Homosexual Boy Lies to His Mom to do God Knows What...

My 16-year-old son has a friend his same age named Johnny (not his real name) who is homosexual. He's a tiny little guy, diabetic, and its doubtful he could defend himself from an angry 12-year-old girl.

Anyway, last Saturday his Mom came looking for him. She told me that Johnny told her that I had taken him and my son to go see Titanic.

I said, "You should be worried because your son lied to you."

Because you see, I hated Titanic the first time I saw it and I would never go see it again, even if you paid me.

A more believable lie would be I took him to see Hunger Games, which I hear is very good.

But I digress.

The point is this little gay guy has been talking to people on the internet and he's lying to his Mom, so its a good chance he is meeting with these strange people on the sly while telling her she's with me and my son.

And I think that's pretty dangerous because, like I said, this little gay gay is so physically weak an 80-year-old woman in a wheelchair could beat him up.

The gay lifestyle is a dangerous lifestyle. Meeting strange men in strange places to do strange things is just ... dangerous. Who knows when you will end up in the clutches of a serial killer.

I hope things will turn out ok for this little dude, but he worries me.

 

And you're saying that straight teens would never meet up with an internet stranger?

 

Is your son gay? If he says he not I'd be careful because you know how kids that age lie.

 

You seem obsessed with the oddest things. Why are you worried about your sons friend meeting people when you post sexually suggestive pics of your daughter on the internet.

 

Or a pedophile priest.

 

Not as strange as the life style of a Straight middle aged man meeting all the Crazies --- Women .I meet them in all sorts of places hoping to do strange things but I am like a Lottery Ball ,--- never find the right hole .




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So basically, a 16 yo has been on the internet (the horror of it). You ASSUME he's meeting people from the internet (afterall you did say "good chance"). And therefore the gay lifestyle is dangerous.

Mother of god, homophobia is the new racism I'm starting to think.

If you are not white, hetrosexual, right wing, gun loving, you are in the line of sights of the US Right.

 

You're saying there's a good chance that Blackrook's son is an uphill gardener?

 

Its his own problem if he wants to meet people on the internet. My biggest concern is that he is using you to cover for his actions. That isn't fair on you.

 

I think the clear implication from the OP is that it's safer for straight teens to do so.

 

Nearly 3 hours watching Titanic to finally cheer when leonardo dicaprio died.

 

This is hilarious... there's some funny posts around here, I think I'm going to enjoy myself. Look maybe little Johnny is out smoking weed... or maybe his mum is a (*)(*)(*)(*)(*) and won't let him go out unless he's doing something she deems wholesome like watching Titanic with another adult. Or maybe he's meeting an equally weedy boyfriend and getting his dick sucked (am I allowed to say that?) either way the world is dangerous, chill out.

 

There's da-gays out there, how on earth do you expect the OP to chill out?

 

So you don't think we have a responsibility to care for and protect our children's friends? If the details of this story were a little different and we were talking about a 16-year-old petite girl who was using her friend's dad to cover for her, would you still say that if this young girl wants to meet people on the internet it's her problem? I think adults have a responsibility to look out for the well being of all children, even if we're not legally responsible for them. It wouldn't hurt us to look out for the well being of our adult neighbors, too.

 

How do you know this 16 year old is gay?

 

In this scenario, would we be ranting about how the "straight lifestyle is dangerous?"

 

I didn't read the OP as a rant about the dangers of the homosexual lifestyle. Teenage minors arranging meetings with strangers over the internet is dangerous, whether they're gay or straight. It does seem more likely that a gay teenager would resort to meeting people through the internet for "romantic" companionship given the statistical distribution of homosexuality.

 

A lot of gay teens, if that's really what he is, are forced to meet people behind their parents back because they would disapprove. Some do it because they only THINK their parents would disapprove. The fact is that we used to shield and protect teens from themselves and as a nation we were actually a lot stronger.

All of us were teens once--even if we cannot fully remember it. I refuse to listen to arguments about being permissive on drug use like pot and how its better to smoke with your kids blah blah because that means they'll smoke at home. We all know its BS. We knew those kids whose parents did that and they smoked outside the home, too. All those parents accomplished was giving the child multiple places to smoke and provide a safe have for other kids. Jesus, everyone loved those parents in high school...except their kids.

Kids don't want cool parents. They want other people to have cool parents. They want the safety of saying: I can't go because Mom's being a xxx. Well, that's the 95% of kids, the other 5% are like white tigers, three legged frogs, and lame deer. Destined to be someone's prey.

In this case, she did right to rat the kid out. She's not exactly being kind by saying he's gay because he's a weakling. A, not all gays are weak as (*)(*)(*)(*). Not all straights are strong. B, a lot of nerdy, RPG playing, fanboys and fangurls are wafer thin...they're not out playing man on man hot potato at a wayside, they're dressing up and LARPing.

Don't assume. Just help.

 

Straight teens do the same.

Oh snap.

 

Iboga, shrooms, DMT... something like that.

Eh... with regards to chilling out sorry forgot to quote.

 

You threw that BS in... and it has NOTHING to do with the real risks that kid is taking. Plus, you can in no way verify how weak/strong this kid is or whether or not he knows how to protect himself. And homosexuality isn't a "lifestyle", it is a sexual-orientation.

I don't approve of the lying, but considering the way we treat homosexuals in this society, I can understand why he would NOT tell his family what he has interest in sex at all.

It's risky, but not always dangerous. BTW, heterosexual people also do the same kinds of things.
Sometimes horny people (gay/straight) take risks.

I agree that minors should be watched/supervised most times. Inferring that homosexuality is somehow bad/evil because YOU think it must be some highly dangerous "lifestyle", is ludicrous and stereotypical BS.

I hope he stays safe too. I hope his parents accept his homosexuality and help him to make good decisions as a young man.

 

Does his mom/dad have a problem with/not know about his homosexuality?

Because that might be the root cause of the problem right there. Given your stances on homosexuality and that these people are your friends, I wouldn't be suprised if the kid resents them for trying to "pray the gay away".

 

You know if you had just said that you found out that your son's friend lied, and you told his mother I would be in agreement with you.

And I would even agree with your concern that he may be lying to cover up some dangerous behavior.

That you assume that he is a homosexual, or that the lying is relevant to homosexuality or that 'homosexual' is the first thing that pops in your mind really is worrying.

Teens do all sorts of crazy dangerous things. And also they don't. He could be borrowing a car and driving it dangerously without permission, he could be hosting illegal poker games, binge drinking, tending to his pot farm......or he could have lied just to cover up some rather innocuous activity that he didn't want his mother to know about.

I would be concerned about the lie....you seem more concerned about homosex.

 

Titanic is a good movie. I don't find the main plot, the romance between the two kids from different classes, to be very interesting. But everything else is so good that it makes up for it.

Can't really handle the music any more, though. I think that's why I haven't watched it in maybe ten years.

 

When I was in high-school I almost called a prostitute out of the classifieds and took my dad's sports car out for a joy-ride (I was a big fan of Risky Business). I regret chickening out to this day...

What's my point? Straight teens are just as devious and risque as gay teens. The only reason anyone would single out gays is irrational bigotry.