Women's rights?

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  1. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    no women have more reproductive Rights. A man must have the presence of mind upon conception. I guess you think women are just too stupid.

    Make special rights for the poor things.
     
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    where are the "brave women for free"?
     
  3. Polydectes

    Polydectes Well-Known Member

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    nobody wants your sympathy
    It's a pity you see it that way. why it's insulting to tell a boy he acts like a girl is because you're telling him that he acts feminine and he wants to be masculine.


    It's not about you.
     
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    Why is it upsetting to act feminine?girls who play sports like boys aren’t insulted.You don’t even realize how deep your sexism is. Telling a boy he acts feminine is an insult therefore what females do is insulting.i hate when gay men act extreme,y swishy...no women I know act like that.
     
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  5. Polydectes

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    because it is anti masculine. Boys strive to be masculine and most of them at least.

    why do girls play sports like boys? Are sports a boy thing?

    that's ironic after you just told me a girl has to be like a boy in order to play sports.
    telling a boy he's feminine is only an insult to the boys if he wants to be masculine. this has nothing to do with females or girls at all. You are simply suffering from some sort of inferiority complex.

    I'm sorry you were born female and you hate yourself because of it you shouldn't women are wonderful. but I don't see why you would project your insecurities onto others.
     
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    You still ca t see it. As one of my 7th grade boys said after a realization, “what girls do has less value because we are told that in so many ways” Another boy said, “being masculine is being as unlike a woman as you can be.”
    One stereotype that people always have is that gay men hate women and I always said that wasn’t a fair stereotype. But you sure fit it Are you very feminine? . I don’t hate myself, I’m comfortable in my body, you obviously aren’t. Do women repulse you so much? I don’t hate myself...sounds like you’re projecting your lack of attraction to women and your hang ups into me. Won’t work.....I dont hate being a woman, obviously you don’t like being a man.
    By the way a girl does not have to be like a boy in order to play sports. Girls are luckier than boys because they can be fluffy or they can be jocks. But girls were denied sports and scholarships were only given to boys for sports and then came title 9
    I’m going to use your quote of saying that telling a boy he’s feminine is an insult but has nothing to do with females. That’s so funny
     
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  7. Polydectes

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    Never heard of that stereotype from anybody ever before, plus you find quite a lot of admiration for women among gay men so I think you are making it up.

    Yet you think a girl playing sports is acting like a boy.
    Sure.
    But you said they did in your last post. Please make up your mind.
    So you should be happy.
    Well a boy not being masculine doesn't really have anything to do with girls, but you suffer from some existential angst. You take something like that as ridicule of you and you ignore the boys. Nobody's victimhood is more important than yours.
     
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    Some goofy feminist think equality means being the same. Men and women are clearly not the same. Equality is achieved thru equal opportunity not forced outcomes.
     
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    You never heard gay men hate women? Never heard they were damaged by mama or a woman? I guess they don’t say those things in front of you because you’re gay. I’m not making it up believe me some of the things people say my groups about gay people is disgusting.
    Sports was always a male thing until women’s consciousness raising. Gym classes were much different for boys than they were for girls and if you don’t know that I’m surprised. But I bet you weren’t playing sports but yearning to polish your nails instead. What I find is fascinating is that you don’t understand that to make males masculine they have to be scornful of anything feminine. What does masculine mean? As my students said it means being like females and that’s a bad thing to be like a female.If someone told their children to keep away from you because you’re gay, do you think there might be an internalized message about homosexuals?
    I love your personal attacks. They just reinforce your hatred for females.
     
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    I guess you don’t realize that one of the main points of feminism is that we are not the same but we just want equal opportunities as you say. some goofy anti-feminist believe that equality means the same And that the outcomes are bad
     
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    Where are the women who "enjoy lording their three to two advantage over men"?
     
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    No, never heard that one. Coddled by their mother yes.
    Or they quit saying it before I was born.
    I've heard it all, I was a closet cases for quite some time.
    Not in my lifetime.
    Nope, swim team. Lots of boys in tiny tiny shorts.
    What I can't believe is that you think boys calling other boys feminine is scornful to girls. It isn't it's scornful to boys. Many girls if not most girls want to be feminine.
    It means a lot of things.
    I was told to stay away from gay men.
    You aren't all females.
     
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    That’s a great answer when I asked you what is masculine and you said “a lot of things “wow what deep thinking. That would be a zero in my class The fact that you don’t understan that calling boys feminine is insulting to girls shows how little insight you have. I heard boys call othersothers **** all the time wasn’t that an insult to gay people.?or was it just about being heterosexual
    Yes girls want to be feminine but femininity doesn’t mean what it used to
    . Being feminine means you can wear fancy clothes and play soccer. Wear your hair with ribbons or you can let it hang loose. Girls have loads of options the boys don’t. If you ever notice very young boys like to do things like play with dolls or paint their nails but mommy and daddy take it away from them because it’s bad because… Girls do that. They don’t take away trucks from a little girls. The only dolls they let boys have are killing dolls.
    Why don’t they have nurse kits for boys but they have doctors kits for both boys and girls?
    Do you think it was scornful when you were in the closet hearing people mock “******s”?
    And for you to actually believe that people still don’t hate gay people you’re living on another planet and as I said they don’t make homophobic remarks in front of you but I hear them all the time in my workshops though happily I can say a lot less than I used to hear
    By the way, why were you told to stay away from gay men?
    .
     
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    Suggesting that's it's the cause of bad things is misanthropic.

    The fact that you think it is insulting to girls means that you think femininity is bad for girls. It's insulting for boys who wish to be seen as masculine.

    well calling a boy a girl isn't calling them the word that starts with C and rhymes with hunt. *** was seen as a slur, if they called them gay, no. I'm happy being gay.
    Yet somehow boys are privileged?

    Yes boys are more restricted. My parents didn't do that to my brother and I. Their reasoning was they wanted us to be good fathers.
    I am not so sure that still happens. Doctors and nurses seem to pretty mixed these days
    I actually did it myself. I think it's more fear based. Our culture does tend to take a lot of meaning from innocent things.
    Sure there are people that hate us, but they wouldn't dare say it in front of me. First I'm a rather friendly and kind fellow, and I'm quite large.
    Parents thought they might make me gay. I only knew one gay man growing up and he worked in the bowling alley. He had ,what one of my friends says, a little sugar in his gastank.
     
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    I never said that masculine is a bad thing. I don’t know how you got that from my asking a simple question of you,.what is masculine? I hope you can do better than saying” lots of things”
    I don’t know where you’re getting this crazy notion that I think femininity is bad for girls. I have made it very clear that girls can have feminine and masculine characteristics and it’s perfectly OK but boys can’t because anything like a girl is negative. I am not saying it’s insulting for boys who wish to be seen as masculine but what does that mean? As my students said being masculine is being as unlike a woman as possible
    Worst thing you can say to a boy is that he plays like a girl but yet a girl will be very proud of being a tomboy
    Yes, there are more female doctors today.....But it didn’t happen in a vacuum. But because women are going in to be doctors rather than nurses because it pays so much more there is a shortage of nurses so they are raising the salaries and guess what . ? men are becoming nurses but it’s still a female dominated profession
    I will ask if some woman smacks her son and says stop acting like you’re gay wouldn’t that be an insult? Well that’s how females feel when I’m parents say to a son, don’t act like a girl.i can’t Believe you don’t get it
     
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    I've heard feminists multiple times talk about something they call toxic masculinity. Aren't you a feminist? Do you not understand the movement you claimed to be part of?


    from your own words you said it's insulting four boys who wish to be seen as masculine to be called feminine not to the boys being called feminine but two girls who more often than not like to be called feminine.

    for all boys everywhere no matter what? News to me. Maybe in 1952.

    You don't know what masculine means? It's characteristics traditionally associated with men.
    Tomboys would be, more feminine girls would likely be insulted.
    Great. It's fantastic that women not only are capable of being doctors and nurses but that they are if they wish to be. Not sure what the inequality there is in that but here we are.
    If I saw that i'd probably feel more for her son. Things like that aren't about me.
    You see kids being humiliated and you think about yourself?

    Your heart doesn't go out to that boy? How incredibly self centered and narcissistic of you.
     
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    Forcing outcomes is bad. I am for equal opportunity. We have that now. Why are women choosing only the safe routes to take?

    Women like to put on an orange vest, direct traffic and call themselves a construction worker. Women join the military, sit behind a desk and call themselves a soldier.....geez, quite pathetic ladies.
     
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    It makes me wonder if it's to be stunning and brave or if women really enjoy that.
     
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    Welcome to the "mommy issues" thread ...
     
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    Everybody who disagrees with me has mental issues.
     
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    Neither. It is to get paid like a man whilst not doing much actual work.
     
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    And maybe you do!
     
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    ...we have a First Amendment; all Talk and no action is ok, chics.
     
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    I wasn't there one suggesting evening that disagrees with me has mental issues, I was mocking it.
     
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    But if the shoe fits......
     
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