Dear Daddy. How sexist jokes can promote violence against women women

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  1. Bowerbird

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    This is by Care and confronts the accepted norm of the joking done by young boys and men calling young girls names and how that can lead to violence against women

    I would dismiss it were it not for the fact that the attitudes shown in the video are replicated every single day on the abortion forum on this board. Blaming, shaming and denigration

    It is a powerful video
     
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    I don't really care for this demeaning look on women and girls that they're these fragile little damsels that need to be protected by all men all the time. I have no idea why feminism is pushing that mentality. That fought for 60 years to obliterate that mentality.

    if you're too delicate to live in a world where nasty people are going to call you names then you're too fragile for the world.
     
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    Such a sad world we live in where victims are blamed as being the issue.
     
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    Didnt watch the video did you?
     
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    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    We don't need to increasingly cover the wild with Nerf. We need to make people stronger. It's odd this task is placed on fathers when in most cases they aren't in the picture because of the mother and courtroom bias.

    This seems more like arsenophobia than anything Noble.
     
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    Who blamed a victim?
     
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    You didn’t watch the video did you?
     
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    Perhaps “Dear Daddy” should start by hanging around to support thier kids

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    Yes, I figured it might actually deliver some good info but it didn't. It was saying how weak and pathetic women are and how vicious boys are.

    Standard arsenophobic nonsense.
     
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    Fathers are removed by courts. Not just because they are dead beats
     
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    Are you saying calling girls whores and ****s is “acceptable?
     
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    That is only a minority

    The majority are just absent
     
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    Yes I did.
     
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    The divorce rate is about 50% that's the majority of fatherless homes and they are ordered as such by the courts. Sorry but you are wrong.

    Most divorces are filed by women, so I could say the reason for fatherlessness is mostly caused by women.
     
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    I'm only saying what I typed, did you see the specific words you asked me if I said in the past you responded to?

    No you didn't. So no I'm your moronic strawman. I'm never saying anybody's moronic strawman

    If you want to know what I'm saying read the ****ing English I typed it in, and you'll know precisely what I am saying.
     
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    Then why are you not discussing the points in the video?
     
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    I am. The poor weak girls we have to Nerf the world to protect these fragile little delicate flowers. Fathers this is on you even though your daughter's mother divorced you and trashes you to everybody and uses the courts to septate you from her.

    I did watch the video I'm just not a hypnotized little Nero clapping like a trained seal at how woke it is.
     
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    It says “fathers abscent” not “fathers divorced”

    And again coming back to the OP maybe the high divorce rate is because men are treating women poorly
     
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    So you are defending calling girls names?
     
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    You didn't make the distinction because it doesn't support your twisted narrative.

    I'm not afraid to point it out, nor am I trying to prop up some broken ideology.

    Or more likely it's over money.

    Men have to make more than women in order for women to stay with them yet women are given priority in college and in various industry so that such organizations appear woke.
     
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    Where did I say anything that made you jump to this conclusion?

    Quit trying to protect your moronic ideology and just pay attention to what is said.

    Everybody wants to be so smart and think they have you in check to prove their team the best. People with such commitment to political orthodoxies are anything but.
     
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    You're basically saying that men are mean and violent by nature and women better learn to deal with it or else.

    Children are not small adults. They learn mostly by imitation. Their behavior imitates their parents' behavior - this is the obvious point of the video in the OP. Fathers are not able to protect their daughters because they are the same people teaching sons to be mean and violent with girls. This is not about one father, this is about male mindset in our civilized societies.

    Words hold incredible amounts of power. That, by the way, is why forums like this one are moderated. We could try, for instance, calling each other names on PM, see how that makes you feel, even though you'd know it's just an experiment. Or would you know? I mean, how can you be sure that I don't really mean what I write? How can you be sure that you're not really how I see you? How can a girl be sure that she's not the bad person boys tell her she is?

    We need each other to survive, that's human nature. Hateful, mean behavior, is a way to tell people "you're not welcome and not wanted here". That hurts, not matter how strong you think you are, but that's only the tip of the iceberg. The "you're not one of us" statement can - and usually does - lead to "you're not a protected member of my group, so I can hurt you" kind of mentality.

    We can't force children to include in their group other children they don't like, but we can teach them to respect those children they don't like.
     
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    no I'm not basically saying anything, I'm precisely saying what I typed. You were adding meaning to it which doesn't exist so you can fabricate a strawman to attack.

    You are not the first person to do this I just don't know why you don't care about combating what I said you just want a cheap and easy win. It's really sad.

    this is a load of horseshit. do you think that boys only listen to their fathers and never to their mothers is patently absurd, considering how many children live with a single parent and how many of those children who live with a single parent live with only their mother, I could argue that women are teaching them to behave this way.

    You want so bad to push this feminazi narrative that you don't care about being precise.

    two girls need everyone to tell them how great they are otherwise they feel they're bad people I'm sorry I don't have that much hatred toward women I don't think they're that weak-minded I've known too many of them that aren't that way to know that is not the case.

    this is why we don't leave children to forage for themselves like Lord of the flies.

    why don't you that then why are you letting all these children suffer?
     
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    That video is more than a little over the top and ridiculous. (Well at least by American standards, I don't know which country you're in)

    I posted it in another more Conservative forum and the people there got a whole lot of laughs. The women were commenting "If you wanted to protect your teenage daughter, why would you let her go to a party with alcohol and dress like that?"
    Several of them even commented that they couldn't make it through the whole video because it was just too wacky. "Feminism on steroids" was one comment.
     
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    No this is about the constant demeaning of women

    There is a powerful psychological imperative called the “self fulfilling prophecy”. Tell someone that they are “****s and sluts” often enough and they will start acting that way
     
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