I am extremely depressed right now. Five days ago, I met someone who I thought was pretty cool. We got along well, or so I thought. She gave me a way to contact her. Yesterday or the day before, this means of staying in contact became permanently unavailable (not at her request, mind you). However, I was able to use the information she had given me to find alternative means of contacting her - but also a whole lot more. She was using her real full name everywhere and using actual pictures of her face for the avatars on all of her online accounts. I had to let her know that she was being careless about her online identity and privacy. Unfortunately, my demonstration today was TOO effective. I scared her so badly that she locked herself in the bathroom. I was devastated! I only reached out on that first day because I wanted her to feel less alone. I showed up today to let her know how to be safer. Now she only feels less safe and more alone. I can't stand the thought of causing her that much pain. I wish I could help somehow. I wish I could explain everything and make her feel better again. I wish I could make everything right. But her family says that if I try to contact her again, I'll get a face full of restraining orders. What should I do?