I really want to make a point about Women, as objectified by Men. Often, Breast size is a measure most often Glorified by Men as if it conferred almost the equivalent of a Halo and Angelic status if a Woman was in the DD ballpark, when oftentimes a Woman's sufferings with DD breasts is excruciating oftentimes necessitating breast reduction surgery. No, what makes Womanhood awesome is a finite something so intangible, a nuance so subtle it defies a definition. Deep within her soul, her secret persona. I gag at Women being defined superficially as it negates Womanhood and it's esoteric nature. When you narrowly define a Woman by mere appearances, you reduce Women to mere caricatures, mere door knockers. To illustrate, there was a very beautiful girl of almost 15, I rarely go on over Beauty perhaps never, flawless complexion, green eyes, and she had a nanny, the nanny had been burned ever so badly, no medical treatment available then, and badly disfigured, it was the big Birthday party in Spain for that age group, The Quinceañera for Girls really the only Birthday that matters. The Girl wanted everything to be perfect and in place, as she was perfect, so she said, Mother, everything planned so far is quite grand, but you know, Sofia, I love her, but she is so ugly, the burns on her face and hands Mother, people will see her and lose appetite, it will be too much to bear at My Quinceañera. Daughter, sit down and allow Me to tell you a short story; After you were born, I was very sick and despaired of and not expected to live long enough to see you leave your crib, and I was so very sick, I wanted to hold you one last time before I died, so I lit a candle and tottered towards your crib, Sofia was tending you, and I stumbled and the candle fell and lit your mosquitoe net, there was no way to save you, save Sofia willingly and quickly gathered up the burning mosquitoe net to her bosom, and you were spared and not even a hair of yours was harmed. Alexandra sat stunned for a moment unable to react, paralyzed almost, and Sofia entered the room, Alexandra flew to her immediately and burst into tears, and embraced her, she no longer complained of Sofia. True Beauty and Spirit is not something we should measure by the naked eye as it is truly intangible and only skin deep. I knew a Girl in Junior High School, Collette, and she was convinced she was ugly, she wore hoodies, covered her smile, even covered her hands, I liked her very much, because I was the only boy she talked to at all. The only Girl or Person that has ever made my heart flutter and skip and bound and my temperature to soar. One day, she made an extremely funny face and asked, how can you stand to look at me, I am so f-ing ugly ? I was shocked to tears as I knew not what to say at that point, I thought she was beautiful and clever, blond hair, dreamy blue eyes, brilliant eyebrows and lashes, thin, and long fingers and nails, tall and slender, no makeup, just pure dreaminess. When I could finally talk, actually she spoke first, asking what was wrong, and why was I crying, we were alone thankfully at such a moment of complete intimacy, I stammered for a bit, and said, your not ugly, your gorgeous ! Your the most beautiful Girl I have ever known, and then she slapped me, Not a little slap, a thundering slap as my freind from India called it. I felt red hot and humiliated and cried like a wee girl. After a bit, she hugged me close and whispered I'm ever so sorry, not even My Mom has ever said I was beautiful, so I thought you were just being mean. No I blubbered angrily rubbing away the tears heartily ashamed of myself, you are really beautiful, what makes you say you are ugly ? So she pointed at her lip, a tiny scar so thin and so invisible that I had to be within kissing distance to even see it, and even then it was not that visible. And she quickly added, and my boobs are just too small, look, and I did not see it so, I only saw perfection there too. My feet are just a bit too big, she grinned wiggling her toes. I really saw perfection there too. I reminded her of the Star Trek episide, Mud's women, she was a Trekie, and how in the end, Dr. McCoy showed that a fake pill made the women beautiful, because it was how they carried themselves that really mattered most, we talked until the early bell rang, signaling the end of lunch period, and I hurried to wash up fast and not be late. Monday saw a change nobody believed possible, was it the same Girl ? a new outfit, standing up straight, and no covering up her Beauty, as well as suddenly every boy wanting to talk to her. Suddenly, She looked at me in a way I shall never forget and always remembered. I was so proud at that moment, I can safely say, It was "The Moment" frozen in time, I will always Remember, My Irene Adler, "The Woman" .......
In the past surveys would be taken every year on this subject and the vast majority of men always said that breast size was the LEAST important matter when measuring a women's true beauty. You may google to find that articles which prove more often than not, it is women who are obsessed over breast size.
I dont think theres many men who have 'big breasts' at the top of their list when it comes to finding a ltr. Certainly not any more than there are women who put 'big penis' at the top of same list. People are that superficial when they're looking to get laid, not find a life partner.
Well, I am surprised, I spent a lifetime listening to many men and boys talk endlessly about women with DD, endless magazine articles and mens magazines on Newsstands, and I am not making it up, what I can't figure out is why anyone would deny it.
I've no doubt. But were they talking like 'I want to have a long term emotional relationship with that woman' or 'I just want to have lost of sex with that women'?
Men seldom talk to other men about their real feelings. Take Trump for example. His boisterous locker room talk came back to haunt him, whereas most men bluster along their whole lives saying what they think other men want to hear... especially about women. IMO, big breasts are not really what most men look for in their ideal woman. In fact, most men say more than a mouthful is a waste.
Is there really such thing as an 'ideal woman' (or ideal man ftm)? My ideal woman would have large breasts, but on the long list of what would would be ideal, thats at the top of things that arent very important, that I would happily overlook in preference of traits like reasonable, intelligent, skilled and emotionally stable. I dont think 'Mr or Mrs Perfect' exists for anyone. We're all gonna have to settle for a bit less than 'ideal'.
I have seen younger gals that I thought were very beautiful, Small breasts, No makeup, And in jeans, t-shirt, boots Androgynous looks, Big feet, lol Just gorgeous in my opinion. Ages 20 and up, lest anyone get the wrong idea about me lol
E.E. Cummings said that the final secred is man, but I think that the final secret is the woman. Men are quite boring. Women are much more interesting to me.
Not if you are 15. And you are a consummate Azzwipe, I always stay within my age group. So go pound sand.
I have seen Women with b cups that were so darn sexy, it made me dizzy and faint, no makeup, jeans, t-shirt and sweaty and farm dirt. And they giggled at my stupid tongue tied inability to speak coherently. A kiss on the cheek and I would be all duh..... ...
It depends on the reason you are looking at the woman. If you are looking to admire good looks, I would say the vast majority of women with small boobs have nicer bodies. Big (natural) breasted women have wonky bodies as a rule. But if you want to see just how beautiful a woman is inside, hand her a baby and see how she acts. I’m 47 and have been married 29 years, but if I woke up single and dating, I would need to find out early on if she ever had an abortion. That would be a deal breaker for me. There is not a more beautiful sight than a woman cradling her baby.
I like Women that have a Tomboy look going on, Feminine, but a boyish charm too. A Woman can be both. Big feet are a plus !!! And AAA cups csn be sexy as helll !!!! I give an off the charts foot massage.
Regardless if it gets me banned, you are truly stupid. No one, not me had advocated underaged sex. Neither true account was about sex. First was an almost 15 year old planning her 15th Birthday party. The other two Junior high schoolers of the same age talking, I was one, so get your head out of the Gutter....
Excellent point...grown, mature, intelligent, secure, MEN don't talk and giggle about women the way Trump did ( and does)..
Do you know what many male Police Officers said about me as a Police Officer ? Even if they thought I wss not listening ? Or even if I was not there ? Other Officers told me. Oh, don't cuss and tell locker room stories around Murray, he does not go for talk like that. I had a good reputation from all Police Officers that knew me, both male and female, higher ranks too. I was respected as much as the Police Chaplain as being a respectable Gentleman / Police Officer, even Criminals that knew me said I had a good reputation.
