You want me to walk away? Oh no, you don’t love me anymore But the problem is my name is not pronounced like it is in the song
There are plenty of social issues which accrue to men more so than women which in sum could be represented on a forum and are represented in a 'movement' of sorts. There's nothing inherently wrong with establishing spaces in which such things can be discussed specifically. Any notion otherwise is baseless.
Our problem as men is our ancestors in the West gave women access to the Franchise, the vote, we lost the gender war at that point. So why shouldn't more men go their own way since the majority of women don't like men very much it seems?
I would appreciate not being included amongst the "Our" of anything you type in the future. Personally I like women and wish to enjoy mine in the future...
But do you respect men? That was the common thread I observed in my family of abusive women, in friends and how they interacted with their wives, and my ex wife: Women genuinely see themselves as superior to men. They see us as objects to be manipulated and used, but not to be respected. We are a means to an end, not partners in life. I have come to believe that women's liberation beat women over their heads for decades. The idea that all their problems are because of men was deeply instilled in their worldviews. Eventually this led to a bunch of abusive, intolerable, perpetual victims. My wife was a great example. It didn't matter what it was. She always found a way to blame me or men in general, and make herself a victim. At this point I couldn't trust any woman my age. My entire life they have done nothing but use and abuse; abuse the love and trust they were shown. My ex continued this right into divorce court where she nearly landed her butt in jail for perjury. Never in my wildest imagination did I think she could be so ruthless and conniving, and uncaring! She didn't give a crap about me at all. After 25 years I had no idea who I had married. The entire marriage was a lie. Entitled, abusive, dishonest, disrespectful, perpetual victims, who needs that? That's why I now see sugar babies.
It is painfully clear that your "Experience" with females is not anything approaching a norm and that you in particular have no room to comment on respect amongst the genders.
A 52 year old child, married three times who spent his young adult life as a popular heavy metal singer and gained enough "Experience" to understand women enough to be married to one of the most Beautiful and intelligent samples on my continent at least. I do not feel the need to write fantasy novella about the things I dream of as I have actually lived and regretted enough of them.
Women see themselves a superior to men? Ya gotta be kidding, I am so sorry you had such bad experiences with women to make you so bitter. I adore and respect my husband,,,of course I would love to hear your wife’s side I was and am an activist feminist and sadly I met men like you..bitter and insecure and threatened, we were victims of sexism....when we were denied the rights you took for granted, we were “victimsl. I guess you just liked your role as victimizer Your hatred for women should be addressed by a therapist. And I mean this kindly
Oh please, that you don't even consider it shows that you have the same mindset. I don't know how old you are, but many of the young women I've seen know exactly what I'm talking about. They see it in their mothers and often resent it. Or maybe to be more accurate, are annoyed by it. We saw this explicitly play out when Madeline Albright said there is a special place in hell for women who don't support Hillary. That played as a wedge issue, with younger women resenting her comments. That is the view of old women. There is a generation gap in the women's rights movement in a big way! Younger women haven't been browbeaten into blaming men for everything from the injustices in life to the time sun rises. And they don't think a woman should be elected JUST BECAUSE she's a woman. Of course you would. Why believe a man. The judge heard my wife's side and it almost landed her in jail. All false claims. Your offensive posture with someone you don't even know is a dead giveaway of your obvious bias. Insecure? Threatened? Hardly. In fact that is laughable! I just don't like most women my age. They aren't nice people. A large percentage of two generations of women were basically ruined by feminism. They were brainwashed into resenting men their entire lives. So why would anyone want to be around them? And I'm not saying this applies to everyone. The fact is, my mother was a feminist and I was completely sucked in for a good part of my life. But slowly I began to see how it evolved into a dismissive, abusive, false sense of superiority in women. I began to see how pervasive it is in television and movies. I began to realize that men have been given the shaft. And that is why so many men are killing themselves - up to ten times the rate that women do. Life for many simply becomes intolerable. Work till you drop - just be sure the life insurance is paid up. And don't expect anyone to give a damn about our happiness. Bitter? Not so much anymore. I got off the treadmill. I've spent the last six years with gorgeous women who know how to be nice and kind. I know it's an age issue, not a sex issue. For the most part, younger women have more enlightened views and are far more understanding of men. They are also far more comfortable with their own sexuality. Consequently, they are far more comfortable with men's sexuality. My life for the last six years has been a cross between a wild adventure, and at times, an incredible dream. I didn't know it was possible to be so happy. Thank god for sugar babies.
I think both sexes have the natural tendency to apply their bad experiences with the opposite sex onto an entire group. Y'know see women and men through the prism of their terrible ex partners. Some men and some women are awful, terrible c*nts, it's true. Any experience supporting this fact isn't really fantastic. Which statement is more acceptable in society: All men are c*nts All women are c*nts and for a bonus... which statement is more true?
I believe that is called, "projecting". Everyone does it, but it usually is associated with whatever one has had some kind of trauma from the past. Those same men and women may be a great partner for someone else.
Some are genuinely irredeemable and would only be good for someone inasmuch as that someone could delude themselves into thinking so. But sure... 'one man's trash is another man's treasure'. I think if you find yourself repeating awful experiences with the opposite sex it probably says more about you as an individual than women or men as a whole. It's part of growing up, realising that. People hand you red flags all the time if you're looking for them, if you're not, or you choose to ignore them, it's on you. Judgement is key!
I simply said those same men and women may be a great partner for someone else. The implication is not all men or women, but some.. Some folks just don't get along well together. If you continue sleeping around and losing a partner, sure, you have a problem with commitment in a monogamous relationship. That's only one example.
'one man's trash is another man's treasure' -- this was to indicate that we are in agreement on this.
Wow...you are so out of touch...I work with women’s groups and have done so for decades. You are wrong about something that is happening right now .... that is the generation gap with women is closing. You were right some years ago....but young women are embracing feminism like anything. Remember the women’s march? #me too? I do realize you have mother issues and rather than spew this misogynistic crap, why not see a therapist...preferably a male. You say how happy you are....but sadly I don’t believe you . Everything you write shows a man seething with rage. I hope I am wrong, Women are more comfortable with men’s sexuality? What does that even mean? Actually I see millions of women saying quite the opposite. Where have you been?
