How a husband can enjoy sex that is grudgingly given by his wife

I do suddenly find myself in a very agreeable mood during a HJ.

 

When it comes to the bedroom, my wife is my goddess, and I worship her like the sun.

 

Just reading this caused me to check to make sure my junk is where it's supposed to be, rather than some overpriced purse.

 

Haha... What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.

 

Wives will begrudgingly give, but thinking it doesn't come with a cost is idiot.
Both sexes exploit their assets and use them to their advantage. That this seems taboo is.. Laughable.

 

By surprising her with anal.

 

The neighbor's DAUGHTER??????? oh, really.......so say your wife is sick for a month and you have the YOUNGER alternative all lined up???

 

Yes, that's part of my point on this thread.

I'm not sure how this relates to the article. Are you saying that a wife is a man's asset?

 

Some guys who have 'dicks'... are also psychopaths. (Nothing new, but it's an ugly effect that comes with some human beings.)

Those are the people who could 'rape' a person and enjoy it.

 

It's a shame for the ladies that for a man to sincerely desire to please a woman in bed is equated to forfeiting your manhood.

Do men not understand how much easier it is to deal with women on a daily basis when she has regular orgasms two or three times a month? That (*)(*)(*)(*) is better than Prozac for a woman's general mood!

Machismo isn't worth a (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)y wife. Shakespeare taught us this in The Taming of the Shrew: you got to kill her with kindness.

 

Your wife wouldn't "grudgingly" have sex with you if you were giving her what she needed. In other words, sex is a two way street. Give her pleasure first then you can have yours. Duh

 

Who wrote that rule?

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There are no " duties " it is a family/living arrangement between two or more consenting adults.

 

Sometimes. Power, control, and influence are attained by a myriad of ways.

 

If you were doing your job she'd be (*)(*)(*)(*)ing you happily. Do some chores around the house without being asked. Cook her dinner. Foreplay. I really can't stress the foreplay enough. Learn to lick (*)(*)(*)(*)(*).

 

No, don't think anyone should be cheating after a month=) A month isn't unheard of when you factor in some scenarios.

 

You think some women begrudgingly consent to sex as a way to gain influence over their husbands? How many people are there in this country who are in a continuous power struggle with their partner? I always assumed most couples viewed themselves as equal partners in their relationship.

 

You think women don't use sex?
Are you married?

 

Women and men are very different creatures.
Why denial of that is so prevalent confounds me.

 

There are way too many women in the world who love sex to waste your life with one who doesn't.
When things are not working, make a change. Life is full of opportunities, if you are not happy, you have only yourself to hold responsible.

 

Sure I think many do, but the article is referring specifically to women who are obviously displeased by at least some of their sexual encounters. I pity women who have to go through that just to gain a little power in their relationship.

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Who is denying that men and women are different?

 

I pity men who are so easily manipulated by it.
Women are overwhelmingly displeased in bed. Their nurturing and caretaking tendencies tend to favor making their mate feel accomplished and satisfied over their own pleasure. It is our nature. And we have you all convinced you're magnificent.

 

many married too young, fell out of love, whatever and wont divorce because of religion or whatever reason... not all married couples love one another in a sexual way, why it's a good idea to have sex before marriage imo

 

Having an orgasm and love aren't synonymous at all.
If I wanted to marry great sex, I would have was my Hitachi Magic Wand.

 

I believe it considering articles like this one exist. "Your wife doesn't want to have sex because she gets no pleasure from it? Who gives a (*)(*)(*)(*)? Just cover that ugly sinful face with a paper bag."

Sucks for you.

Except for that guy who wrote to Biblical Gender Roles looking for advice because he's racked with guilt over begrudged sex with his wife.

 

A sexless marriage is not a problem if both partners are comfortable with it, but the article is obviously not intended for those couples.