Are women delusional about dating???

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  1. perdidochas

    perdidochas Well-Known Member

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    Of course you did say that fat people have poor character or more precisely a sign of a lack of character. Please stop the lying. We have it in writing.

     
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    Hmm. First you say it is not fair to speak of "boys" as a generalised and homogenous entity, but then you go on ahead to use the term "average boys" which indicated you are well aware of what I am speaking of.

    What does you wearing mascara on stage have to do with anything that I said? And, obviously, "demasculinisation" was a thing in your days too since masculinity and feminity are concepts that have always existed.

    Good for you.
     
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    :no:
     
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    It may be sign of lack of self respect , if a person chooses to stay fat not exersise and honour their body with good foods it speaks about that person's character.

    I'm not saying all fat people are like this and some are just "big boned" ;) . But outside the tiny persentage of people with rare medical conditions fat people are simply choosing not to treat their own bodies properly and in the majority of cases choosing to be unhealthy.

    A fit healthy balanced body is so important i don't know why some take it for granted. The benefits are huge and improves ones quality of life dramatically.
     
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    Indeed you personalized your comment.
     
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    Actually men have the pressure of making money while women have the pressure of looking good
     
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    And I bet you do think you have a misogynist bone . Common among gay men, they hate women and we’re usually damaged
     
  8. Polydectes

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    Common thing among SJWs. Disagreement with batshit nuts ideals means hate of people.

    It's emotional pleading and it's intellectually dishonest.
     
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    And these SJWs are the ones who fight against those who think gay people are perverts and disgusting people
     
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    No. You just call people names for not agreeing with you. That isn't fighting, if anything it harms the people you think you are fighting for.
     
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    What names do I call people? I guess you will defend those who call homosexuals perverts and sickos and yes I will fight against them. We just have different values
     
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    extremist and a misogynist.

    Yes I defend free speech. That includes defending speech you don't agree with.

    I don't cry my eyeballs out and say " You only say that because you hate such and such." I'm a big boy. I learned first or second grade sticks and stones.

    I think what the world needs is fewer cry babies.
     
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    Wow! I did not expect this kind of view on homosexuals from you. :shock:
     
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    Yeah feminists think that homosexual men are misogynistic. I think it's because Ben's gay clubs we're typically male-only spaces. And they aren't having any of that.

    She's exposed quite a bit of prejudice regarding gay men toward me. Stuff you might expect to hear from took hold conversion therapy types
     
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    It’s sarcasm...duh!
     
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    This is why I use the word extremists. Here you are saying that feminists, who believe in equal rights think homosexual men are misogynistic. That is an asinine overgeneralization. There were plenty of women’s gay clubs throughout history. I lived in Greenwich Village and right across the street from a gay women’s bar . The people who hate gay men aren’t usually feminists, they are usually straight men who say gay men are perverts. You don’t see many feminists beating up homosexuals, are usually straight men You are also being disingenuous when you say that I show prejudice regarding gay men when you know damn well that I am analogizing them to your hatred of women who believe in equal rights. I have never once said a bad word regarding gay men but I have told you The comments I hear from my groups and students. You also know damn well that I defend gay people. I am very lucky because I know so many gay men and I have yet to meet one who hates feminists the way you express your feelings .The gay man I know all very close to women
     
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    When someone says he hates women who believe in equal rights (feminists) over and over..it is misogynistic
    One of the things I say in my speech to teachers is don’t use the line sticks and stones etc because words do hurt. It is obvious to me that you have been damaged by words because of your repeated deep hatred for strong women. The fact that you say that in the first or second grade it didn’t bother you that the kids made fun of you tells me how much you have internalize and I understand your attitudes. I feel sorry for you and hope you can get over how you see women.maybe you should vent in the people who are most intolerant of men like you...trump supporters
     
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    that's a lie feminists do not believe in equal rights they believe in equal outcomes. For instance look at the pay Gap myth.
    funny how the articles talking about the misogyny of gay men and the sexual harassment of women by gay men almost 100% come from feminists.

    They make up lies because they hate gay men they can say they don't they can even think that they don't but I know that they do. They don't hate them for being gay they hate them for not including women. Feminists are threatened by male only spaces.

    honestly I've never encountered a straight man beating up a homosexual because they're homosexual. I've heard of it. But it seems extremely rare. The fact that women are not violent especially toward men doesn't really make your argument. They like to write hatchet jobs against gay men. There are other ways to express hate besides violence
    you're being disingenuous when you say I hate women. I hate feminism feminism is anti-woman.

    gay men don't need your defense honey. Feminism is anti gay male. Just to Google the misogyny of gay men and there are loads of articles written by hateful feminists better pissed off because gay men operate in a male-only atmosphere.

    I don't hate feminists I hate feminism. I'm intelligent enough to separate a stupid idea from a gullible person who believes in it.

    I know you want feminism to be equal to women but that isn't how it is most women aren't feminists.
     
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    You are making up things and it is really insulting and a waste of my time. Yes that’s feminists, bashing gay men.LOL I can’t even respond to it because it is so inane. A feminist is one who believes in equal rights and to say that the pay gap is a myth IS also not worth responding to
    Accusing feminists of hating gay men just reinforces my belief that you have been damaged by women. Yes all those feminists that go around beating up gay men are just such a problem. RIGHT.? And I do have to laugh at you hate feminism but you don’t hate feminists and don’t even realize it makes absolutely no sense. And I don’t think you are, as you say intelligent enough , to separate a “stupid idea “
    I don’t know what kind of women you have met in your life But there is a stereotype that gay men are gay because they hate women. I used to say that isn’t true but now I’m beginning to think in some cases it is
    By the way I’m not one of your boyfriends, so don’t call me honey
     
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    I find it amusing that you think criticism of feminism equates to hatred of women.

    Feminism isn't about Equality if rights that's egalitarianism. Feminism is about equality of outcomes. I think it's a bad ideology just like white Supremacy is a bad ideology, that doesn't mean I hate white people. But white supremacists say that I do for the exact same reason you say I hate women. To protect your ideology.
     
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    You want to make up your own definitions go ahead. Meantime We ignored guys like you and lives of women have changed. I am sure you probably say the same thing about the activists who fight for your gay rights. People hate them as well because they don’t like their “ideology”..besides there’s never been discrimination against gays, right? What a myth (sarcasm alert)
     
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    I have to tell you I literally laughed out loud when I read this.

    You completely fabricated statements that I never made and you believe I said them.

    It's almost the Mandela effect.


    bashing in the sense of hit piece articles yes I wouldn't say it's quite as bad as the family research council but it's not much better. Every feminist blog or news site has at least one article about how misogynistic gay men are.

    I think it's because feminism is threatened bike gay men.

    feminists do not believe in equal rights they believe in equal outcomes. Case and point the pay Gap. It is an earnings Gap. women don't learn as much as men because they don't work as much as men that's not a pay Gap that's an earnings Gap. to say you should get paid the same as somebody else without working the same as somebody else is communism.

    your beliefs are directly rooted to your ideology. Just like a white supremacist.

    so the only way you can express hate is by beating people up?

    I would say you have a pretty poor understanding of humanity.

    Falsely accusing them of misogyny because they existed a space that doesn't need women and being threatened by that seems to be mostly and insecurity but to attack them is a form of lashing out.

    yes most primitive people laugh at that level of sophistication because they don't understand it.

    an ideology such as feminism or fundamentalist Christianity is not a people. And I understand primitive people are easily brainwashed. I don't fault you for being primitive it's not your fault. You may have been suffering from some form of grief or some form of existential anxiety and found comfort in your ideological philosophy. That's why anybody joins a movement.

    it's because you don't think your stupid idea is as stupid as it is. in that regard you have engaged in puritanical thinking.

    essentially just like the Puritans everything feminism says or does is right because it's feminism and feminism is supreme. I reject that form of primitive thinking it's difficult because you go into a lot of things having to sort through a lot of nuance. Where is you could just say no feminism says that's wrong so it's bad.

    Black and white dichotomy are for people with lesser intelligence. it's surprising to me you adhere to this because you seem smarter than that

    I've met a lot of people from a lot of different walks of life in my life. and the reason why people would believe that sort of thing is because it's easier been trying to figure out why some people are gay or trying to figure out if you're orthodoxy is genuine.
    that's no surprise to me you're starting to think this because of only me and not because you actually believe that it's because I'm challenging your orthodoxy. You do like all people naturally want to protect your orthodoxy. You don't want to be wrong. But as I get older the more I understand the people who are the most sure of themselves are typically wrong.
    Oh that isn't a term I use for my boyfriend, it's sort of a tongue-in-cheek expression I use against people who get very defensive when I challenged their orthodoxy.
     
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    I base it on what I see. And what I see or hear from feminists is that there's not enough women in CEO positions because patriarchy. it isn't too because women don't want to be CEOs that's what every little girl dreams about being from day one right?

    I see it when people reference in earnings Gap as a pay Gap. women on average work fewer hours than men so they don't earn as much money as men but they should be paid the same as men because patriarchy.

    Feminism is just a form of Communism in that regard.
    no surprise there when your orthodoxy gets challenged it's typical to avoid addressing the challenge.
    well it depends on the activism. By living out I'm an activist.
    hating people over their ideology is puritanism. I don't think it's any more right or good if you do it, versus a white supremacist doing it.

    The end does not justify the means. But then again I'm not trying to protect an orthodoxy, you are.
     
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    I can’t waste my time with your women issues. Stick to straight men, they’re so tolerant of homosexuals LOL
     
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    Lol projecting issues onto others in an attempt to avoid criticism.

    I can't say I am surprised but I did expect better.
     

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