http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex So I told my wife that from now on, I would no longer be doing any cleaning and cooking. After all, who are we to question science?
They did a study in the UK and found out that relationships where the man stays at home to look after the children while the woman works are much more likely to end than if the woman stays at home. The most given reason was because the woman stopped respecting her partner when he stopped working. Science confirming what men have always known. Women don't know what the (*)(*)(*)(*) they want.
That ancient question of "What does a woman want" sent the Green Knight out on a mission to discover the answer. The Medieval tale ends after fighting dragons and witches withthe simple discov=ery that they "want their own way." This seems amusing and even cute until you realize that once the sexual mores are kiberalized, the currency of their sexual favors will allow them to negotiate with the men amd even society at large until they are on the path of getting what is their way on every issue and matter and decision The result is that Plitical Corrctness arises in opposition to the safety and sanity of reason, common sense, and logic that men previous used to defend their place in the world as a nation and the bargaining position in regard to the sexual negotiations. A matriarcy arises that sees the nation go inmto debt because of the soft hearted maternal instincts to give everyone with a sad story someone else's money. The anti-war sentimant ends with changing the only army these women can change, which is that of only their nation. The vulnerablity of the country to enemies outside is matched only by the appearance of inner-city thugs raised without fathers by the ever growing numbers of Single Mothers who just can not dominate their own sons where sexual powers are useless. History shows that matriarchies appear and then immediately disappear as either a strong singular man, a Dictator arises who has all the solutions to what seemed an insurmountable economic and social problem. Force represses dissent inside and wards off enemies that are external. War becomes the tool to suck men out of the Work Force, offering much needed jobs to the nation. Worse, the enemies invade and destroy the nation. Usually, this process takes place within 50 years of a sexual revolution like America saw in 1960. But usually, the enemy is a close neighbor, not separated by two oceans. So time is of the essence.
I have a neighbor (Jimmie) who is absolute proof that wives love rugged macho men. Jimmie, who had an unassuming desk job with the department of social services, always found time to do most of the the housework and help care for the toddlers. One day, a bored and frustrated Jimmie dumped his desk, took a job in heavy construction work and demanded to be called Jim. He began beating his wife, spanking the kids, kicking the cats, and neglecting his personal hygiene. He replaced the Volvo and Subaru with a Hummer and a pickup truck complete with a rifles and a rack. Jim bought a pitbull; took up boxing at an inner-city gymnasium; and became the neighborhood bully. Jim's wife is now aglow with satisfaction. Jim is whipped but very happy.
Yep... That is why you see so many black males with white women today. The patriarchs of the inner city who were raised by Single Mothers who had little contrl over them excured that alpha-male attitude that evolution pre-conditions to appeal to women in spite of their complaints. The effeminiate girlie-men and ever growing gay community is in stark contrast to nations like N. Korea, China, and Islam, in general, where the patriarchs reign over their military, their women, and the nation.
It's not the ''not working'',,it's the money.....Have that and I don't care what you do,,,,YOUR KING!
Hmmmm, I have found over the many years I have been on the planet that helping around the house has gotten me more sex, but hey, I like the excuse. I have got to get me some of this "study" grant money, think I will do a study that discovers that men and women are different, oh wait already done. Maybe one that discovers that we all have a different point of view, yeah that sounds good, now the only thing to do is descide on how much I need to retire, opps meant to say how much I need to do the "study", yeah that's it.
I disagree with the interpretation of this study about the sex appeal of chores. If men are doing more housework and not having sex as often isnt it that they feel less in the mood to have sex doing housework? It's the same for women, you know.It can be kinda tough to switch gears from where you work and difficult for the person who sees home as a place to relax and enjoy to understand that. but if you were at work with someone who wanted to enjoy some time with you but didn't want to help you get there, you would eventually get irritated with that person, making for less sexy moments. Why should it be different for men? If husband/boyfriend does household chores affecting frequency of sex but that doesn't affect how much a woman enjoys sex, isn't that saying chores and frequency doesn't affect how she feels about him? I doubt that's the same for men because they are generally.. well horrible. I would like to think that somewhere in the universe there are men that can decent without it being tied to whether they get laid or not. I'd like to think it even though I know it isn't true.
Hmmm... The ecnmy has had the same amount of money. Al thay has happened since the 1960 Sexual Revolution is that the better jobs have been mandated towards women who replaced men at those positions, while the UnskilledLabor Force doubled as those wages stagnated and ended up half what was once the wage that a man could earn in support of the stay-at-home-mother. Now, women have indeed gotten just what they didn't really want by getting their own way. They get two jobs, mother and the responsibility to work for a boss(es) who get the husband and her for the same basic take home.
Good point, but I'm not saying that. I'm saying if you do [the man] have the big bucks then HE IS THE KING. If the woman has a good job and makes 100,000 but the man earns five times the amount,,guess what? Usually these men are in private Business and it's his income that dictates their friends and the status to which they live. Of course it could be the other way around as well, but not as often, not that kind of money.
I told my wife that I was no longer helping her around the house, and to get her butt into the kitchen and make me dinner. She promptly threw a drink in my face and told me to stick it, but I think she was secretly turned on.
In other news, water is wet. The fact that anyone is surprised by this shows how stupid and politically correct our culture has become. The average 5 year old could have told you that mommy likes daddy better when he's being the man. Too bad being honest is a social crime now.
Our family is pretty busy most of the time. My wife likes to make dinner and she does the dishes most of the time. I am usually working but take up the slack when she is too tired or busy with other things. There was a time when she worked and I was Mr. Mom. That's what loving married couples do. What's the big deal? Frankly, I enjoy cooking and wish I had more time to do it.
"Men Who Do More Housework Have Less Sex" pfffft... wtf'ever. Washing dishes makes me horny. But one should be mindful to rinse thoroughly after dangling the nads in the soapy water for half hour or so, lest you enjoy a rash. ...my GF purposely stashes dishes in the sink. lolol
Tsk Tsk Tsk. Fools are those that want to force a condition that is contrary to NATURE. By and large, males are physically stronger, more aggressive, and care little about feelings and emotions. But we are witnessing a gender role reversal in Western Society. Men are emasculated and women are more masculine. Doubt that? Read the news. Women fighting, committing violent crimes, doing traditionally male jobs, getting tattooed, working out to build muscles, etc. Watch TV. Women physically and mentally beating up men. Men are portrayed as weak of mind and body. All this leading to whiny and weak men who tow the female mantra of fairness and getting along. Where the hell did the real men go!? Certainly not the liberal world, where men are pathetically efeminate.
Okay that was funny. The issue isn't the division of the housework anyway, it's the time spent doing it. I'd rather do dishes than mow a yard, but unless the yard is huge the mowing won't take as long as doing the dishes plus the laundry plus the vacuuming plus cleaning the bathroom. Nevermind if there are kids to take care of, too. If a couple works the same amount of hours then they need to split the time spent doing housework equally. But hey, if you guys can find a woman willing to put up with unequal time spent doing housework just so she can get laid more often, I'm happy for you. I've always had a better sex life in relationships where the man did all the cooking instead of spending his time on the toilet after eating my cooking!
