I hate my bias.

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  1. robini123

    robini123 Well-Known Member

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    I hate my bias. It is subtle and sneaky. Our bias is often innate and even when a bias is learned it can be incredibly tough to break free of. I chalk this up to we as a species tend to have a driving need to be right as opposed to correct... if you get my drift. Being right is easy, I just say whatever feels right... operative word "feels". Being correct takes much more work as I have to objectively examine evidence in a critical fashion and follow the evidence to whatever it leads, even if it leads me to conclude that a previous view of mine was incorrect. Sadly my fragile little snowflake ego has a problem with being incorrect to such an extreme that it enlists bias to keep me locked into a false narrative out of a fear of having to admit to others that I was wrong or otherwise may not be as smart as I like to think I am.

    Over time I have learned to be more mindful of my thoughts and tend to catch my bias as it rises from the subconscious to consciousness. When I think passively (feelings based) I am much more susceptible to my bias, but when I think deeply and critically I am better able to identify my bias and take action to mitigate is corrosive effects before it take root.

    I am at war with my bias!
     
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    vman12 Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Aren't we all?

    Knowing yourself is the hardest task of all.
     
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    yiostheoy Well-Known Member

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    Well that's cryptic.
     
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    yiostheoy Well-Known Member

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    I am what I am and that's all what I am 'cause I'm Popeye The Sailor man !!
     
  5. robini123

    robini123 Well-Known Member

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    I would say yes.

    So true.
     
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    What is the cryptic part? Are you referring to what I posted or what vman12 posted?
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I think you usded two many werds.
     
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    vman12 Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    We all have it. It's only dangerous when you believe you don't have any bias.

    You should always challenge your positions.

    If it's not challenged, you don't have a position, you have a belief.
     
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    Well said.
     
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    @vman12 is on my iggy list so I did not know he had spouted something.

    I was referring to your post @robini123 the guitar playing kitty avatar yes.
     
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    Embrace your bias, then set it, and yourself free.

     
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