Build a house, plant a tree, have a child http://h2bam.blogspot.com/2015/06/build-house-plant-tree-have-child.html Funny that this appears here as "a German saying". Here in Germany people think that it is a Chinese saying. And in China they probably think that it is an Indian saying. And in truth nobody knows where this saying comes from. But let's make a poll out of it! Where women also can take part.
This sounds like Earnest Hemingways that to be a man a man must 1) Father a son 2) Plant a Tree. 3) Fight a bull. 4) Write a book. I've done all of those except father a son. My wife and I had a daughter.
I am paying the mortgage on a house, I have two step kids and I have planted many trees (and I havn't yet cut any down that were still alive). I am yet planning to sell this house and build one of my own and I would like to have children of my own as well (thats the only thing I can't figure out how to do by myself...)
I’ve done all those things. The most rewarding over time is having a son and daughter, and now grandsons and daughters.