Your Opinions on Dealing With Homosexual People

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  1. Johnny-C

    Johnny-C Well-Known Member

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    Would anyone please share, what they think/believe concerning dealing with homosexual people (whether friend, acquaintance, family, co-worker...etc.).

    Whether one believes anything but heterosexuality is right or wrong, isn't the point.

    I just want to know how you (as an individual) handle the reality of homosexual people being near and/or around you.

    Thanks.
     
  2. Indigo

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    We are normal people. Unless I told you, you wouldn't know I was gay. If you do find out, just treat them like anyone else. Gays are regular (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)bags, just like everyone else.
     
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    There's a lesbian couple that lives a few houses down from us and one of the women is kind of hot. Whenever I talk to her, I can't stop looking at her boobs.
     
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    Although I am a hard-core Far-Right White Nationalist beast, I actually lived for 5 years in gay San Francisco.

    Homosexuals are just regular people.

    As a White Nationalist I admire the following: Ernst Rohm (homosexual German National Socialist), Pim Fortuyn (homosexual racial anti-immigrationist), and even Morrissey (homosexual singer of Pro-White racial songs)

     
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    um well to answer your question i dont do anything to "handle" them, its not my business who they stick their man meat into. they dont try to make me gay so why the hell am i gonna try and make them something they are not?
     
  6. Johnny-C

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    "NAMBLA" is not equal to being homosexual, that's for sure. They are an organization that most homosexual people do not know of and certainly don't agree with.

    As long as there is legal consent (and those having sex do actually consent), age is no issue. Most heterosexual men I've known, tend to want the youngest thing they can find. Personally, I'm usually about older guys that have some experience.
     
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    why is this even a topic? Seriously, it's how some people choose to have sex differently than the majority.

    If they are dishonest people then having gay sex doesn't make them less dishonest.

    I view sex as something private and don't view it as a new gender or race if you have sex differently than I. I don't care how you do it much like I won't do a wife swap. It's not my cup of tea but I don't deny anyone from having sex however they wish.
     
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    It keeps people distracted from important issues. Let them dither on trivia.
     
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    Johnny is expecting special treatment for special people.
     
  10. PatrickT

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    The only time a persons sexuality is an issue is when you, or the other person, wishes to have a sexual relationship. Otherwise it's irrlelevant.

    I gave a button to a friend that says, "That's Mr. (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*) to you." Other than wearing a button or carrying a sign I'm not sure how you know someone is gay unless they tell you.

    So, the short answer is, it is a strange quest6ion that I don't really understand.

    I would like to ask you a question, though. My boss sent an assistant over to ask me if I was gay. I'm curious. How would you handle that?
     
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    Seems the only time someones sexual orientation becomes an issue is when they demand special rights for being a homosexual.
     
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    That's easy - you treat them the same way you would anyone else.
     
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    I do notice their is always a veil of deception being used.

    It's about how 2 people have sex differently than the majority of the world.

    I will never ever see why having sex differently justifies creating a new gender, race or some other type of label/segregation.
     
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    Well, if you are straight, you can just say NO.
     
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    I have a number of homosexual friends. If they had not already mentioned it, or were not consistently with male partners, I don't think I would know the difference.

    O.K. Some flout their homosexuality but it's my guess that the majority don't and they exist in society no different to anyone else. What they do in the privacy of their own homes is of no interest to me and none have differed in public when I have been in their company, than anyone else.
     
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    How do you not consider "man/boy" to not be gay? Would you describe the "man/boy" folks as raging heterosexuals?
     
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    try not to make eye contact if uncomfortable because they will sense it

    it is best to respond to them rather than initiate any conversation and be polite while accomplishing whatever needs to get done in that time frame

    this is of course if they are open, many homosexuals are covert and no one ever knows except who they want to
     
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    Doesn't really bother me.
     
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    I'm just polite and courteous to everyone.
     
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    Some gay people bother me... but not because they are gay.
     
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    That is good!
     
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    If a person is uncomfortable around homosexuals, leave them in peace.

    No one is REQUIRED to be friends with anyone.
     
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    NAMBLA is a criminal element.. It never occurred to me that they were endorsed by the Gay community. They aren't, are they?
     
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    :bonk: oh no. they're not endorsed by the gay community.
     
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    <<< Mod Edit: Off topic >>> What this is based on I can't say, but it certainly has nothing to do with the reality of activism today nor any consensus among the diverse opinions of the broader gay community.
     

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