My friends children live with a complete mental case of a woman. This woman is a pure train wreck and the worst person. But because she has a vagina the court is happy to harm the children and sacrifice their wellbeing. As long as they get to live with her. My friend is a good guy, fought for his kids and lost. It's 100% obvious the children would be better off with him. I'm not being bias either.... she is a horrible mother. What gives why is it so sexist and it doesn't matter if the father is a better parent, will offer the kids more stability and better life , the courts will always side with the mum even if she is a complete psycho and a horrible patent
Like it's not even about the child's best interests either..... how can this still be allowed so carry on and be accepted.
There we go... pointing the finger straight at the man. It's very much true I assure you, courts always side with the mother regardless. It's because of people like you the child's best interest is never taken into real consideration.
The courts generally side with a mother vs. father because the children usually go with the mother and they are the priority.
It actually is true. In family court, the kids go to the mother and the Bill's go to the father no matter what the mother does, short of her getting locked up. I have a friend that recently lost his case for full custody of his kid to his alcoholic ex (who has not held a job consistently since the divorce and gotten 2 DUIs).
I am telling you that it is not true anymore. Joint custody is as common as single parent custody. I guess I can see there you go again pointing the finger straight at a woman.
The. He should appeal this. I work in this field and alcoholics who do not work rarely get custody of their child if the husband wants it.
Well, I can only speak to my personal experiences or what's told to me. I've seen way too many deadbeat mothers get kids over the father's.
My friends kids have a dead beat mother too. She moved to Saudi to where he was working. They had kids a couple of years later. Then he found out she was cheating on him with another guy in Saudi. Word got and so my friend flew his ex wife and kids out the country as he feared for her life, there was talk of the guy she cheated with being wipped and he also left the county sharpish too. She's an irresponsible deadbeat. Never had a job in her life, relies on handouts. Since back in the UK she's sleeping around and bringing strange men home constantly for sex. When she does kinda settle down, she moves the girls in with the new boyfriends. Which so far have been explosive and abusive relationships. She uses the kids as a weapon, if my friend doesn't do what she says she denies him from seeing his children for weeks and somtimes months. She also threats and cuts all contact phones, Skype e.t.c. Whenever she feels like she needs to punish my friend. He usually has to go to court and fight to see them again. In the good no drama times he gets to see his children in the evening 1 night per week as per court order, because she moved a distance away for her last unstable relationship. The mother is also mentally unstable and my friend is always worried about her capability to look after the children and ensure their safety. My friend has a strong stable relationship with another professional (a teacher) they have a child together. My friends children mean the world to him, he fought for fully custody but lost to this monster. He was willing to give up his career to be a full time father, he would have been happy with joint custody. Not one evening per week and for this bitch to be able to use his children as a weapon against him. He has to walk on egg shells constantly afraid she will punish him and he won't get to see his girls until he has to take her to court and get the judge to enforce the order. Renee you literally know nothing about these struggles and shame on you.
She is also projecting her hate and usability on the children, as a result they are becoming very troubled little girls. I honestly think/I KNOW that their lives would be 100% better with their daddy. But the sexist courts allow the girls to suffer because the best parent is a man.
I’ve seen more deadbeat dads leave their kids and wives high and dry. The women usually take responsibility.how ma y dead eat moms have you seen get the kids to make an informed conclusion?
Yeah I don’t know anything about it even though for about 11 years I would volunteer and work with women trying to get custody. We were a coalition who would accompany women to court in New York. By the end of those 11 years joint custody was as common as single parent if the man wanted it. Actually the women didn’t have many problems because the dads didn’t really want custody, just want t give the mom is a hard time I also get offended when you complain that she never worked but you are probably in the same mentality as those who say a woman should stay at home.. Your friends case may be true, I don’t know the other side but when you base it on your one experience or even 10 experiences it’s not valid
Why because she's a woman? Literally this lazy deadbeat has never worked a day in her life..... And you're offended why?
So the children were left on their own? The house was never cleaned? There were no meals? Children weren’t driven to where they had to go? Yes it is insulting because you believe homemaking is not working and that is why men don’t want to do it because it gets no respect and you prove it
Wow... you're unbelievable. I don't know how to put this any simpler so even you might be able to understand.... She has NEVER worked a day in her life. She had her children until her mid 30's, it's been welfare and boyfriends that have been paying for her way in life. I don't know why I even am responding to you. You're typical scum the keeps good dad's away from their children.
I have been a single parent twice in my life and have raised my children and I am a man..I did it in the 1980-90's and 2010 to present...How? I negotiated
What can be questioned here, even if it may seem a bit insensitive, is your friend's judgement - Why did he choose to marry and have children with a mental case in the first place? People these seem awful at picking a proper partner.
I knew a "mom" who was a total mental case drug addict, the dad wasn't perfect either but FAR better than "mom". The dad went to court numerous times and the judge kept saying kids belong with their mother. The grandmother finally spoke up and asked the judge to give dad ( I think it was temporary) FT custody as this little girl wasn't safe with her mom. She would take the kid on drug runs at all hours of the night. Under normal circumstances, mom should be the first choice but your situation does sound similar to the one I witnessed.
She was a friend of a friend, when they started dating he was warned what she was like. He was told what he was getting into, but love is blind.
