at 30, where the hell are single women?

My not be the best but it's all I've got. The women aren't coming up to me. I need to do everything I can to find them in the hope of finding the right one. Believe me I refuse to settle, but when there are no girls around to begin with (*)(*)(*)(*) is much more difficult. All I want is options. I don't expect to find my girl in the first few dates and I give a (*)(*)(*)(*) about getting laid because I can do that anyway. What I need is that girl that I give (*)(*)(*)(*) about who gives a (*)(*)(*)(*) back.

 

probably church or have to use christian singles or another god fearing website, bars are only going to get you gold diggers looking for a ride on the side of their real boyfriends..

since you have a job, a house, and not on welfare they would love to date you.

 

"If you arent happy with yourself, no one else can make you happy"

I have been divorced for about 10 years. Have pretty much been single this whole time. I have been on dates but nothing that lasted. I had a daughter to concentrate on and I had to learn things about myself before bringing anyone else in.

Now that my daughter is older, I would like to find a good man to settle into lifes routines with. Do I NEED a man? No. But it would be nice.

OP - I dont know how old you are...but go out, have fun, join groups of interest. Dont put so much into meeting THAT girl. It will happen. It just has taken longer for some of us

 

30?

You have to wait for the divorcees now.

That's not going to be easy since apparently heterosexual women are part of a traditional married family life and divorce simply never, ever happens in one of those.

Unless they're liberal but I'm not sure they'd even count as a woman if they're liberal? At least going by many of the comments here.

 

I met mrs wyly when I was 29 and she was 19...at 30 he's still in prime years for uni graduates and 20s professionals...

 

Try spray painting your phone number in womens bathrooms, works like a charm but the women do tend to be........adventuresome.

 

That's the thing; I'm not religious.

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Like I said, not trying to settle, just trying to find them. That's the hard part. Wouldn't be a problem if girls were around but they simply are not.

 

Colleges have lots of single chicks. Just hit on the seniors. They are the most likely to want to settle down, but they are still young and hot.

You're welcome.

 

http://www.farmersonly.com/

 

I checked the male female ratio in your area and its the normal split, slightly more women than men...you're just looking in the right places...

 

I believe it would be easier, if women were more willing to be girls and friends, at the same time.

 

Not sure I understand this....

Care to elaborate?

 

sorry the concept of friendship is soo difficult for many women

 

No need to be a smartass...

Your statement had nothing to do with where to meet single females. He isnt looking for a friend to hang out with. He is looking for a female to form a relationship with. I go out with friends..who are guys at the same time....but I dont think their girlfriends would be happy if started to date them as well.

 

it has to do with the concept of friendship, even in the most heterosexual of manners and fashions. most women only seem to know how to stereotype and complain about it afterward.