Are women delusional about dating???

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  1. doombug

    doombug Well-Known Member

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    I know women do not know what they want. There is no need to listen to them when they claim they do.
     
  2. Yant0s

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    That is very true there is a difference between listening to what a women want and knowing what she wants.
     
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    Dating apps are based upon superficial criteria and therefore only of value if you are looking for someone who is "hot" for a one night stand.

    If you want a long term relationship then there are far more important criteria to consider. Shared values are a far better indicator of a successful relationship than what anyone looks like.

    In hindsight the relationships that have lasted have all been based upon mutual respect and support for their partner. The ones that failed were all based upon superficial criteria like appearance.

    No, women are NOT delusional about dating.

    The OP failed to research the topic and it shows.
     
  4. wyly

    wyly Well-Known Member

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    as if men don't have unacceptable behaviours LOL!...

    physical assault, rape, murder yeah those are real risks women take every time they agree to date a man...I can't say any of those potential consequences ever came to my mind when I dated a woman...
     
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  5. Renee

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    Interesting that you think we should shame women for being fat and we should shame women for being sexual. So telling
     
  6. Renee

    Renee Well-Known Member

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    What sad experiences you must have had with women. I am sure the women you know would probably say that you didn’t listen
     
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  7. Polydectes

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    pointing out unacceptable behaviors among women to you means that everyone else is perfect?

    Doyou think that makes sense that anyone but you?

    Only while dating? These aren't real risks men face?
     
  8. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    Queen of the strawmen has returned. I don't think we should shame women for being fat. And in no way does being a slut equal being sexual.

    Don't fabricate stupid **** and then pretend it's my argument.
     
  9. billy the kid

    billy the kid Well-Known Member

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    Ask your date to go dutch and watch her disappear...
    Show her your beat up old VW and watch her disappear...
    Show her your fat wallet and watch her swoon...
    Show her your mercedes and watch her swoon....
    If you appear to be a decent meal ticket, she'll draw on her manipulative skills like never before....
    And they seek equality and respect......work that out for yourself.....
     
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  10. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    Not all women are like that. you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess.
     
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  11. Renee

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    I’m not your sweetie, little guy. Patronizing is another form of sexism. Do you call men sweetie too?
     
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  12. Renee

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    So sad that’s the only women you know. You must have had some better experiences. The man I know are the opposite. They respect successful women. Women don’t need men for their money anymore, we’re making our own now
     
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  13. wyly

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    this is funny just from the the responses you can tell which men here just don't get it and are socially dysfunctional, their real social lives probably reflect it...which they'll deny claiming they're all dating super models who swoon over their anachronistic behaviour and insensitive manliness...
     
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    Well, actually Im retired and in my 70s....my post was referring to not my experiences, but those I have had outlined to me by various men over my life time....these men included happily married men, divorced men, workmates, neighbours, relatives etc etc....
     
  15. wyly

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    there are a lot of socially dysfunctional men about, of all ages...social interaction is a learned behavior some of us get it early, others take longer and some never learn it at all...and for those who have difficulty it's all too easy to blame women rather than have a serious self assessment of themselves...sadly it didn't come easy to me, I'm still learning...

    of coarse there are also women dysfunctional women but they don't present the same danger to men as men do to women...
     
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    I'm sure a man breathing is sexism to you
     
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  17. squidward

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    And demanding promotion before men who do an equal or better job
     
  18. billy the kid

    billy the kid Well-Known Member

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    Are you suggesting that all the opinions I have outlined from the men from different categories during my entire life are all coming from dysfunctional men....you havent even met them.....
     
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    I'm suggesting if you've gone through the entire thread and you haven't learned anything...dysfunctional
     
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    classic... insecure with deeply ingrained misogynistic attitudes...yeah I've met many like you in my lifetime
     
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    You sound like one of the women I described.....goodbye....
     
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    They are called sport and champ. Do you always ignore the point or did you just use your own sexism of ignoring what a man had to say?
     
  23. squidward

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    Oh, because you learned the same job thousands of men do, you're better and deserve promotion?
     
  24. squidward

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    Say something worth learning
     
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  25. Renee

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    Just curious did we suffer when thousands and thousands or should I say millions and millions of women who were denied the same jobs men held?
     
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