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  1. ButterflieKath

    ButterflieKath Newly Registered

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    New and saying Hi to everyone.
     
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    Well Bonded Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Hello, interesting screen name.

    Without prying too much, might I ask what are your political leanings, if any?
     
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    Hello, I really like butterflies. I lean towards the conservative side on most issues.
     
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    We have huge Monarchs flying around here and tiny little white one that show up in the late afternoon and while they are not butterfly's we have huge dragon flies, they are real handy to have around, if not for them we couldn't go out at night because of all the mosquito's we would have around here.

    Anyhow once again, welcome, have fun, and watch out for troll's, unlike mosquito's they don't bite, but like gnats they are annoying.
     
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    Texan Well-Known Member

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    Welcome aboard.
     
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    modernpaladin Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Welcome!

    Jump in to a debate somewhere.

    IME many folks here don't even pay much attention to whom they're responding to, so don't feel like ur 'too new' to participate :)
     
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    Welcome Kath!
     
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    Thank you for the welcome...
     
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    Thank you..
     
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    Thank you..
     
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    Welcome!

    I think you'll like this particular forum and find that you learn a little more as you write and research the topics you chose to discuss.

    Enjoy yourself.
     
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    Thank you...
     
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    Thank you, I enjoy learning new things.
     
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    modernpaladin Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    More advice-

    Personal attacks will get you reprimanded/banned.

    'You're stupid' is objectively a personal attack.

    'That's stupid' objectively is not, even though it makes the same general point.

    -Disclaimer: Im not a mod, this is only my opinion and experience ;)
     
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    Thanks for the advice, I will try to behave myself..... : )
     
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    I am going to add to this, watch out for folks who try to bait you into a personal attack and then quickly report it, if someone ever tires that just understand at that point you have already proved them incorrect and they are trying to get even.

    Sometimes I just push a few more buttons other times I do something totally off the wall like, "I love it when you post nasty to me, please beat me some more." Either way it stops the effort.
     
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    Hello. I'm sure you'll have a chuckle here, this place is inhabited by all sorts; including an ample supply of self proclaimed experts on everything, keyboard warriors and total nut jobs....they're all here....have fun....:)....and remember its the internet....don't take it too seriously....
     
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    While I am part of that group, I believe there is not an ample enough supply of us to go around.

    We have lots of vacancies would like to fill one of them. ;-)
     
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    I tend to think of it as dodging the insecurities of the perpetually overly emotional.
     
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    ....a slogan....you need a slogan...something snappy....something that will entice people; stop them waiting for the phone to tootle, arise from the sofa and put in a good solid shift here in the forum!
     
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    Welcome.
     
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    I've found that in discussing different topics with different people it's impossible not to learn new things especially as you research the topic at hand to build a better argument for your position.

    I also feel that it is entirely possible to differ with someone even on volatile subjects without becoming snarky or hostile. Generally, the more secure a person is on their position, the less likely they are to become abusive.

    Anyway, I look forward to reading your comments and hope you will enjoy yourself.
     
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    Welcome. Don't take much on here too personally, use sarcasm as much as possible, and make sure you put your shin guards on before logging in.

    Being the newbie, you are responsible for the coffee and donuts for the next week.
     
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  24. ButterflieKath

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    Thanks Grau, I hope to have good conversations with the members here. I agree, you can have different opinions and still be civil with your debates.
     
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    LOL! Okay... Cinnamon buns it will be...
     
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