Women have equality. Why are they upset with paying alimony and child support?

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  1. ECA

    ECA Well-Known Member

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    How can he actually be FORCED to pay for a kid that isn’t his? Did he not get a paternity test done?
     
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    All you have to do is put in the divorce agreement that she can’t move out of state.
     
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    If you marry someone in the military, you know that is a possibility. Can't live with it, DON'T GET MARRIED!
     
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    Alimony is also called spousal support which must be paid by the spouse making more money regardless of children.
     
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    Matters not. She simply needs to make it a fait accompli. Once she is out of state, nothing will be done.
     
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    If he legally adopted the kid he can.
     
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    He didn't actually need one (blood types mean the kid isn't his), but yes. Judge didn't care.
     
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    Yes. In my nephew's case, Mom paid nothing. The judge...forgave what she owed, halved the future payments, spent 10 minutes reading my brother, his lawyer, and my mother the riot act for "wasting his time", and threatened contempt charges if they tried to get anything changed.
     
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    My company is hiring...well-paid but very physical job. About 30 applicants, all men. Come on down, though...women are welcome! You want equality, do the dirty jobs, too!
     
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    Whoever scored highest with shotguns and pistols. (I would take my wife over 98% of men.)
     
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    He didn't, his wife was just cheating on him. After years living in denial, she gave him the clap.
     
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    It matters in many cases. I know people who can’t move out of state due to divorce agreement.
     
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    In that case the kid would legally be his. The post I replied to stated his coworkers kid was not his.
     
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    I call bullsh!t. How can a judge for a person to pay for a kid that isn’t his? How is it I don’t have to pay for children that aren’t mine???
     
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    Quite simply: judges can essentially do whatever they want.

    Also note: in many states, the poor sap who married the village bicycle is LEGALLY on the hook to support all the kids.
     
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    How do you know whether you can live with it until you actually do it? Lots of people think they can handle something, only to find out that they can’t.
     
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    If any doubt, don't do it.
     
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    Easy to say. Hard to do when you think you’re in love.
     
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    The statement of millions, and then they say WTF? Love is a fools game.
     
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    Life has risks for the not so bright. Think before you leap.
     
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    Welcome to 9 unelected tyrants.
     
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    Could you be more vague??? Your reply was as useful as t!ts on a nun.
     
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    Gee, it you cannot figure it out...…..A million words will not explain it to you I guess.
     
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    In other words you got nothing. Thanks.
     
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    One of the dudes I work with says he will never go on another date unless he is paying her by the hour. At some point, that becomes the rational choice.
     

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