Time for men to walk away from women.

Orgasmatrons are okay.

 

Did you ever see Barbarella? I saw it at the theater when it came out.

 

With your attitude I wouldn't have thought relationships with women were that much of a problem for you.

 

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It's sad that the state of relationships and the culture have caused so many men to drop out of life.

 

Yes, she had one as well - just a different brand and not quite so private. Looked as if it was doing what it was meant to do though!

 

Before I knew she was for socialism while making billions through marriage, I thought she was hot as heck. After, I simply found her disgusting.

 

Now you're talking about Jane Fonda, not Barbarella.

 

One and the same.

What's more is, this is the issue with marriage and relationships, even dating and the laws of this country.

We are confused with what is real and what is fantasy. Yes, I'm guilty of believing fantasies. I realize there is no telling what is fantasy and what is real today. Therefore, it is all that much more important to keep a distance from women.

I would suggest the same for women, though this is their time, and they know very well how to manipulate men and society/cultures, and their responsibilities.

Men must take responsibility for their own actions. They cannot let themselves be governed by a pretty face. Rather, we cannot let ourselves.

 

And...therein lies what seems to be your problem.

 

Yes, you are correct. I believe in love and romance, fidelity and truth, faith and trust. Those things are fantasy.

 

I have no issue with leaving women alone. I think it is an intelligent choice today. It is definitely an informed choice.

 

I suppose then, I live a fantasy.......cool.

 

I get the impression that this is not out of choice. Likely if you worked on being physically and mentally attractive to women your opinions would dramatically change.

 

You would have to determine that. I know what is safest for all men today. I choose to leave them alone and stay away. It is best for me. I suggest men give all of this some thoughtful consideration for themselves. That's all.

 

Most get that impression. The problem with that is the very issue we are talking about. You are not making you life decisions. You are making them for a woman or to be acceptable to a woman. I choose to live my life and not be controlled by women or a society that is against men, especially if you are white.

I do not choose to force a woman to be with me. That's not my goal. I choose to treat them with equality. I choose to separate myself from influencing them or being influenced by them.

 

Ahhhhh......Now I get it. I was trying to help but realize the futility now. Good Luck.

 

I'm not sure you do, but it isn't your problem or decision.

 

Very rarely is a man and a woman compatible. It's simply a fact of life.

 

I am fortunate to be amongst the very rare .......

 

http://www.politicalforum.com/index.php?posts/1068666678/

Take a look at the type of folks out there. Now, I'm older and I know I'd be out there among parents of these folks. Yeah, you are either lucky or extremely tolerant, forgiving, and able to put aside any issues you might have.

I fully admit I am not so inclined. I take things like fidelity and morals very seriously. I cannot forget and I cannot find someone attractive once they are not. I lose respect and can find it very difficult to regain.

I can never treat them with the respect they may deserve again. It is my flaw, for certain.

 

I am married to one of the parents you mention, if not the Grandparent. My wife cheated and was cheated on in the past and I have been there as well. We both told ourselves "Never Again" until we met each other and spent years allowing each other to change our minds and perspective.
I am now extremely pleased I managed to let the baggage go and instead live my life for the happiness it can provide....I am saddened that you cannot, but it's not for everyone.

 

You confirm my previous post. It's good you found someone compatible. The more things you have done in your life that are similar to a partner's, the more likely you are to understand each other and find empathy. Those who cheat understand the cheater's mind, or can relate.

Letting each other change your minds sounds like you lived in an open relationship where you could have sex with whomever you wanted until you found it difficult to find someone who you wanted to have sex with, more than your partner. That life can provide no happiness for me. Being unable to understand each other is a burden, not a virtue.

There are few my age who would understand me, nor I them. I cannot be a cuckold again. The definition is not the same as what you might find in porn. It is simply someone who has an open relationship or a cheating partner. Since that is the way of this age. I am not of this age. I don't know if I was ever of an age known.

It is better to be alone than with someone you cannot respect, nor trust. While you think you are better just with some company, you are being laughed at and talked about behind your back. You are in a sham of a relationship and women today know they can manipulate a man with his emotions, if he isn't experienced. I am not.

Men are considered a means to an end, not a partner in life. This is what they are taught. There is no becoming "one flesh" when married, any more. It is all about "me".

I agree. I am better off with the choice I have made. A sham love is worse than no love.

 

Your assumption is completely inaccurate....suffice to say. The life you imagine would provide no happiness for me either.

 

No open marriage? You just had to find yourselves while dating others? You'd have to explain. A cheater learning to trust a cheater should be simple. You both know you can't. You know the signs and you are alert and watchful with your finger on the nuke button at a moments notice. All the while, knowing you will move on quickly, since you have had many partners in your past? It's up to you to explain. Or, I can keep guessing and you can tell me I'm completely inaccurate. lol Or we can end it here. I'm fine with whatever.