Shortage of eligible men as women struggle in dating game

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  1. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

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    Unfortunately subservience to men is one Asian "family value"....gee, wonder why weak men like them???:)
     
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    You can find weak women in any culture.

    Men who marry an Asian girl thinking she will be meek and compliant are in for a big surprise.

    Now, an older guy can probably find a shy village girl from the Philippines, say, and terrorize her into being as compliant as one could want. He could have found an American or Oz girl who he could do the same, tho of course it is way easier to take advantage of a girl who is desperate to escape third world poverty.
     
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    Your last paragraph is especially true.
    But I have worked with Asian women of all ages and their subservience to men is way overboard compared to American women even though some backwards American women can be that way.
    The Asian women had no objection to men sexually harrassing them, they just took it, just giggled and never NEVER went to their supervisor or Human Resources....that's why the men liked them so much. I have seen them be physically assaulted in the workplace and NOT OBJECT.!
     
  4. ryobi

    ryobi Well-Known Member

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    I've seen a video of men protecting a church while they were being sexually assaulted by feminists, being spat on in the face by feminists, all the while the men stood arm in arm not objecting as their church was being desecrated by feminists, all the while during the entire riot the feminists were being cheered on by the hundreds if not thousands of other feminists in the crowd.
     
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    I have noticed that younger Australian women are starting to adopt the dress, style and behaviour of Asian women...The reason why I find this situation about the 'man drought' (Australian men leaving Australia for work and non-Australian women) is that my dad was Australian and went to the Philippines and brought back my mum. I was bullied by Australian boys right through kindergarten, primary school and high school for looking Asian, and now, Asian women are meant to be a 'hot commodity' on the dating scene? I'm sorry, but the message I received from Australian boys growing up was that I was highly unattractive and undesirable. So I just don't trust this new 'trend' at all. It's like, Australian boys/men have tried to bully me into the ground for most of my life, and expect me to be all over them, now?! I'm sorry, it just doesn't work like that!
     
  6. FoxHastings

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    LOL! If there's that many and they do all those terrible things (because you saw it on a video) I'd be careful about badmouthing them all the time...:)
     
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    What nationality in particular are you speaking of?

    Someone tried that with me there'd be no giggles.
     
  8. ryobi

    ryobi Well-Known Member

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    I guess you might as well make a joke of men being sexually assaulted because men being sexually assaulted is h i l a r i o u s am i right???
     
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    Depends on the woman...my wife has reacted to what many would call "sexual harassment" with a laugh and a response in kind. (In the summer, she usually wears a tank top, shorts, and boots to work. The first day she did, a coworker saw her and walked into a fence.) However, if anyone puts a hand on her, they face the very real risk of being killed!
     
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    I don't get the connection...is your wife Asian?
    And I doubt she really needs to kill anyone who sexually harrasses her, there are proper channels for any complaints.
     
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    I'm really sorry to hear about your experience. The worst racism I ever encountered in the US was when someone wrote "***** on my dorm door.
    I've led a sheltered life, I guess.

    sorry things went as they did for you.
     
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    Did you actually read my post?
     
  13. MR Y

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    Men are either shy, gay, taken, or M.G.T.O.W. Good Men are more guarded than ever. Dogs and Maginas could care less. Dogs want sex and Manginas are p***y Whipped. Good men are MIA. If you see a decent man, ask him out on a lunch date or something. Good guys have VERY FRAGILE EGOS. Nowadays men are more afraid to ask a women out now more than ever, because men today have been rejected more times now than ever in history thanks 2 feminism and narcissism.
    Good men are very hesitant and visual. They look at women's body language, voice level, and facial expressions, any wrong move men will flee. Good guys are very very guarded when it comes to entering a relationship. The only guys who will approach you are DOGS and MANGINAS. Both a huge turn off for women. You are better off taking a step forward or asking a man out instead of him asking you out. like it or not, Good men will NEVER make the 1st move. Here's a Secret, men want to feel wanted and validated too. If a guy ask you out, act chivalrous, or pay for dinner at least you know he wants you. But how will the guy know you want him. Men want Validation too. (I'm not talking about sex either). Because of feminism Women have to be more assertive now. can't have a cake and eat it 2. Check out the videos below for more info.

    guy ask a girl out = 40% success.
    girl ask a guy out = 80% success.
    Sorry ladies but this is 2010's not 1950's.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlvMAS_20K4

    and

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeCV-XNeZIoHiCGfNYCLh9Q
     
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    I'm so with you buddy. I'm going to focus on gaming and traveling and I'm 35. I'm also going to move to Brazil.
    MOD EDIT>>>DUPE REMOVED<<<
     
  15. ryobi

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    I went to a notorious, 'feminist university,' and the feminists there still expected the guy to make all the first moves.
     
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    In USA black women are having difficulty getting a date. A lot of black men are tired of black women's bs as whole so they are moving onto other races of women. Black women have it worse but white women too are having problems. And they hate guys like me because as a guy who goes MONK MODE doesn't want to date or have sex with women. We are hated so much we get attacked on youtube which means what we are doing works because we don't deal with the bs with women anymore. I don't hate women I do have some conservation with women online but that's pretty much it.
     
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    I guess you need to be like Tom Leykis who has been married 4 times.
     
  18. Renee

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    Men used to marry women below them or their equals. Wowen married their equals or above. Now women are the majority of medical schools and law schools and colleges it is hard to find men who are equal to them or above.but the interesting thing is more and more women are opting not to marry
     
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    What women are having a difficult time getting a day because there aren't as many men who are equal to them. I guess I can say black women are dating white men as well as what men are dating white women. Race is becoming less of an issue
     
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    Or Donald trump...
     
  21. Lil Mike

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    Bingo, that's the real root of the problem. Generally speaking, women don't marry down and as women achieve greater professional success, they are left with a smaller and smaller eligible dating pool. No doubt this is why the marriage and fertility rates of educated (particularly women with post graduate degrees) is low.

    On the plus side, for those who marry their divorce rates are much lower.
     
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    Its the modern times women may need to ask the man out, pay for dates if they earn less money, propose and sign pre-up favoring them like men used to have to if successful or turn bisexual or hire a male escort to get off their jollies or get porn and vibrators. I've never been desirable economically and being disabled I never had much of a romantic life but got around that for my sexual needs read porn and prostitutes so welcome to the club ladies. Payback is a pain isn't it. And now there are more women than men in the population your going to have a harder time a man will marry down for a passing wife but women won't do that for a passing husband so there you go.
     
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    As women begin to enjoy the prosperity and freedom once available only to men, they become less dependent and more powerful. Basically women can now simply tell a man to f@ck off if he is a dlck and they will. Men unfortunately, are still grasping onto and fighting for the fading dominance and many do not seem bright enough to change with the times. Women are dealing with a shortage because there are fewer men they find acceptable, not because there are fewer men.
     
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    Dunno about Australia but we have heard similar reports here in the USA. Funny thing is, the Census Bureau reports otherwise by saying there are nearly an equal amount of men and women throughout most demographics. The only time there are more women is over the age of 70 as men die younger.

    Thus, contrary to popular myths, there is no such thing as "male shortage".
     
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    Women are choosing not to marry in huge numbers . In the past women needed men to support them..more and more don’t need support and if they want to have children, they don’t need a husband,
     

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