women in my time.
if a child hit you would you beat them up?...I was taught by my parents not fight women or men, my martial arts instructor taught the same...always try to walk away, strike back only if have no other option and with the appropriate amount of force...and I'm old so I don't know what you mean by "old fashioned mindset"
Of course not. women and children are both classed as weak delicate flowers. Old fashion mindset as in men need to protect women and children.
that's your classification, I don't see women as weak and delicate, only physically smaller ...smacking a physically smaller person into submission is cowardice and the act of a bully...it's why there are weight divisions in martial arts...it also applies to men
There isn't weight devisions in a bar fight. So you think it's ok to smack a women the same weight as you if she punched you first?
This is slightly off topic, but I would never want to put myself in such a situation. Avoiding the situation from happening is obviously my first recommendation. But men should treat this situation with equal amount of intolerance as women would by filing for sexual assault or if that does not work, defamation and NOT brush it off as a joke. Even if my friendships are compromised, my reputation would already have been ruined with a photo like that so I feel I have nothing to lose by suing.
Whooosh..the point going over your head. Well then we are from different view points since you would not mind a gay man grabbing your balls without your consent
absolutely...I'm not a small person 6' 190lbs but there probably women out there who could give me a good beating even kill me, defend yourself when necessary...I worked with a guy showed up to work one day and looked like he was in bar fight, face black'n blue cut up, lip split, one eye swollen shut, it was his wife who outweighed him by 50lbs..
This discussion could become very difficult in today:s landscape. Are we talking about scientific gender.....or how the person "identifies"? What if Bruce Jenner assaulted Ellen Degenerate?