My Second Life and other Secrets

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    So now we return to familiar territory - the game of cat and mouse. How close does she really want to get? And how close can we get? So far it seems possible to me that I would like to see her for many years and get very close. I don't know if she is open to that possibility or not but her profile suggested not.

    This was a game with Number One for over 2 years. We got much closer than she wanted to get. It took her 18 months but she finally broke down and admitted that she loved me, while crying. She tried so hard not to love me because she knew it couldn't last. I on the other hand approach this with reckless abandon. I would rather love while I can and then let go if I must.

    It is absolutely true- it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. So

    So now we will see. I will drop hints and do the little things that show her I am falling in love. I will make every effort to make her feel special. But as with Number One, it has to be subtle and cool. No big movements. LOL! I don't know if she will draw a line in the sand or give in to any feelings she might have. What I see in her eyes, and what I'm starting to feel, tells me anything could happen. And I must say, when it comes to sex, we had passion from almost the first moment.
     
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    We are far enough down the road to share this now I guess. This is a photo of me with Number One. I wish I could freely share all of my photos. She and a couple of other women I've seen were absolutely stunning! Since almost ending my life, I have been with the most beautiful women I've ever met. Funny how life can change like that.

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    Given that I have been called a liar probably dozens of times in this thread, I assume apologies will be forthcoming.
     
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    A few other select photos of women I have seen for a time. The one giving the lecture is one [of two] who was working on her Ph.D, I saw her for almost two years. She and Number One are the two most beautiful women I've ever met, bar none. I could show you photos of both that would drop your jaws. I met her while having a threesome with another young lady I saw for about a year, seen with the ATVs. We spent a day riding in the wilds. Another young lady is seen who joined me for some fun at IFly - an indoor vertical wind tunnel. I have discussed my time with all of them. The last shot is me being sucker for Number One, as always.

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    That isn't quite right and it is one of the greatest stories from the last ten years. I had been seeing the young lady with the ATVs for about a year. And she had actually been using me to explore her sexual fantasies. Of course I was happy to oblige. But then one day she started telling me how she has always wanted to be with another woman, but she never had the nerve to approach anyone. I asked her if she'd like me to find another woman who can join us and she said yes. In fact she was DYING to be with another women. She wanted this really badly. So I took that to heart and made it my mission to find another attractive young lady who wants to join us.

    I worked my butt off for weeks texting women and reading profiles. After having a few awkward conversations with women on the dating sites, I found a response from one who was really interested. This was the morning of my GFs birthday and I really wanted to swing this for that evening as a birthday gift. So it was all very rushed. But the idea of being with another women her first time was exciting to her [I will call her the student]. And she wanted to meet for coffee. I remember meeting her someplace downtown at 7 AM because she had a 9 AM class. And we had quite the coffee date. I had a couple of videos of my GF on her vacations so the student could see what she looks like and get a sense of her personality. And the student was hooked. Later she told me we were both too cute to believe. Here I was on this mission for my GF who was as cute as can be. She agreed to come over that evening.

    So I sent photos of her to my GF and said we can do this tonight if you want. She was all over it. And oh yes, the student wasn't just attractive, she is a breathtaking beauty. As I stated above, she and Number One are the two most beautiful women I've ever met. It was almost too good to be true. But she said she would be at my place at 7 or so. [I think was 5 years ago almost to the day.]. My GF was very nervous but equally excited. She was drinking a lot before student arrived.

    When the student arrived and walked in, the chemistry was fantastic from the first moments. We all really hit it off. I had purchased a bottle of Dom and they were drinking that while I let them get acquainted. Within 15 minutes or so we were laughing and having a good time. They were hitting it off really well. And the student and I were equally comfortable right away. It was as if it was meant to be. And sure enough, it wasn't long before the ladies were talking about moving into the bedroom. So we did. And from there things just got better and better. The chemistry was incredible.

    I won't go into the details except to say this because it was so funny. My GF and I had gone to the sex store and purchased a strap-on for them to use. It was part of her fantasy. After the evening was over, they both wanted to know how us guys know where we are down there. They had a hell of a time navigating. LOL! But it was an amazing night. It was no less than magical. The next day we we were all texting and agreed that it was one of the best nights of our lives.

    My GF and I had actually been a bit on the edge before this. A few weeks later she really ticked me off. And when I told her she was really hurting my feelings she doubled down. So told her so long and texted the student. All it took was one text message and she said she would love to see me again. I saw her for the next two years.

    I can't even tell you how many times I would look at her and have to do a reality check. She was a stunning beauty. I couldn't believe I was with her. We had a great couple of years. But eventually her Ph.D. studies were taking too much of her time and she kept rescheduling. As much as it broke my heart to do so, I: had to end it. I can't do that. My evenings are far too special to me and I need to know I can count on my partner to show up. But for two years she was mine.

    The student told me at one point that she didn't really believe my story about my GF and her wanting to be with another woman, until she walked in and saw my GF anxiously awaiting her arrival. She almost cancelled because she thought it must be BS. But she found the videos compelling enough to check things out. When she got here she called a friend to let her know she was okay and it was all on the level. LOL!

    It was a perfect date. I can't imagine having more fun.
     
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    Its amazing how long some people masterbate.
     
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    Takes me all day sometimes (those are the better ones)
     
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    Regarding the young lady with the ATVs who was using me to explore her sexual fantasies, when we broke up, the next thing on her to-do list for me was to arrange for us to have sex while other people were watching.

    I wasn't sure how I was going to pull that one off. LOL! I figured it shouldn't be hard to get a bunch of guys to watch a young lady having sex. They wouldn't be looking at me anyway. I have heard of sex clubs where it might work but those places sounded a little on the scary-sleazy side. But it turned out that we ended it before I came up with a solution for that one.

    I have ended almost all of the relationships because I know when their new penny has lost it's shine. But the young lady with the ATVs is case where I regret ending it so quickly at times. But you shouldn't piss a guy off when he just slept with a goddess!!! Seeing the student for two years was amazing. But I was actually in love with the other young lady. However she really hurt my feelings and made me feel that she really didn't care about me. When I did end it she begged me not to. And that is the part I have never been able to get out of my head. I've often wondered if I acted too quickly and walked away from a good thing. But then I think no, she had a serious princess and the pea problem and it was only getting worse. But in fact I was in love with her and I still love her. I fell in love with several of these women.
     
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    On the up side, I may be falling in love again. :)
     
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    What Most People Say Before They Die, According To Top Hospice Doctor, Simran Malhotra – Exclusive

    For healthcare professionals who work in the field of palliative and hospice care, providing support for terminally ill patients can give a rare insight into questions many of us face when contemplating life and our own mortality. 'What really matters?' is the question many of us want to know...

    Lastly, she has found that the third most common regret amongst patients was a lack of courage to pursue a life true to their innermost self, their passions, and their desires, rather than living for other people's expectations...

    https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/we...pc=U531&cvid=0cd1e6248493458e92b763541d01c616
     
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    If you can relate to this drawing, be sure to read this thread. That was me [only I was using a 380]. And this is the story of how I found my way out and turned my life around. Be sure to see the photos above.

    That is a great representation of my ex. I mention the secret life insurance policy I discovered somewhere here.

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    Now what this photo shows if you are paying attention to learn how to be a player and score that date is:

    1. You need to define your identity with a strong haircut as we see above which says either:

    a-[​IMG] I am a pround lesbian or

    b-[​IMG] I am a little opionated


    Next and following close to the hair cut is the colour coordinated clothing suggesting a kind of playboy avant guarde devil may care attitude with distinct shades of infected wound and manure brown: Nothing says "hey man I am a player" faster than the shads you wear.

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    Then of course the crowning statement are the shoes made out of recycled plastic that say.... -" you betcha girl I will make you orgasm and I care about the environment too!"


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    Look I did not have the time to come back and say thank you for serving as my role model....but now I had time here you go and this is the impact you have had on me and I am looking forward to using your other techniques:

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    Thanks to you hear is someone who has shown interest in me:

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    I am a little confused at the moment as to why her voice is a little low but she likes to wrestle.
     
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    Did I take your breath away HereWeGoAgain?

    Look I am a highly religious guy like me finds such discussions disturbing but here are my secrets for success with the ladies:

    1. shower, brush teeth
    2. either cut/burn off or report any suspicious growths to police
    3. never compare prostate cancer to breast cancer
    4. do not drive a corvette
    5. do not use the words: babe, baby, girl, bag, hippo, rhino, elephant, warthog, Trump, huge, long, penal colony
    6. do not discuss AOC's physical appearance
     
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    This thread is actually pretty hilarious. A guy who called me a liar for relating the story of my girlfriend's battle with cancer lives The secret Life of James Bond.

    Tell us more oh secret agent Man.... 34 pages of your wild imagination is not enough.
     
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    Messed up story of your life WRM.

    My wife and I have been married 25 years this September with two teen boys. We met through my ex-gf. It was the best thing the ex-gf did, other than the sex we had
     
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    Because I don't know many essential factors that affect your life overall, I'll only say to you that you create a new life, with completely new possibilities EVERY SINGLE NEW DAY.

    I, too, have found myself shackled to events and occurrences in the past... honor your COMMITTMENTS, but understand that you and you alone control who you are, what you are, and what you will do -- today, tomorrow, and for the rest of your life! Never, ever, let some mythical "fate" determine that for you.... The idea of a predefined "fate" that controls you is bullshit. Take total control of YOUR own life, with my best wishes! :nod:
     
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    For me it wasn't fate so much as a sense of duty, and religious crap that screwed up my thinking for most of my life. But as I was holding the gun to my head, I pretty much had this realization, posted above, and a lifetime of religion and social crap turned to vapor. Now it was a matter of life and death. Staring down the barrel of a gun really helps to put things into perspective.

    To be more explicit, it suddenly occurred to me that I could go to Reno and hire some high-priced escorts. I didn't want to live but when that thought entered my mind, I decided that getting laid by some phenomenally gorgeous young woman was worth living for a little longer. So I went to Reno and got 2 for a weekend. LOL! I was viewing this as a last fling before I check out. But by the end of the weekend, I was a new man. And for the first time in years, I was feeling a zest for life again.

    Slowly I began to figure out that being a loyal husband had almost killed me. I had gone without sex for 10 years. And little did I know, that had slowly but surely sucked the life out of me. I thought I could bury myself in my work and be fine. But in fact I had completely lost the will to live. For me at least, the need for a healthy sex life is critical to life itself. Even now, if I go too long without sex, a long-term depression starts setting in.

    A highly unlikely series of events led to me meeting and seeing the blonde in the photos above. I fell more in love than I thought possible. The next three years were the happiest of my life. I went from holding a gun to my head, to be happier than I ever dreamed possible in a matter of a year. And I swear, I don't even believe in religion anymore, but I often wondered if God had sent me an angel. Seriously.

    In a very real sense, I pulled the trigger that night. In a moment my life was changed forever. The person I was died. I had to let go of everything to find my way out. And the price was HUGE. But no price was too high.
     
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    When you love yourself, then love will happen elsewhere in your life.
     
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    No, I just needed to dump my wife and get laid.

    I had to purge my life of the religious crap that had screwed up my thinking since childhood.

    Woo woo is fine but this was real.
     
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    How come it took so long to realise?
     
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    My new lady and I are doing wonderfully. We are already closer than I've been with anyone for several years. High hopes that this is going to work for years to come.

    I've met a number of women where we had great sex for a time but before long it fizzled out. And we never had the closeness that I feel with this woman, at least not for more than a few dates. We have been spending a lot of time together and that has been great! The sex is fantastic! I can't ask for more. She is a highly driven woman! I end every evening we spend together in a state of exhaustion LOL! True story.

    We are certainly connecting on a spiritual level. She isn't into science per say but is very smart and has many interests. We seem to have a lot to work with in this sense as well. We always seem to have a lot to talk about. All good stuff.
     
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    It is hard to believe that Number One left my life over 8 years ago now. Yet after all of this time, after dating more beautiful young women than I can count, after spending thousands and thousands of hours trying to find someone I can love as much as I loved her, while willing to do whatever it takes, I have found no one like that yet. And when I listen to this I still feel it as much as ever. I guess I never will get over her.

     
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