Smartie's Bar & Grill #68

Heh, yes, I have to watch that. She is fascinated with our history, which is why it came up. She knows I will always love Number One. But that's the great thing about love. There is always room for more.

 

Heh, thanks. Sugar relationships are quite a different animal. It it supposed to be more a FWB type of relationship. But they can evolve like this one and my first one did.

It is so cool. You can invent your own relationships and make up all the rules yourself. As long as you're both on the same page, that's all that matters.

 

And you dont run outta $$$.

 

Thanks. I always knew I couldn't keep her. She was almost 30 years younger than me. But the day she said she loved me was the happiest day of my life.

I finally lost her to an old bf she'd seen for years before we met. He was in an out of her life the entire time we saw each other. But those were the three best years of my life.

 

I am out of money right now and she's still here.

I just took a $25K hit from a customer that went bankrupt. I explained what happened and told her I'd understand if she needed to make other arrangements. It is going to take time to recover. But she said not to worry about it.

 

Yes, money matters - "money to buy [her] things".

 

Time for you to work hard all night. They like "things".

 

And smart bad girls are usually simply irresistible.
Why fight the inevitable?

 

So did my wife. No difference.

It is funny when you think about it. People tend to judge so quickly. But if a man can't provide for his wife, statistics show that she'll ditch him just like a sb will. Something like 90% of all divorces are because of money. And the majority of divorces are initiated by the women.

I was giving my ex all of my money and still not getting laid.

My sister left her husband. Her number one reason cited: He didn't make enough money! I kid you not!!! And he had a good job with great benefits. They had a beautiful home in an upscale neighborhood. A pool. A nice boat. A great lifestyle, But not good enough!!!

 

Money is rarely the reason, but often the excuse.

 

Men have found countless ways to alienate themselves from their women over the millennia.
Not being able to get them the "things" they want will do the trick every time. Today that usually involves a money deficit.

 

It's never the money so much as the "things" women want that cause the break ups. Many of those things require money, and some of them are essential.

 

I've met some wonderful women doing this. They just have strong sex drives and like older men. Not only is there an unfair stigma attached to the whole idea of sugar relationships, with the ease of connection through the internet, the practice has exploded in recent years. A lot of very normal women are doing this now. Based on just one sb site, I estimated that at any moment there is about 1 sb per square mile listed in my area, who is looking for a sugar daddy. There about 10,000 in driving distance. I've actually gone through something around 5000 profiles over the last three years. That led to 119 coffee dates, and 14 women I've dated more than twice. But I'm not just trying to get laid. I have been dating sugar babies just as I would date anyone else. There is really very little difference. They are still relationships between men and women.

Smart is right! My current sb has a 3.95 GPA her senior year, in a field of neurology. She was also recently recognized for outstanding academic achievement. I would love to say what but it's too specific - a dead giveaway as to her identity if anyone here knew her. Anyway, the point is, many of these women are anything but hard-luck cases. She has game big time!

 

Not this woman. I buy my own damn things.

 

That's why your first name is "Smart".

 

Many of the "things" women want involve financial and physical security. A strong sword arm and a shield has not been enough for a very long time - especially for women who carry their own gun.
Savvy women have always been attracted to men who have proven they can succeed in life.

 

It's like Penthouse once quoted ...

"The difference between men & women? Women look for ONE man to fulfill ALL her needs, whereas men look for ALL women to fulfill his ONE need "

True, that.

 

And the right man and woman can meet all their needs.

 

So they say...

 

And it is the truth, but there is a lot of denial out there.

 

A treat for all the foodies. If I ever have Foolie over for dinner, Im serving this...

 

Be sure to add a pound of frozen Chinese crawfish.