Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life

I'm not sure it's good for children otherwise. We know the effect of absent father on children and it's a disaster.

 

No problem. Don't have kids. Having children isn't the end all in life. And the LAST thing the planet needs is more people. Not reproducing is the single biggest thing a person can do to help reduce climate change, and the load on water and food sources,

And what is the damage from a bad marriage? My childhood was horrible. And when my father died, I never shed a tear. How many of those fatherless children they consider were damaged BECAUSE they had a father who was abusive and then left?

There is the additional consideration of bringing children into a world heading for a planetary crisis. I'm glad I don't have children. I can pass on without worrying that they will die a horrible death or endure terrible suffering.

 

Translation: Self-entitled, narcissistic and egocentric women believe they are somehow going to have men line up in order to date them. What a joke, tho then again this is NY Post..

The problem isn't "childish men". It's women with such high standards that their dating pool basically consists of 0.01% of the male population. A pool that is already taken, by either other women or men for that matter.

But if they continue like this they will end up in their 40's, alone and with a bunch of cats because their standards are idealistic as opposed to realistic.

 

I can see both sides here.

I consider it wise to wait until you are financially secure to have children.

I also see the perception of financial security requiring more and more 'secureness', thus decreasing the reproduction rate.

IMO its due to the increasing 'renter' society. I think folks subconsciously feel more secure when they 'own' a home, even if they're realistically just paying a mortgage instead of rent. It still feels more like 'home'. But more and more people are renting rather than buying. And that is due in large part to the difficulties in buying a home- both financially and bureaucratically. But I think theres more to it.

 

Women don’t need men as much as men need women. Women tend to have very good friends they do things with. Many women prefer being in their 40s with a bunch of cats than to be with a childish man. Besides if women want children they don’t need a husband
Sound like you have been damaged by women

 

They don't need a husband, however the children need some father.
There is a conference of P.Zimbardo on that if you have time :


Considering how it's damagefull for young boys, if there were a way to prevent women alone to get male children, it would be good for those young men health. That way doesn't exist by the way.

You're completely wrong however if you think that women don't need as much men than women, it was maybe true for your generation, but for millenials, it's not.

 

Women do not own men, men just like women have the right to live their lives as they want.

The real down for women is that their educational attainment is outpacing men.

Educated white women are beginning to face what black educated women have know for twenty years: their mating pool is shrinking.

Many educated white women will be facing a future that if they want children, they will economically sufficient single mothers raising children without fathers in the home.

 

Women like men more than men like women is the issue.

Women prefer to be married in their forties and older than not.

However, when women realize that romance is not the center of life for finding happiness, they become more satisfied with themselves and being single.

 

Men are happy without women, more so than women are without men, especially when you have enough women claiming rape/sexual harassment just because they didn't like the man during a date. Men are simply going to give women the middle finger.

This kind of narcissistic, egocentric and abuse of power are hurting both genders, especially gender relations.

Men are happy without women. Women however will end up alone with no kids if their interior is ugly, narcissistic and abusive towards men.

 

Women can have children without having men in the home picture.

The issue will be "do they want to?"

 

Then why are they complaining about them not growing up just shut up and go buy some cats.

 

Are ypu sure about that?

And prefer to marry women who are not two weeks from infertility and, thus, one of the greater problems with modern "dating culture" is that it encourages young women to "have children later" because it is more important to "explore and experience oneself first".

If love is not the center of happiness, what is?

 

Mabye he was brought up by a single mom, that could explain why he's "damaged"....

 

If they are averagely hot, they will.

No. It is a combination, although men carry the larger portion of the blame since they are the ones who have allowed this to happen. A man who takes control and shows confidence can conquer most ladies and men are no longer doing this because they are weak.

And the men will end up as 28 year old Incels who drives a car into a bunch of innocent people.

 

I got married in my late 20s and in my day that was old. I had been engaged to someone else and was supposed to be married at 22 and I just thought I was too young and then there was the whole sexual revolution and hippie movement and I broke up and moved to Greenwich Village with my friend. We traveled the world and the country before I finally settle down at 27. I hoped that my daughter would not marry young and she didn’t and had all those experiences that you can only have as a single person .She married at 30 and had two children and doesn’t look back and wonder what it would have been like to have had all those worldly experiences