You filthy slut you! bahahaha Hey, if she is the same, and willing, I see no issue. I only start to have an issue when folks put me down for not being as promiscuous as they think is 'normal'. It ain't normal for me, nor for some women. Interestingly, those are the ones that promiscuous men go for when they want to get married. Promiscuous women go for the wealthy nerd who usually isn't compatible. I'm not saying physically incompatible, but in understanding the thinking of a promiscuous person, versus one who is not. There is a great divide and it usually ends badly. One does not place as much value on sex and grows cold, in the terms of the formerly promiscuous partner. It's living hell and many times turns into a situation where the formerly promiscuous partner becomes unfaithful, because it's reasonably easy for them, since they have experience. Who is harmed? They both are harmed. That's my take on it and I'm sticking to it. I guess that all means, have at it, but don't include me. If you are different than me, I'm not very interested in you. However, I might look at you, if you are pretty. Beauty is not in the same category for me. I might think a woman is beautiful and attractive, but never be able to have sex with her, or I'd feel gross. Doesn't matter, I'm not in the market, for the rest of my life I'm done with all of it. I still admire beauty, though.
I never even intimated that idea. I'm sorry you want to hate men so badly. I'm sorry you want to subjugate them for your will. It's no fun being around women who hate men for being men, and hate themselves for their own biology. I don't mean to hurt your feelings all the time. Maybe you should stop trying so hard to hate on men?
I don't hide my insecurity. I know I don't understand women. I know my shortcomings. I'm not afraid of my own shortcomings, but of women who will use them to their advantage, or harm me. They've harmed me before. I know I don't like promiscuity for myself and do not think it is attractive or adds to the attractiveness of a long-term committed relationship, or as I believe "for life", or it's viability. Am I afraid of the consequences of marriage today? You betcha. Any intelligent man would be. Does today's climate make it more or less dangerous for men to pursue sex with a woman? More and you better believe it does. These aren't imagined fears. They are reality. Many women want today's climate the way it is. Many men do, too. Insecurity? So what? I'm not in the market. I think I am better off for my choices. Why would you be angry because of my own personal choices? Why do I have to think your way, if I'm not harming anyone? Each one of us has to make our own way in life. Why do you want to take my freedom of choice away? Why do you put me down for who I am? Your freedom is not freedom. It's subjugation and dominance. I feel it in my bones. I don't like that any more than you.
I put you down for sharing your insecurities as though they are facts like this quote of yours “ Am I afraid of the consequences of marriage today? You betcha. Any intelligent man would be. Because you can’t seem to have a satisfying marriage you think intelligent men all think about the consequences. Most intelligent men are able to have satisfying long-term relationships with wives and children and they don’t look at consequences of marriage
Don't be sluts and bitches, chics; unless we ask you to. Insist on being modern friends in modern times, and help us get, really really good at things we enjoy doing.
You put me down because you think that I think because of my own issues with marriage, all men will have the same issues? No, that's not what I mean. There are many issues that come up in a marriage. They have nothing to do with mine. They mostly have to do with incompatibility, but the legal consequences are tremendous and can be lifelong. You can do your best to look at them in a positive light, but they are not ideal. So, you put me down because I say, or when I say something like, any intelligent man looks at the consequences of marriage? Think about your statement and what it takes to find the right partner. What you are saying is simply not true for intelligent men. Maybe for naïve men, men with little knowledge of how their life will change and the legal responsibilities they might face, but not intelligent men. I think you simply hate the fact that I might say something you don't want men to know.
I apologize for you taking it personally. But when you say that intelligent man agree with you, you are overgeneralizing. There have been so many studies that show that men are happier in marriages than women. Single men are probably the most neurotic group. What you are doing is projecting your disdain for marriage because of your own experiences and cannot understand that men are very happy and marriage. It has nothing to do with intelligence and I don’t know why you keep using that. It doesn’t make you sound very intelligent
You are so right, Renee. How do you know so much about men? I bet you amaze men all the time. Women must beg you to teach them how to be a better woman. How could I be so wrong? I'm so embarrassed at your overwhelming truth and knowledge. I just can't explain how right you are. All men should listen to you, not just your husband. Yours are the only truths, the only answers that can possibly be. I'm so sorry for ever doubting that you might ever have been mistaken. How can you ever forgive me? I'm a man, after all. So, I guess you can find it in your heart, somewhere, somehow. Oh please forgive me. You don't know how much your truth means to all men. I don't want to be left out.
http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2015/05/01/why-men-wont-marry.html http://www.familylife.com/articles/...rriage/infidelity/40-consequences-of-adultery https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/pornographys-devastating-effects-on-marriage-11608263.html http://www.soencouragement.org/whymenstay.htm https://opentextbc.ca/introductiontosociology/chapter/chapter14-marriage-and-family/ https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/why-do-men-go-to-prostitutes/ https://www.cnsnews.com/news/articl...elor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married https://academic.udayton.edu/race/04needs/s98alouis.htm https://psych.hanover.edu/research/Thesis07/BroadyHickmanPaper.pdf https://affaircare.com/2011/08/21/top-ten-marriage-sites-to-help-your-christian-marriage-grow/ https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/unhealthy-marriage-signs-and-finding-help https://themarriagefoundation.org/free-marriage-help/ https://www.marriage.com/ https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/best-relationship-marriage-resources-websites-2012-0125137 http://marriagehelp.org/love/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...03/marriage-problems-heres-8-step-rescue-plan https://www.amazon.com/gp/richpub/listmania/fullview/R2JR3PZOQODANU Just the sheer number of marriage and relationship help sites should frighten anyone. https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/06/05/books-to-read-during-divorce_n_7522458.html https://www.amazon.com/bad-marriages-Books/s?ie=UTF8&page=1&rh=n:283155,k:bad marriages https://www.lifepersona.com/20-books-to-improve-relationships-of-couples-and-marriages http://www.attorneys.com/divorce/divorce-attorneys-for-women https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/divorce-judge/hiring-divorce-lawyer.htm At the very least they will usually cause men to think. Do they cause women to think? You tell me @Renee. I'm not a woman. My guess is, they do.
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/b/books/self-help-relationships/_/N-29Z8q8Z18ly http://www.mastersincounseling.com/love-on-the-rocks-top-12-books-for-troubled-marriages https://www.lifepersona.com/20-books-to-improve-relationships-of-couples-and-marriages http://www.marriage-success-secrets.com/bad-marriage.html https://saveyourmarriagelikeme.com/marriage-books/ No, not even an intelligent man would be frightened. No......well, maybe. http://blog.themarriagerestorationproject.com/relationship-self-help-books https://www.thespruce.com/resources-for-troubled-marriages-2302009 http://www.divorcehope.com/marriagedivorcesourcesofhelp.htm https://www.the-generous-husband.com/must-read-marriage-books/ http://www.marriage-success-secrets.com/bad-marriage.html Nah, that's not freakin' scary at all. We haven't even more than touched on divorce attorneys, divorce law, judges, child support, alimony, alimony pendente lite, social security, retirement accounts, property, ex-in-laws, child care, higher education for children of divorced parents, parental alienation, and many other things that wouldn't even frighten an intelligent man. No? @Renee
http://time.com/3975175/spousal-rape-case-history/ https://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/marital-rape-laws.html http://scholarship.law.berkeley.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1484&context=californialawreview https://womensenews.org/2009/07/spousal-rape-laws-continue-evolve/ https://www.womenslaw.org/about-abuse/forms-abuse/sexual-abuse-and-exploitation/marital-partner-rape https://www.womenslaw.org/about-abuse/forms-abuse/sexual-abuse-and-exploitation/marital-partner-rape https://www.salon.com/2015/08/08/th...rifying_modern_legal_history_of_marital_rape/ http://www.impowr.org/content/law-reform-efforts-rape-and-sexual-assault-united-states-america Scared at all, intelligent men? No? I would think this kind of thing would frighten women, and men. @Renee
http://www.wisegeek.com/how-many-men-unknowingly-raise-children-who-arent-their-own.htm https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePill..._10_men_are_unknowingly_raising_a_child_that/ https://www.menshealth.com/guy-wisdom/fathers-and-kids-parenting-fraud http://www.independentsentinel.com/...gical-fathers-be-forced-to-pay-child-support/ http://theconversation.com/what-are-the-chances-that-your-dad-isnt-your-father-24802 Right or wrong, it's not the exact number that is important. It's important that a man thinks about what he might do, should this happen to him after marriage, and even before. If it didn't ever happen, there would be no need for these sites, studies, whatever. @Renee
Nah, that wouldn't frighten an intelligent man. A good man wouldn't think twice about any of those responsibilities or possible issues. He knows his wife will never do any of those, nor will he. He knows she's been up front, open and honest with everything he's asked, and he's asked everything he could ever need to ask. Likewise with a woman. Suuuure. @Renee
Projection? I think not. I think it's the way things are today. It's fact. It's recent history. It's reality. Many women don't even want to get married. How would he know what her reasons are for wanting to get married, if he's in lurve? He might miss something, right? Even the intelligent man under the influence of dopamine, oxytocin, etc., might have a lapse in logic. http://www.youramazingbrain.org/lovesex/sciencelove.htm https://learningenglish.voanews.com/a/health-lifestyle-love/3719576.html @Renee
I dated dozens of men and married the most amazing man . I don’t know if you would consider raising women’s consciousness the same as teaching women how to be better women because that is what I did for years. I showed women how they were being discriminated against and they became part of a movement that changed this country ...and yes men listened to them ! I can’t forgive you..so stop groveling lol
Just curious, do you think everyone is going to open all your links. They’re so ridiculous...I checked a few but my favorite is 70% of men aren’t married by 35....Doesn’t commonsense tell you that that’s ridiculous? Actually statistics show that 70% are married by 35
Men don't complain when women are willing be friends, even in the most heterosexual of manners and fashions in modern times. don't believe me; try it for yourselves, PF chics.
Just before my 13 Birthday, two females, one 15 and a 17 year old got me alone, no parents around, and me being a naive unsuspecting boy, no match for stronger gals..... One good punch and well....... Not very nice. The punch really had not really been necessary. Or pinning me down. The tying me up part was way excessive.
When I see a wall O'links, I tend not to open any. Like a wall of Ishambat trumpy text, I Hardly read it at all, I skim through it mostly.
Some of the Men's comments here are quite scary, the Men making them profile as "undefined abnormal speech patterns" possible borderline personality disorder, further professional evaluation required.
