How a husband can enjoy sex that is grudgingly given by his wife

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  1. ellesdee

    ellesdee Well-Known Member

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    http://biblicalgenderroles.com/2015...joy-sex-that-is-grudgingly-given-by-his-wife/

    This article is designed to instruct a man on how to enjoy having sex with his wife even when she begrudgingly accepts it but refuses to "fake it." Don't look her in the eyes, it explains. Focus on her body. Then you don't have to feel guilty from the look of utter disgust and displeasure she displays.

    Marital rape was banned in the 1990s. I'm sad to find that there are still women who submit to it. Maybe they aren't aware that the law is on their side. What shocks me even more, though, is that there are still men out there who think this is a suitable option for expressing their "love" for their wives.

    Just out some of the comments if you want to hear from some very creepy husbands.
     
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    Alucard New Member Past Donor

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    It would be best if a religious married couple pledged to be celibate and sleep in separate bedrooms. If what a religious married couple do in their bedroom is suppose to be a "gift," then this "gift," if it is suppose to be acceptable and not sinful, could be done in front of their children.
     
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    HonestJoe Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Also, why are they shoving their sex lives in our faces? Shouldn't they be keeping it in the bedroom? :cool:
     
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    You know that sorta works both ways.
     
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    ellesdee Well-Known Member

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    What sort of works both ways?
     
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    <Mod Edit> Just do a little role reversal here. BTW what are you going to tell all those Muslims that the libs are importing? I can just see the look on Ahmed's face when you tell him what he can and can't do to the little woman. <Rule 3>
     
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    I didn't write anything about religion in my comments. The article speaks for itself. I suppose a wife can feel frustrated by a unwilling husband, but I don't see anything in that article to suggest that it was also intended for frustrated wives. Either way, marital rape is very creepy.

    <Rule 3>
     
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    Thank you for your thoughts.
     
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    Be that as it may, what's missing here is the relevance to anything you quoted.
     
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    Spooky Banned Donor

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    One of the wife's duty's is to sexually please her husband. If women have a problem with that then.......wait for it.....don't get married.
     
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    Sounds like it's time to part ways, if sex is so horrible between the two.
     
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    Tell me, you don't really believe that.
     
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    After two+ years and finally the words "I guess it is my wifely duty" I found the solution...DIVORCE.

    Seemed far better that cheating on her.
     
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    That's what Husbands have girlfriends for.
     
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    Bluespade Banned

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    Unless you're into joyless and sexless marriages, why wouldn't you expect your partner to do her part. It takes two to make it work.
     
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    Spooky Banned Donor

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    Sex is very important in a relationship, just like all the other duties that come with it for both the man and wife. If you are not prepared to do them then stay single.
     
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    ellesdee Well-Known Member

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    Even if you don't call it marital rape, what the article is describing is very creepy. It's a pity a some men still view their wives in such a manner.
     
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    ellesdee Well-Known Member

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    I'm sorry things didn't work out for the two of you, but I agree that divorce is sometimes the only way to deal with such problems within a relationship. My wife and I nearly went that same route a couple of years ago for similar reasons. Thankfully, we found ways of reigniting our original passion for each other.
     
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    You seem pretty one sided in your opinion.
     
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    If what you mean is 'duty sex', it translates into joyless for her, and sex for him. It isn't working if there is emotional guilt or coercion behind the sex. This does not work like dish duty where she washes and he dries.
     

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