Can sexuality change over time?

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  1. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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  2. ChrisL

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    That's not it at all. You took it upon yourself to answer my post, yet you have no answers! You just keep nitpicking at particular phrases or whether the man who refers to HIMSELF as a feminine man is feminine or not! Get lost and good riddance. I don't want to waste my time with a person who can't be honest.
     
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    Ritter Well-Known Member

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    Good God, how annoying! He needs some testosterone therapy or something. :laughing:

    Body language and tone/melody of voice/speech is as "wannabe-princess" you can get imo. :p
     
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  4. Ritter

    Ritter Well-Known Member

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    I do not wish to turn this thread into a bullying campaign of some random YouTuber, but before I leave him alone, I will just add that the best part of the video was when he pulled his hair behind his ear - lmao, he has short hair ffs, what the heck is he doing?! :p

    PS. No, I did not watch the whole thing. I just watched a couple of seconds before forwarding it a few minutes to then watch a few seconds again.
     
  5. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    Well I'm who you were addressing.
    I asked you a very specific question. I basically caught you in an assumption and you fumbled and sputtered and blathered about him calling himself feminine.

    As far as I'm concerned you are completely devoid on intellect when it comes to this.

    No princess I'm not going anywhere. If you want to stop seeing my posts stop logging on, stop responding, or put me on ignore.
    That's all up to you babe
     
  6. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    Well there are guys like this. They aren't like women. Assuming you're a straight man you probably wouldn't find them attractive.

    ChrisL doesn't seem to understand why.
     
  7. Ritter

    Ritter Well-Known Member

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    As I understood it, what ChrisL does not understand is not the fact that there are feminine men. But rather, her "problem" is to grasp why some homosexual men are attracted to feminine men.

    "Gays are supposed to be attracted to men, so why do not they all prefer masculinity?" Or something along that line.
     
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  8. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    Do you see feminine men as women?

    See this question really pissed her off but it's the fundamental point in trying to make.

    The fact is you likely don't see them as women gay men don't either
     
  9. Ritter

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    Obviously not. Most people are very confused when it comes to masculinity/femininity and male/female, so no need to waste your energy and anger. :)
     
  10. tecoyah

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    I have yet to meet ANYONE "Confused" about gender or sexuality. Perhaps you see those who do not think as you do as confused?
     
  11. Ritter

    Ritter Well-Known Member

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    Well, with "confused" I meant "uninformed", which is really true that most people are.

    These are very complex issues with loads and loads of exceptions to the rule(s). I am not a biologist or even anything close to that, but my leisure-reading has helped broaden my understanding. Although I too am still confused.:p

    It is very difficult. Nature is a b*tch.
     
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    On rare occasions, a homogenic chromosome (XX/female) fetus can develop into a perfectly normal male. This is because, sometimes, what is supposed to develop into a "Y" skips to the X-chromosome... Or something like that.

    Most homosexuals typically have a more feminine brain which might explain why some gay men act all girly and why some of them are so attracted to masculinity. Sometimes, it is the opposite.

    There is so much reading to do on this that it is nearly impossible to get full understanding for this unless you devote you devote your life to it. :p

    I remain strong in my belief that sexuality is determined in the womb and therefore cannot change.
     
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  13. Polydectes

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    I don't understand why it's not that difficult. Further I'm not angry. Seems i really ticked ChrisL off
     
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    Good, good. :thumbsup:

    It is actually quite difficult to understand though. These things can make you really dizzy. :p
     
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    Women are Crazy
    Men are Stupid
    Women are Crazy because Men are Stupid
    Men are Stupid because Women say they are and we know better that to argue.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Why does the whole Homosexuality issue even matter unless you are Homosexual?

    Why does what ANYONE does with their sex life matter to anyone not involved?
     
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  17. Polydectes

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    No I disagree it's really straightforward it only becomes confusing when people try and pretend they're something they're not.
     
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    How and when do People try and pretend to be something they are not ???????
     
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    I agree. As long as it's between consenting adults...it just does not matter.
     
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    What happens if it is between people of the same age, below the age of consent ?
     
  21. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    Have you been living under a rock?
     
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    Yes, that plus an unfortunate accident with a grenade, I don't always understand some simple concepts and things.

    Thats ok, if it makes you happy, insult away.....
     
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  23. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    So you've never met a gay person that tried to be straight?
     
  24. Skruddgemire

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    I have a perfect example of that. I was my first wife's last attempt to figure out her life and her own sexuality. When she and I divorced...she followed her girlfriend out to California.

    So DoctorWho...it does happen. People have many reasons for pretending to be something that they are not.
     
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    They are reprimanded and stopped but that is another topic entirely.
     

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