To straight marriage minded females: do you intend to keep a spouse sexually satisfied

Just a phrase meaning I have no large test sample with which to come to a conclusion, but in my own lived experiences, a thing appears to be a certain way.

While I did reference an episode of Seinfeld there are a ton of links to be found regarding the 80/20 rule: 80% of women are only attracted to the top 20% of men, finding most men below average in looks (a statistical impossibility).
Example:
https://echidneofthesnakes.blogspot.com/2018/08/do-20-of-men-get-80-of-all-heterosexual.html

Recent studies of young people having sex or not in the last year also support this hypothesis. It appears that more women than men are having sex. They're having sex with the same men while other men go MGTOW, incel, TFL, etc.

 

No one is saying that men and women are not different from each other. And sex is different for men and women. For example women can have multiple orgasms and men can’t. Too many men and it seems like you are one of them believe that sex is for men

 

Why would that ever be an insult?Aren’t you a feminist? Don’t you believe in equal rights for women?

 

Men thrive much better in marriage than women. The most neurotic group are older unmarried men

 

My marriage almost killed me. And a lot of older unmarried men got screwed by their ex wives. I was gaslighted for 25 years and many of them probably have the same history. They made the mistake of trusting their wives and it ruined them - most of a lifetime wasted on lies.

I'm a bit of a hero to quite a few older married men who see that I decided to make my own rules and beat the system.

I'm single, fairly buff, and have been seeing hot women 20-30 years younger than me for 7 years now. And in the meantime I had the three best years of my life. My ex tried to bury me but I refused to die. [I even found a secret life insurance policy she had on me, after leaving her]

 

And a healthy sex life is critical to many men's happiness. A healthy sex life is highly correlated with happiness and a sense of well being. Some men don't care but the vast majority do. Some of us have very strong sex drives our entire lives.

You got it. It's a trap. I'll never forget one night when I first went out to check out the night life. I was sitting at a bar next to a young guy, with an older guy sitting on the other side of him. There weren't many women there so we were just waiting to see if things picked up. The young guy suddenly announces that he cant wait until he gets married - then he'll get sex every night! Us two older guy broke out in laughter and explained the facts of life to him. For many men, their wedding day is the beginning of the end of their sex life.

 

What I realized in retrospect, was that 20 years in a marriage that was sexless for ten of them. had literally sucked the life out of me. I had lost the will to survive. It wasn't something I even understood until a couple of years after the fact. When I decided to leave my wife and get laid by hot women, I chose life over death.

 

The obvious solution for marriage is to have open marriages. If you are in the 25% who remain happy in marriage, great. But in the end, marriage is a business contract - I learned that from my ex wife. I thought it was about love but stupid me. So it you want to maintain the business deal, do that and see other women. As it turned out, my ex didn't really care if I saw other women. I could have cheated and she would have cared less. As long as the pay checks kept coming, and as long as she had her free slave labor to maintain the property, she was happy.

So if you want a business partner, get married and get your sex elsewhere [once the honeymoon is over].

 

It is interesting in this thread asking women a question, to see men with disfunctional or possibly fictional sex lives complain about women and sex. We even seem to have someone complaining about it and then calling a woman a feminist for answering.....I sense Cheeto fingers here.

 

How are men not capable of more than one orgasm?

 

I have no idea! Ask @tecoyah who got angry at me calling you one!

Sure, but that makes me an egalitarian, not a feminist.

 

I've actually seen on youtube feminists stand and leave a lecture in rage that the speaker dared note that men in the USA tend to be taller than women. I was brought up in a feminist household that held there was no difference between men and women besides, "tee hee hee, plumbing". That is a quote stated to me too many times to count. I do think that very 2nd wave thinking. By 3rd and 4th wave, I do think there is a realization that men and women are different.
Women want sex but are very different about how, when, how often. A good dramatization of this is in the movie, "American Beauty". The main character, Lester is in a sexless marriage. One day, laying next to his wife in bed, he begins to shamelessly masturbate. His wife sees him, leaps out of bed screaming, don't you think I have needs? He says fine. He's ready. Lets go. She walks off in rage. We're just very different in this.

I'm sure there is a ton of confounding factors involved with studies you likely picked this up from but even so, Bill Marr responded to this sort of statement noting that "indoor cats live longer than outdoor cats too."

Odd, I asked a question of men in this forum. Not one single answer.

He needs to be told the truth so that he can respond accordingly.

Woman tells you she wants an open marraige, she is looking to "monkey branch". This tends to be a bad solution for men. Women will tend to be looking for someone she can get resources from. If you are in an open marriage, that woman knows you already pledged your resources to another women.
Most of my ideas are very radical, at this time bordering on political fantasy. For now, I'm just interested in finding out and sharing the truth.

 

That is likely because most men (Like me) do not wish to be associated with "Keeping" a woman or your mindset.

 

Are you marriage minded? Do you intend to have an open marriage?
And, holy moly, after like a week, I do note I have 2 unexpected replies just now to that male question.

 

I'm quite happily married to a woman who is smarter and more attractive than even me....which is saying something. My wife would castrate me if I even thought about an "Open Marriage" and I would deserve it. Plus she is incredibly beautiful.

 

You mean egalitarian?

 

Your own lived experiences regarding your mother in law?

So you believe in the 80/20 rule in this context? The article that you linked to doesn't accept it.

 

Nope, just what I wrote.

I do, and while the link doesn't accept it, it quotes people that do so.
Another suggestion of this: https://medium.com/@worstonlinedate...ably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

 

Are you in the the Incel community?

 

Married Red Pill.

 

What's the "red pill" part?

 

Synonymous with "woke" but is mostly used that way by Men's Rights Activists like me and MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). Not sure if incels, TFL (true forced loneliness) use it or not. Comes from the movie, "The Matrix". Neo is offered a blue pill and red. Blue, he stays asleep with all of his comfortable assumptions. Red wakes you up to reality, which in the movie, is horrible. But if you prefer truth, you are ready to accept that.