To straight marriage minded females: do you intend to keep a spouse sexually satisfied

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To straight marriage minded females: do you intend to keep a spouse sexually satisfied

  1. Yes

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    60.0%
  2. No

    2 vote(s)
    40.0%
  1. chris155au

    chris155au Well-Known Member

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    I'm dying to hear what @Renee has to say! My go-to feminist!
     
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  2. Raffishragabash

    Raffishragabash Banned

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    Stay cautious. So you do not impress a mindset that women don't enjoy, sex, since it is just some boring task to please men. This is why I enjoy the livelihood of, jungle mammals, in terms of what social movements can cause Mankind to be deceitful about. Such as how we get to see it (on video recordings) in the wild or in jungles, how the female animals are not shy about their huge thirst for sex.

    In fact, my experiences are that most confident women are openly, proud, about any sex-crave personas if that is what defines them. Yes and it is those women, who are the greatest asset to the USA; last of the women who hate waging war against men.
     
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  3. Raffishragabash

    Raffishragabash Banned

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    Yes. It's like waiting ---at 8am in the dentist's office :)
     
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    Raffishragabash Banned

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    Essentially, that is what marriage is.

    IMHO opinion God Almighty wants humans to, marry, so then the two can work together only on pleasing each other and doing God's will over their lifetimes.

    This prevents each of them from being, single, and therefore living life crazily-concerned with dating new people or decades of anxious-anticipations in meeting potential mates
    . I can't see how a human would desire to live for decades in that way.
     
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  5. tecoyah

    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Finally we see what you actually mean in these rambling issues with women and life in general.

    Women who do not do as you require are feminists.

    Here's the thing here guys, I have noted this elsewhere also. When you are fit, attractive, nice, funny and caring women actually want as much sex as you do if not more.
     
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    Which is what?
     
  7. gorfias

    gorfias Well-Known Member

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    But marriage is in sickness and in health... etc.
    What you are describing is getting a woman, who married you, to want you enough for sex. My question goes to the concept of "sex without desire". Do straight, marriage minded women have as a goal, to see to it that they enthusiastically keep their male spouse sexually satisfied. So far the poll is at 50/50 yes no. To me, the flip side of this question on men would not be, are you going to do the same for her but, do you intend to be of support to her (financial, chores, guardian type duties). I think the answer to that question to men would be yes.
     
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    Strangely, I find it likely that if a man helps with the household and is protective of his wife as well as what I have described he will have no issues whatsoever with sex. It seems to me what is displayed here are unattractive men (physically and mentally) complaining about their issues with women...I of course could be wrong but doubt it.
     
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    That you have the Missionary Mentality and think of females as Lilith. That seriously explains a lot about your persona.
     
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    So what happens when both members of the relationship have lost some hair, the rest is gray, the boobs (on both parties) sag a bit, the belly muscles aren't as taut and there may be dentures involved? Does the sex drive disappear? No, for those attached at other levels other than the immediate physical, they don't see the flaws... you bump uglies, and enjoy the intimacy and physical contact.
     
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    My mother in law's test says that is incorrect but that's part of why I love the Internet and studies and polls found there. I do want to know more about how things are going out there getting beyond my own biases.

    Physically, men will tend to be unattractive to women. (the 80/20 rule). Love this scene in Seinfeld. Elaine says women are beautiful but that men are utilitarian. Like a jeep. As for unattractive mentally, I'd write it depends upon what a woman finds attractive or not with personality. Be interesting to find some poll data on what women think of men's personalities in general.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    That is where love comes to the rescue, however the discussion and thread are about sex.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    You should make a poll in Casual Chat.
     
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    Lilith?
     
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    Once the first child arrives both parents have to ask themselves in every situation or dilemma what is the best possible action for me to produce a stable home and the best possible raising up of this child.

    That should always be the baseline question.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    OMFG...and you claim to be Christian?
     
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    But it is about sex. Just not the buff bodies... do the same concepts that some put forth here apply? Do the females intend on keeping their males 'satisfied'? While I feel the premise of the thread is ridiculous to point it one way or another, the post-buff crowd would need to have the same perimeters applied.
     
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    As your go-to feminist I find the question sexist,as though the role of a woman is to keep a man sexually satisfied. Maybe perhaps the problem is that some men who marry don’t really care about sexually satisfying their wives .. when a man is great in bed, she’ll want sex, if a guy is wham bam, they both have consequences.
     
  19. gorfias

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    I am a sexist. I believe men and women deeply different from each other, at least in Western civilization. (I understand there are more matriarchal societies in low competition areas with very little sexual dymorphism and a level of civilization where they are still using bones for jewelry). Therefore, I do think there are different expectations of marital roles based upon sex. That is, as this thread is showing, a growing mis-conception requiring adjustments of those expectations.
     
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    I need the context. How does Lilith relate to me?
     
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    Nice post! I knew that you would have something to say!
     
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    Is this about me calling Renee a feminist?
     
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    Baseline question for what?
     
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    I would do all I could to satisfy my wife. As a husband, I would feel obligated.

    I would also tell her if she's failing to satisfy me, and what I thought should be different.

    And I think its reasonable to expect the same from her on all counts.
     
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    All situations and dilemmas.
     

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