The Homophobic Double Standard

Discussion in 'Political Opinions & Beliefs' started by CausalityBreakdown, May 31, 2015.

  1. CausalityBreakdown

    CausalityBreakdown Banned at Members Request

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2014
    Messages:
    3,376
    Likes Received:
    49
    Trophy Points:
    48
    The standard homophobe platitude is "I don't have a problem with gay people if it's private, just don't shove it in my face". The thing is, that's full of (*)(*)(*)(*). Some things they deem acceptable for straight people are arbitrarily unacceptable for queer people. Simple innocent gestures of affection. A straight man can keep a picture of his wife on his desk and mention his plans with her in casual conversation, but should the same man be gay and do the same things with a husband, some people see it fit to get up in arms about how he's being "in your face" about his sexual orientation.

    If you want us to stop making a big deal out of being queer, you need to let us. Bigots have made society repressed to the extent where even saying "Yes" to the question "Are you gay?" is a revolutionary act. You don't deserve to complain that someone is trying harder when you're the one who made it necessary to try that hard.
     
  2. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Homosexuality is not normal....end of story.
     
  3. btthegreat

    btthegreat Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 30, 2010
    Messages:
    16,448
    Likes Received:
    7,096
    Trophy Points:
    113
    A lot of things humans do or are, are not normal. We call many of them extraordinary. I'd include the plays of Shakespeare, the paintings of Picasso, the ideas of Einstein and the Wright brothers, and the perfomances of Maria Callas, Mohammad Ali, Marlon Brando, Robert Federer, Bobby Fischer and Baryshnikov as well as the people themselves. Nothing matters less to me than anyone's determination of what is normal and what is not normal in human endeavors, experiences, or interests. Not relevant to the OP.
     
    JohnnyMo and (deleted member) like this.
  4. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Odd post......equating sexual deviants to dyslexics like Einstein, Picasso, Shakespeare. Fischer, Ali and Marlon Brando.
     
  5. CJtheModerate

    CJtheModerate New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2013
    Messages:
    5,846
    Likes Received:
    50
    Trophy Points:
    0
    Homosexuality is not normal, but that does not mean that it is unacceptable.
     
  6. Pardy

    Pardy Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Mar 11, 2013
    Messages:
    10,437
    Likes Received:
    166
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Neither is red hair. End of story.
     
  7. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Don't judge those that don't understand what they cannot know.
     
  8. Karma Mechanic

    Karma Mechanic Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 9, 2012
    Messages:
    8,054
    Likes Received:
    83
    Trophy Points:
    48
    ignorant bigotry is not normal
     
  9. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Red hair argument again.

    Come back when you get new material......OK?
     
  10. btthegreat

    btthegreat Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 30, 2010
    Messages:
    16,448
    Likes Received:
    7,096
    Trophy Points:
    113
    its only an odd post if you misread it. or do not read it thoroughly for comprehension. Just try again and concentrate on that word you chose 'normal' it all flows from that.
     
  11. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Theirs that word again.

    Nice job.
     
  12. CausalityBreakdown

    CausalityBreakdown Banned at Members Request

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2014
    Messages:
    3,376
    Likes Received:
    49
    Trophy Points:
    48
    Saying something and ending it with "End of story" is not an argument and is pretty much the least persuasive thing possible.
     
  13. CausalityBreakdown

    CausalityBreakdown Banned at Members Request

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2014
    Messages:
    3,376
    Likes Received:
    49
    Trophy Points:
    48
    You've failed to add to the discussion in this thread. You've failed to make an intelligent and reasonable argument. You've simply stated an opinion and asserted it to be an undeniable fact without bothering to support it.

    You're a detriment to discussions.
     
  14. Pardy

    Pardy Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Mar 11, 2013
    Messages:
    10,437
    Likes Received:
    166
    Trophy Points:
    63
    When I was 19 or so, I worked on a construction site. The guys gossiped a lot about who they thought were gay. The people who are telling gay people to stay in the closet are the same people bringing them out of the closet. Just ignore them and do your own thing.

    You're pretending that we've never heard the simplistic "homosexuality is not normal" argument before. Just because something is scary doesn't make it bad.
     
  15. CausalityBreakdown

    CausalityBreakdown Banned at Members Request

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2014
    Messages:
    3,376
    Likes Received:
    49
    Trophy Points:
    48
    Allow me to list the ways you've supported your assertions:

    1.

    2.

    3.
     
  16. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    I'm sorry if it offends....but the truth of matter large segment of our society homosexuality is not normal. You're demanding people to understand something that they cannot understand.

    Embrace it......
     
  17. Karma Mechanic

    Karma Mechanic Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 9, 2012
    Messages:
    8,054
    Likes Received:
    83
    Trophy Points:
    48
    I call it as I see it............You seem proud to make the statement and then not own it.
     
  18. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    You're demanding people to understand something that they cannot understand......and never will.

    Embrace that.....
     
  19. Natty Bumpo

    Natty Bumpo Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Nov 28, 2012
    Messages:
    41,773
    Likes Received:
    15,082
    Trophy Points:
    113
    The tight-arsed church lady scolds in the GOP are being confronted by the Party's money grubbers.

    [​IMG][​IMG]

    When the crotch-fixated fussbudgets threaten profit, it's obvious that wallet-focused business interests will win.

    The corporate elite have most of the nation's wealth, and so are worshipped by politicians.

    We saw the prissy ayatollah brigade routed in Indiana, and that's the pattern we can expect elsewhere.

    Piyush is still shamelessly pandering to the bigots. As strategies go, it's a loser.

     
  20. Karma Mechanic

    Karma Mechanic Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 9, 2012
    Messages:
    8,054
    Likes Received:
    83
    Trophy Points:
    48
    yes and hateful bigotry is not normal and it hurts society deeply and should be shunned.
     
  21. TRFjr

    TRFjr Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2013
    Messages:
    17,331
    Likes Received:
    8,800
    Trophy Points:
    113
    are you a science denier?
    there is no purpose in the natural word for homosexuality it does nothing for any species as a matter of fact it can be determent to any species if in to great of a number
    It is a defect
     
  22. Elcarsh

    Elcarsh Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2014
    Messages:
    2,636
    Likes Received:
    396
    Trophy Points:
    83
    So what?

    What does it matter?
     
  23. Conan

    Conan Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2014
    Messages:
    488
    Likes Received:
    338
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Apparently to homosexuals and sexual deviants.
     
  24. kgeiger002

    kgeiger002 Active Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Jun 18, 2013
    Messages:
    2,132
    Likes Received:
    21
    Trophy Points:
    38
    I had a previous job where my Manager had a picture of him and his male partner (holding hands on the beach). It was accepted... so please don't paint that broad brush! ....If anyone had any issues with it then they kept their thoughts private.
     
  25. Elcarsh

    Elcarsh Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2014
    Messages:
    2,636
    Likes Received:
    396
    Trophy Points:
    83
    Please don't try to deflect, here. I'm asking you; why does it matter to you that homosexuality is not the norm?

    Why is that of any importance to you personally?
     

Share This Page