50%of husbands have hit their spouse at least once.

Maybe she should just shut up.

I'm kidding.

But, eh... I really don't know whether to believe that statistic or not, mostly because I don't think battered women are so quick to give up their husbands in each case.

 

I call bull(*)(*)(*)(*). No was is that true.

 

If we are going to compare by the amount of damage sustained they it appears the women win the abuse title.

The spouse that kills the other spouse is more likely to be a woman.

Im sure this is the mans fault of course for watching too much football but ..

Stats are stats !

 

I believe 85% of women have hit there husbands.
Just wait until Sharia law hits the US. What are you women going to do then?

 

Who knows. I learned a long time ago never to get involved in picking sides in a domestic dispute. Plenty of women I see deserve to get hit. They are begging for it on a daily basis. As a man I enjoy the single life. If a woman starts causing trouble I just walk out the door and never call them again. I let some other guy deal with the drama queen. I have too much to lose.

 

Oh look...it's 1951 again.

 

When one of my friends comes to me and starts complaining about someone they are dating/married to the first thing I ask is what did you do. Regardless of gender you will often find some kind of inciting cause for the opposite persons behavior. If you can accept that certain men deserve the death penalty then it is entirely sexist of you to say no woman deserves to get hit. It doesn't mean you will hit them but it just means they have it coming.

 

Just another double standard American women hold. They can and will slap and hit you, then when you respond, they threaten to call the police. When you threaten to call the police on them, they belittle you by calling you a wimp because you can't take it from a woman. Or they will threaten to tell the cops you hit them that either way, calling the cops on them will result in YOU going to jail either way. Best thing to do, is walk away and never come back. Or, you can turn the tables and find a woman without the American attitude, double standards, deceitfulness, controlling tendencies and marry outside the country. Women who are willing to share respect with you rather than demand it from you. Women who don't treat dating like a meat market.... I could go on, But ghouse American men who continue to put up with American women will just leave more out there for the rest of the smarter guys looking overseas.

 

mi·sog·y·ny   [mi-soj-uh-nee, mahy-] Show IPA
noun
hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/misogyny

 

On the contrary, I love women. I just don't like women that believe men are here to please them. And that a man is not allowed to be happy if all her need are not met. I laugh some of my friends who marry these kinds of women that I invite them out for a beer or just to go out and hang out and their answer always depends on what their wife has planned. Their afraid to spend their own money they earn. They are afraid of taking personal time for themselves to relax. They are afraid to do anything that may upset their wife. Should they be? Maybe they should. Considering that in divorce court, women get the kids, the house, and enough of their pay so they can sit at home all day if they wanted. So much for equality... sorry, I will leave American women for all of you guys to fear in marriage.

 

From your above post:

'Or, you can turn the tables and find a woman without the American attitude, double standards, deceitfulness, controlling tendencies and marry outside the country.'

You lump all American women into one group and then say you 'love' women'?

Ahhh....no.

You love to 'f' them? Sure.

But you love them as human beings?

It sure does not sound like it to me.


BTW - I am a man.

 

There are exceptions, but they are to far and in between and not worth wading thru the massive majority of American women who are this way. I did not get married until I was 32 years old. I have never had problems finding women to date or to sleep with in America. I just had problems finding. American women who are marriage material.
It was not until I spent some time overseas that I realized what was missing in my relationships and why I was having such a hard time commiting to someone. Women I met overseas were friendlier, more interested in conversation that was not centered on them, more feminine, and showed up for a date without the notion that I had to put on some kind of show for them. They did not pepper me with horror x boyfriend stories, or complain about their female Co workers at work the whole date. And the did not sleep with me after only 2 or 3 dates which kind of sucked at first, but once I realised it was because they were serious about finding someone and getting to know them first, I thought it was good. They also did not have 3 or 4 other guys they were dating or talking to on the side.

Most American girls I have met make great friends, and many are great in bed. But I would never take one seriously in a relationship.relationship

 

This is a disgusting statistic....

I have never hit my wife. We have been together for almost 11 years.

I HAVE said some horrible things to her in the past. Making your wife cry because of your words is one of the worst feelings in the world.

The worst thing I ever did was I threw a Big Gulp at her lol. She was really going off on me this one day, and she said to me "Its no wonder your parents used to beat you as a kid". Hey ill be honest its a sore subject for me so I just kinda snapped in my head and when she turned around I pelted her in the back with a full Big Gulp.

We look back at it now and laugh about it, but believe me I was in the dog house for quite a while after that one lmfao.

 

In other words, you do not want a partner. You want a live-in maid, cook, sex toy, servant, and probably punching bag.

 

Would laughing at this make me a bad person? If so...sorry, I'm a bad person!

 

lol no its a funny visual. Me and my wife laugh about it sometimes. She knows im a gentle person and wouldnt ever hurt her but hey sometimes you gotta throw a drink lol. I mean im sure it may have hurt a tiny bit but I think it was just disrespectful on my part more than anything.

 

I hear this quite a lot from people who hear that I choose to marry a foreigner. This is usually the kind of ignorant statements made by thouse who have barely step foot outside of the US. People who watch to much TV and have been indoctrinated by the feminist movements. My wife is in no way subservient in the way mentioned above. My wife is from the Philippines. In philipine culture many women do stay home and take care of the house and kids, but they also handle the finances. They are the queens of the house and have a lot of power over family life. The men work 2 and sometimes 3 jobs to put food on the table and provide for the kids education. Now, I do not advocate we should return to the gender roles that at one time enslaved women. However, In our society, women who do stay at home are looked down on. Women who respect their man and treat them as a man are looked down on. It is the attitude women in our country have adapted that has destroyed and disrupted relations between men and women here. Men and women are being pulled apart by career and money. Eventually we will be staring at each other like strangers wondering what the use of marriage is in the first place other than a tax writeoff. The birth rate will no longer outpace the death rate and our society will shrink. More and more often, men are at odds with women in the US. Competing with them at work and at home.

I don't think a woman belongs in the kitchen. But I do believe that the world is a better place when women can raise its children.

 

Also ask yourself this question.. If American women are so great, why are the wanted only by American men. Foreign men do not want anything to do with them, while the opposite is true for American men.

 

Sean Connery has an opinion on hitting your spouse:
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oo0d1zTAFKA"]Sean Connery discusses women slapping - YouTube[/ame]

He also said in another interview, "If she gives you any trouble give her a good slap."

 

Have you ever thought perhaps that they would RATHER spend time with their wife than you? My hubby and I have our own seperate friends and hobbies, but we also have date night 2-3 times a month.

I have been right next to my husb while he was on the phone with a friend telling him, ''no bud, maybe another time, going out with the missus tonight''. I'm not there giving him the side eye, he CHOOSES when he'd rather hang out with his wife or his friends. Maybe your friends don't have the gonads to say I'd rather be with my wife, so they couch it in a way that makes the wife look controlling.

 

Man, sometimes a woman needs to learn her place with a good beat down.

 

I don't know you at all so I can not comment or dispute your situation. However, from my experience, it is almost like when your a kid and your friends want to go out but you choose not to because you know your mom would be upset if you opted out of family night. The wife and I don't have a "date night", we don't need to manufacture days to show we care for each other. I purposely do not give her flowers on valentines day, or any of those other commercial days. I give her gifts and flowers on off days or whenever she does something real nice for me. I have never believed anything in a relationship should be expected, only reciprocated. I do what I want to do, and a lot of times I do want to spend time with her. We are fairly fortunate in one aspect, we usually want to do the same things. It is kind of odd seeing we come from a different cultural background. A lot of times I will be thinking of soothing specific to eat and when I get home she is already cooking it because she had the same thing in mind. Or she will say "lets go see a movie" and I will think.. "yeah that does sound good". And I'll add, "lets eat at ....... afterwords.. and she will agree it sounds good. Its kind of creepy sometimes. Its just nice to be with someone who shares respect in a relationship rather than demands it certain days of the week or in some cases, almost every day.

 

Just saying, I know some guys feel like they are hurting a friends feeling if they tell them they choose their wife over them. I also have female friends who do the same thing to me, so what? Who am I to be offended that they need to ask their hubby first? My husb is deployed right now. The friends I hang out with are single moms, and moms who have their hubbies away as well. I really don't even ask my friends whose hubbies are here to get out b/c I feel they will most likely have plans with their hubby on the weekend. I might call them up for a lunch date, but as far as going out on the weekend, I just don't ask. No skinoff my back!

Also,If a date is planned or if it's not planned, how does one make the other more special? We have kids, work, and have a healthy social life apart from each other, so for US, it makes sense to have specified date nights. If they are planned who cares? 17yrs married and still going strong.....

 

I would take that bet. Many women believe, with some justification, that they will not be held responsible for hitting either by the person they hit or the law. I was a police officer for 30 years and women did a lot more hitting when getting arrested than men. They knew they wouldn't get knocked on their ass and they knew the judge would giggle and let them go.