Your child says I'm gay. What do you do?

Of course, that was my point. Read the entire post, not just one statement out of context. Still, it’s not always about power either. Sometimes people have sex because it’s enjoyable, nothing more.
If it’s consensual, regardless, where is the power trip ?

 

Ha ha. Sounds like you determine beauty from being gay ir not.

 

You’re implying that acting on a gay desire is a sign you’re gay ?

 

Let’s get real. Everyone has urges and everyone acts on some at one time or another. Some are actually beneficial. If one has an urge, acts in it and no one is hurt by it, there is nothing wrong, lost ir gained a xceot knowledge. The idea that self discipline us what separates gay from straight is only yours.

 

The way you wrote it left a different implication, one that said that most homosexual sex in prison is consensual. Of course homosexuals are not immune to commiting crimes, and there are even straight men willing to engage for sexual release even though not attracted. But more non consensual or consent by threat occurs than consensual.

 

I don’t believe I ever made a qualifier like “ most”.
No, the point was, that heterosexual men engage in homosexual activity, for other reasons then being gay. One, obviously, is power but the other is....sex and even a combination of the two. . There is not much choice in prison.

 

Exactly.....in general. I have no idea about the % one way or another. But, just like sex on the out side, even if is heterosexual, there is sex that is consensual and not, or by threat.