What kind of women are sluts?

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  1. fiddlerdave

    fiddlerdave Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    are you the flag bearer for women ?
     
  3. fiddlerdave

    fiddlerdave Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    My mother was a woman with a college degree who was required to be a stay at home mom for 25 years for a fairly demanding dad. She had 5 kids, and had to do it on a budget that was tiny, so her day was filled before sunup to late at night fixing clothes, raising and butchering animals and food, extensive cooking canning off anything possible, managing the money he gave her and bills and of course raising 5 kids (Catholic, you know).

    Then the day came when she found one of the reasons for her tiny, tiny household budget was that he had various girlfriends on the side, and he wanted to move in with and marry one. In those days, there was no such thing as "no-fault" divorce, so he blamed her for all kinds of awful affairs and behaviors, and did ratehr well in getting a very decent settlement for himself and had to pay all of $50 per month for child support for the three kids at home.

    But I remember the day after the divorce when she came home, and broke down because the bank where they had a joint account for 25 years would not give a "divorced woman" a checking account!

    After 25 years of paying a mortgage and bills on time, she had NO credit!

    Another day, after she heard my dad had remarried, she broke down when she discovered she was entitled to NONE of his work pension, and only HALF of the social security survivor benefit she would normally get when he died. She had to go to work for $1 with her college degree, and worked for that wage at a big employer that ripped her off for 5 years before an Equal Opportunity rule got her and some fellow women employees a raise.

    Yeah, so maybe I am A flag bearer for women sometimes, in part because it seems men are often vicious when a woman speaks up, and I think it is good some good and kind people feel they are not alone in the society, and get some affirmation that they are getting the shaft from people who would like the abuse to continue for their own selfish benefit.
     
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    I'm not discounting your story but I know that child support is a separate issue then who was at fault. And if your mother was not working it doesn't make sense that they would alot only $150 per month...unless that was so long ago that $150 was more like $1000 in today's money.

    Plus Alimony was pretty much standard.

    My Grandmother was abandoned by her husband, and left with three children. She was going to put them in an orphanage as back then there was no welfare or child support enforcement. So I DO KNOW that women had a harder time when put in tough situations back then.

    I also know my Aunt had to keep her marriage a secret in order to keep her job. This was in the 1930's.

    But....to demean men and promote the death of the unborn and to celebrate irresponsible, self-gratifying sex at the expense of the child who will be born eventually---even with abortion and birth control---is not the way to go.
     
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    Hoosier8 Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    What kind of women are sluts?

    The best kind. My mother warned me about them and I have been looking for one ever since.
     
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    Some of my favorite women have been 'sluts', and not just because of the sex.
     
  7. fiddlerdave

    fiddlerdave Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Uh, that figure was $50, NOT "$150".

    And indeed, child support and alimony was very much based in part on whose "fault" was the marriage breakup!

    My mother got NO alimony, and she was working for minimum wage, $1 per hour IMMEDIATELY when my father bailed because, of course, since he planned it, he took most of the money.

    The pension LAWS made it clear women had no right to any of their husband's pensions, even though supposedly the marriage was a "partnership". Her "work" was WORTHLESS!

    The social security laws made it clear a woman had to split the social security benefits with all the women the deadbeat husband cared to marry after she spent decades raising the kids for NOTHING.

    The banks and financial institutions did everything they could to prevent women from advancing! And think about it - if a bank would not give a divorced woman a checking account, do you think they would EVER give her a JOB, no matter HOW qualified?

    Yeah, the "good ol' days" were good - for WHITE MALES, who had little competition from minorities or women. Its no wonder people like Romney, Limbaugh, much of the Republican party want to turn back the clock!
     
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    Heart wrenching story.
    what does that have to do with sluts ?
     
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    I always thought that girls at school who put out were sluts.
     
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    It seems that the Republican/conservative men are the ones that always want to attack women, their rights, their benefits. It's amazing how Republican women are not able to see it and continue to vote for these buffoons, so they can give them the shaft. If not them, their daughters and granddaughters. Talk about ignorance.
     
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    Sewage. I attack anyone that tries to foist benefits from others without paying for it themselves. I attack people who attempt to turn privileges into rights.

    Republican women - if you insist on speaking in generality - don't see what you see because they have identified what is true, and you haven't. These women know the difference between a right and a privilege, and also understand the notion that insurance companies should be free to offer services as they see fit to respond to demand; they understand that private institutions should be allowed to represent services actions and beliefs which align with the ideology representative of their mission statement, and they also understand when someone is politicizing an issue to attempt to forward a decidedly unappetizing agenda.

    The one who is ignorant is you.
     
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    $$$$$$
    Welfare Deficit ($10.5 Trillion dollars) is five times greater that Obamacare ($1.7 Trillion dollars)...


    Sluts equal sexually promiscuous girls.
    They are coutesans and harlots, who exchange the pleasure of their company for the "favors" of every kind, including fun, vacations, dinner, drinks, and such.
    They are the single mothers of the criminal element in America.


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    i think he's calling his own mother one? :omfg:
     
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    I think so.

    Our mothers have been behaving like sluts.
    The culture almost requires girls to be sexual active since marriage has been intentionally delay by various means until age 26.

    This, in effect, means young people at the height of their hormonal drive for the natural act of sex are asked to be careful for 14 years, from age 12 to 26.
    They might as well be told to become nuns and priests.
    At least if they were to actually not be sexually active for those 14 years they would have a certificate from the ministry.


    But, idiot adults have forgotten that the Institution of Matrimony was INVENTEZD as a socially acceptable way for young people to engage in sex if they could not wait.
    Now they are left to playing with fire absent any social mechanism to prevent Welfare, Abortion, STD, and tragedy.
     
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    how old are you? I mean, come on....I am SOOO calling BS on this Dicken's tale of woe...puleeze, give us all a break...
     
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    BAAAWAAAHAAHAAAA...oh good lort but you do spin a fine tale of mythical hardship...unfortunately for you, by the time there was a 'minumum wage' there were other laws in place to protect workers.

    NOW the whole idea that women couldn't have bank accounts is a flat out lie, there have been women working since the time this country was founded...do ya REALLY think that Amelia Earnhart didn't have a bank account? do you really think that the vast number of women that owned businesses didn't have bank accounts? women owned farms....heck I have a book that records the adventures of mail order brides that talks about the sharing of information regarding inheritance and bank account balances and this was in the mid 1800s...I KNOW you aren't that old!

    this whole concept that women were hapless slaves, chained to a kitchen stove barefoot and pregnant until the Lesbians (and sons with a chip on their shoulder cause their dads ran off and left them) stormed the tower and rescued them is really tooo silly for words. You do not speak for me, you don't 'bare my standard'...

    your mother's choices were her own, give her the DIGNITY of accepting she was a human being that had a brain, that made her own choices in life. It may not have worked out for her but they were HER decisions, not yours.
     
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    hmm..seems more ignorance on your part.

    or maybe just hypocritical arrogance (your post I mean).

    Who are you to decide whether my choice is from 'ignorance'? You don't know me, you don't know whats best for me.

    You claim all these Conservative men want to do this and want to do that....how is it any different from you telling me to do this or do that? You don't really want women to have a choice or you would ACCEPT ours. No, what you want to do is put YOUR chain on us...you want to trade places with the men you view as being our 'masters'...well guess what? We can see this. We know the 'choice' you offer is not really a choice at all. It is bondage pure and simple. You want to take from us our place as mothers and wives, keepers of the home and hearth and exchange it for what? An empty life trying vainly to be little beta faux males to your alpha male?

    no thanks. I will stay here at my husband's side as his partner and as myself.
     
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    and it is interesting that these 'women' who sleep around, get pregnant and want the government to support them invariabley have SOME male living in the house with them. If you watch, it is extremely rare to see a welfare momma that doesn't have some scummy male leeching off her welfare payments. We have taught an entire generation that the government will pay your living expenses if you don't get married, so they don't get married. Why should they when the government actively encourages them NOT to?
     
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    Yep...

    The abuse that children of Single Mothers suffer and the crime and social problems heaped on society, plus the Break The Bank cost of Welfare/Food Stamps/Housing/Medical Services/etc ought make even democrats look rationally on this broken system and end it.
     
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    I am sad for your poor reading comprehension abilities!

    As my post plainly states, I was responding to this comment by Squidward:
     
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    What solution do you propose ? Should the state force these women to have abortion ?
     
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    Sure, SOME banks would give women bank accounts - but I was pointing out that the bank where she had a joint account for DECADES let my "divorced" father bank there, but not his "divorced wife".

    Further, in those days, a wife had NO CREDIT RATING AT ALL from her husband's dealings. Her work of managing a household, the money and all the challenges meant NOTHING to the fine Conservatives of the day. And since she was "divorced, they ALL KNEW divorced women were HARLOTS and could NOT be trusted!

    No, women were not "hapless slaves" but many of societies laws and policies tried very hard to make them so!

    AND, BTW, many of the efforts to change these discriminatory and unfair practices were CONDEMNED as "attacks on the nuclear family" because, after all, if a woman had the ability to leave her husband, why how terrible! That would "wreck marriages and families by making it easier for women to leave!". :roll: SUre sounds like slavery to me!

    The third bank she went to opened a checking account for her, BTW. By why should a "working woman" have had to start over from NOTHING? Thus were the "good ol' days"! )A small note - the FIRST woman bank president happened in 1958! Do you think banks were totally non-sexist 10 years later? :lol:
     
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    These days, it takes an unreal figure to qualify. Basically, a woman who sleeps with a prostitute's amount of people without receiving payment. A decent woman these days would have qualified as a slut 60 years ago. The only problems arise when a man is so dumb he falls in love with a slut, or if a slut pretends she isn't one. On an individual level at least.
    On a societal note, having to pay for a bunch of kids that were the product of promiscuity sucks. The boys raised by single mothers were at nightmare for the nation from the late 80s through the early 2000s, but in the end, I think they in their own right will end up the most dedicated generation of fathers the nation has known. For no one knows better than them what it does to not have one around. So I think we are past that problem as a society. The problem we face now is women are turning into the equivalent of selfishness. I'm afraid we might be headed for a 20 year period of motherless children, and who knows what will happen. Will it be the same problems as fatherless children, or some weird opposite side of the coin as to problems? Only time will tell.
     
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    By sheer definition, women who have multiple partners on a regular basis.
     

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