To straight marriage minded females: do you intend to keep a spouse sexually satisfied

What does this thread have to do with kids?

 

Perhaps poster is thinking that the parents need to have as much sex, or little of it, as necessary to maintain a stable home for children.

 

Well that would certainly be an interesting argument.

 

Of course, it goes without saying that sex isn't everything in a marriage.

 

What in the hell is "missionary mentality?"

 

Just let it go dude....

 

This is just TYPICAL from you! You say some random crap that makes no sense and then upon being asked what you mean, you fail under scrutiny!

 

But I think it is a very strong motivator steering men into marriage. I wonder if the average male is aware of what I think we're seeing for results here, which is, "No. A wife will have sex with her husband only when she feels like it." And given human nature, I'd expect that the marriage in that case will be relatively sexless.

 

So, you are solidifying the idea that men think with their little heads first and foremost?

 

What "results?"

 

The poll has only 4 votes, 50/50 but the most on point answers in this thread have made this point, one even suggesting there is something wrong with sexism.

Are you scandalized by the thought that sex is a motivator for men?

 

That you cannot understand something does not mean it does not make sense. If that were the case I have a feeling most of reality would not make sense.

Lilith was the first woman according to your Bible. She was replaced with Eve for not obeying and being subservient to Adam. You project a similar attitude toward women....that you could not grasp that from my commentary indicates you do not know your own religious text or are not very bright.

 

Lilith is not in the parts of the Bible that Christians believe is canonical. It's Jewish folklore, not Jewish religion. The first historical mention of Lilith is in the 8th to 10th century AD.

http://www.ncregister.com/blog/mark-shea/was-lilith-edited-out-of-the-bible
https://www.learnreligions.com/legend-of-lilith-origins-2076660

 

Okay...so yet another piece that Christians do not agree with or know within the texts considered "The Word of God"....is it any wonder that non-Christians are confused about the confusion.

 

Nope, it's pretty clear. This is not in the accepted Christian texts, at least not the ones that have been generally accepted since the Council of Hippus in 393 AD. I can find no place in Catholic teachings that have suggested Lilith is anything other than an irrelevant myth. Also, the sources for Lilith come from Jewish mythology that didn't exist until about 800 years after the establishment of Christianity. The story of Lilith is a totally irrelevent piece of nonsense that is neither in the Torah nor in the accepted Christian Canon.

 

….neat....

 

People can have some pretty bizarre sexual proclivities. I think it is not uncommon for men to seek external satisfaction. And i think it is any partner’s right to decline acts that they abhor.... even if it was discussed and agreed before marriage

 

Scandalized, no. Not even surprised for the most part that some men think that way.

Fortunately, that isn't all men.

 

Question can be misinterpreted. Because, if asked to a liberal, the answer will always be no.

 

Are you writing that it is unfortunate that, for some (most) men, sex is a motivator? Agreed that one should not let it be a sole determinant. See James Spader's 1993 "Dream Lover". https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109665/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1

 

As a primary motivator, yes it would be unfortunate. Same applicable for a woman. It is a factor in a relationship, but should not be elevated to 'primary' status, or the relationship will fail.

Can't say I've seen the movie, can't watch that right now.

 

Plot summary: "Ray is young, charming, successful and the owner of a prosperous architect company. However, he has recently gone through a very painful divorce. His friends try to cheer him up by showing him the positive sides of being single but for Ray marriage and stability is just too important. But when he meets Lena his gloom is quickly forgotten. She is beautiful, sensual, mysterious and he is drawn to her like a moth to a candle. They marry quickly, have their first child and Ray lives in a total bliss. But then strange incidents occur which shed some light on Lena's background. Ray slowly realizes that he hardly knows anything about her at all. Who has he really married?" He marries her because she is crazy beautiful but is, in fact, a monster. Came out just after "Sleeping with the Enemy" in which Julia Roberts marries a terrific "support object" that turns out to be an OCD wife beating monster. Moral of both movies: People are 3d creatures. Look beyond just that one dimension of seeking a sex or support object in a partner. EDIT: Edited versions of the movie are on youtube for free.

 

I am so glad that life doesn't imitate movies like that, at least for those who don't dive into marriage for shallow reasons.

Thanks for the synopsis.

 

If you're going to use the Bible in discussion, then you should probably actually know a bit about it. As @perdidochas has pointed out, you are very much mistaken.
Better luck next time, perhaps after making use of everyone's friend, Mr. Google. The other part of your gibberish was, "missionary mentality" which you still haven't been able to address. You have also not addressed how this can all stem from me calling @Renee a feminist.

 

How do you know about your mother in law's sex life?

Can you source this?