The BEAUTY of these relationships is there is generally no drama. My first SB called it a "No hair in the sink relationship". I have often called it a perpetual third date. Because of the age difference, we accept that the relationship is finite. This eliminates a ton of baggage. It doesn't have to work forever. It just has to work now. As an older guy I can spoil them rotten, and pamper them like no young man is willing to do. They generally eat it up! Romance is a lost art and many have never been treated so well. We just enjoy each other. That is often as complicated as it gets. With number one, I came to know pure joy for the first time in my life. It is all about living in the moment and just enjoying each other. Number One once told me that I had never shown her anything but unconditional love. That's about it.