Who I Am..Who Are You.

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  1. FatBack

    FatBack Well-Known Member

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    I'm with the six in 10 sane people here

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    Someone leased my neighbor’s land to hunt pheasant and quail a few years ago. They turned out some chukar. Most of them migrated over to my homeplace and moved in with the chickens.

    I’d never been around them so they were fun to watch. I’m not a bird hunter but I can imagine they’d be fun. Thanks for jogging my memory I’d kind of forgotten about it.
     
  4. Seth Bullock

    Seth Bullock Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    They're frickin hard, man. They're smart, and they're fast. Those things go from 0-60 like a Ferrari. It you break them within range, you've got about 2 seconds before they're out of range of a shotgun.

    Haha, I've heard of them moving in with chickens before. As long as you don't shoot any of them, they can lose their natural fear, hang out near people, and enjoy the chicken feed.

    Seth
     
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    Me and the wife at my brothers wedding last summer! Such a wonderful time :)
     

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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Good lookin' couple....Tx
     
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    Cubed Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    thank you sir :)
     
  8. Carl Von Clausewitz

    Carl Von Clausewitz Well-Known Member

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    You seem to have a nice wife and happy marriage.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Yes...I am a very lucky man.
     
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    Carl Von Clausewitz Well-Known Member

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    I myself am unmarried, haven't met the right woman yet but I'm patient that I'll meet the right person eventually. Dating these days can be so difficult and the environment isn't exactly conducive.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Yup it took me a good 40 years to find her and was well worth the wait. There are new dating criteria most definitely, but it is manageable with effort and intelligence.
     
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    To find one's soul mate, and be compatible for life, is a chance in a million - probably a trillion. The big test is when the physical side wanes, and what happens then. Males and females are so different, not only in the obvious physiology, but mentally too, and often, after the first flush is over, it's a case of never the twain meeting.
     
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    cerberus Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I'd much rather live alone than stuck with someone with whom there's a mutual disliking or zero compatibility. I have a friend who's in that situation but neither dares to leave the other because even if they found separate accommodation, it would seem that they'd rather live in misery and constant bickering than make the break and live on their own. I simply cannot understand that rationale - but then I'm a loner, so I guess that's the difference.
     
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    Carl Von Clausewitz Well-Known Member

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    Prospects for marriage are so damning because at any point a woman can divorce you taking everything and throwing you into the ringer. I don't know, I'm crazy I guess because I'm still a romantic desiring somebody. A sucker for self punishment I guess......

    Nonetheless if I ever did find such a woman I will more than likely be overly cautious and suspicious looking over my shoulder the first five years. Radical feminism has destroyed relationships between men and women along with divorce.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    The first thing to do is drop the idea of a "Soul Mate" as it is a hinderance to accepting reality and therefore living in it. Every single relationship and especially intimate ones.will have one or the other partner having weaknesses and days of difficulty requiring the other to pick up the stack to keep balance intact. There is also the unique needs of ALL females which include the increased appreciation and devotion display of a male partner.. This is extremely important to understand and pay very close attention to, finding the beauty of her and telling her often goes a long way toward maintaining her love and attention. Men and women are indeed different mentally but are also the same in many important ways and focusing/nurturing these similarities can far outweigh any differences.
     
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    If it's gonna be a daily struggle of having to say the right things and otherwise propitiating the woman, then I'd sooner not get into it in the first place. The 'soul mate' phenomenon is a spiritual rather than a mundane one of walking on egg shells and buy the occasional bunch of roses. But the bottom line is the compatibility - if that isn't there, the relationship won't stand a chance. Admire attractive women, but don't marry 'em. There's nothing worse than marital insecurity.
     
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    Then I understand and recommend the single lifestyle for you as relationships ALWAYS require a lot of effort.....Good Luck.
     
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