A Response From A "Personals Ad" I Replied Too

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  1. S L H

    S L H New Member

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    Hello Ron!
    Thank you for responding with more than a "hey let's talk" - ha! :)
    I work as an animal nurse and behaviorist, so I stay pretty busy myself. I had hopes of going camping with my dogs, but the season kind of ran away with me. We've never gone (I haven't been since I was a teenager) and I thought it would be fun to get away from all computers and chaos for a weekend. Ha. Maybe next year!
    When motivated, I can grill a mean steak and my lasagna has been known to make people melt. I like all sorts of music (have been to tons of concerts, festivals, and fairs for such) and can usually find joy in just about any genre by just being around someone I like.
    Loving animals is a must - because of my career choices, but also because I work avidly in animal rescue and also compete with my dogs in competition dog sports, like Obedience, Agility, and used to compete in Schutzhund as well.
    On a "hopes and dreams" note: I am hoping to travel to Ireland next year - just have to save enough to completely enjoy it! :) I've thought about skydiving while there also. lol If I'm gonna die, I figure I might as well die happy and with a rush! (Ireland is my dream vacation) What is one of your hopes or dreams?
    Well, I only had to work a half day today, so if you get this and want to chat more, send me a note! Maybe we'll talk more soon...
    Julie
     
  2. S L H

    S L H New Member

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    Anyhow where do I "go" with this?

    She seems "complicated"
     
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    Well assuming that she is a she and not a he who will be drugging your drink and and fondling your man parts, my guess is she is just trying to sound exciting and a handful to preemptively answer the "why aren't you hooked up yet?" question and maybe to reel you in. Just be yourself if you choose to respond (though it would end it right there, I would be tempted to make a comment like "Wow, an animal lover who is good at cooking them on the grill. You are my kind of gal")
     
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    S L H New Member

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    I dunno I aint much of a traveler and methinks she wants somebody who does so they can PAY for IT
     
  5. Smartmouthwoman

    Smartmouthwoman Bless your heart Past Donor

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    It would be interesting to know what your profile on this dating site sez. Wanna share that with us?
     
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    Define complicated.

    She seems nice enough.

    I'm not really into animals or jumping out of perfectly good airplanes, so she's not my type...but I would at least reply and establish a time for a "mini-date" in a public place.

    Although, if she finds out you posted a personal reply of hers on a forum that anyone can read...I don't know, I would not be happy if someone did that to me.
     
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    Hotdogr Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    She wants you to throw her out of an Irish airplane. Sounds like a fun date!
     
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    Lil Mike Well-Known Member

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    She seems like a professional single person. Beyond reason attachment to animals and all kinds of crazy plans for adventure that more than likely will never happen.

    I'm thinking that either she's fat and/unattractive, or that she is crazy, but you may not find out in what way she's crazy until your several dates in. I'd say go on a mini date and ask about her exes. That might tell you what you need to know.
     

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