Actually you are communicating with a person who is almost too far laid back. I only call them insults when that is what they are. They were not intended to say a person's view of his points, they were to more than attack my views, but my very character. My comments that you either have not or probably have not had the experiences I can tell you first hand of, but once one has such experiences one sees things different. Events change a person. You can't cart a woman to get an abortion and not agree that you or I took part in it. And when you see the after abortion damage done to the woman, to never seek forgiveness for it means i would be a cold hearted person.