People fixated on "sex" and "virginity" to an unhealthy extent tend to disturb me I think that Heretic and Cupid Dave should consider just converting to Wahabbi Islam, because it's a much more sexually 'chaste' religion - if these guys had somehow been time warped here from 1500s Purtian England, it wouldn't surprise me. But even by Southern Baptist standards, they're a few centuries behind - so I think Islam might be worth looking into
What are the benefits of chaste women? 1. No STDs, they aren't diseased physically. 2. Not jaded, unchaste women tend to get jaded quickly, and hate men, misandry. Because unchaste women keep getting fooled with "I will love you forever". And then the guy loses interest after he steals her virginity, like a thief, and moves onto his next victim. The jaded girl then thinks "all men are the same" and "only think about one thing". So this creates a bad affect not just on her, but on other men she comes across. She will judge a stranger negatively, because of the first guy who stole her virginity and used her like a tissue. 3. Very devoted, a chaste woman after losing her virginity, really feels attached and emotional for her first love. She doesn't really want to cheat him or leave him. She forms the strongest type of relationship. This is the ideal relationship for a long term, loving marriage. 4. Innocent, a chaste woman is more feminine and innocent. Sex is like a drug. And if a woman acts promiscuously like men do, then she is similar to a drug addict. This creates a liberal, irresponsible attitude, which spreads throughout society and culture. Unchaste women begin to hate chaste women, out of jealousy. And so they attempt to convince chaste women to "join them" as sluts and prostitutes. Unchaste women attempt to lure others into sin, so they don't feel alone with their guilt and shame. - - - Updated - - - Islam actually adopted their stance on fidelity and chastity from TRUE Christianity. So the fundamentalist Moslems merely copy what True Christians already are and should be.
Ick. You want women to repress their sexuality so you can "idolize" them. - - - Updated - - - So what, True Christians™ also believe in putting bags on women in public and beating them with rods at home, then?
So, for you to be sure that they are a chaste woman, would you make sure their hymen was intact? - - - Updated - - - So, for you to be sure that they are a chaste woman, would you make sure their hymen was intact?
Lets not forget that those cultures have a lot of anal sex be it boy or girl, specifically to keep the hymen intact.
Can we point out the negatives of a typical chaste woman? 1. Doesn't know what she wants, and is too shy to ask/direct. 2. Inexperienced and doesn't know how to reciprocate. 3. Tends to get freaked out by anything other than vanilla fun times. 4. And worst of all, may simply be incompatible with her partner, but will be trapped if marriage is a prerequisite to sex.
Look I know you heathens hate virginity and chastity, because you either are a woman who lost her virginity to some guy who later abandoned you, or you are a guy who wants slutty, promiscuous women with standards low enough to include you into bed. But not everybody has low standards, understand? Not every woman wants to give her virtue up to a sleazeball who's going to dump her a week later. Not every man wants to go around turning young girls into sluts and prostitutes. Understand? You people make me sick.
These people don't hate virginity. What they hate are your sweeping generalizations about women. That is the really sick part.
So you posted a thread to attempt to have a more civilized discussion, then you drove it right back to where your last one went. If your assumption is anyone not in total agreement with you is a heathen, then you have no desire to have a thoughtful discussion. You just want to bait people into disagreement so you can then insult them. Very Christian of you I must say. Perhaps looking at that which you so desire as virtuous could actually help you to somehow become virtuous yourself and raise you up out of the hate-filled anger you spout again and again at anyone who thinks or believes differently than you. I seriously question your personal beliefs and your Christianity after witnessing your behavior toward others.
God loves you....but, he may very well be alone in this. Seriously, you and people like you that go against everything Christian while claiming it to be your faith...drive others as far away from it as they can get. Great job "Spreading the Word"!
Don't become hypocrites. What do you want me to say? Look at you. You like promiscuous and slutty women, and why exactly? Because they offer a blowjob? Because they perform perverse sexual acts? Because sex is only pleasure? You liberals forget what sex is for. How am I, and how are we, supposed to have a conversation from totally alien viewpoints? You people see sex as "fun" and pleasure. That's not what sex is. Sex can be pleasurable, yes, but why not with the one you love, instead of a prostitute? Why not have standards, values, and virtues? Why denigrate yourselves, and women, like this? I think you people insult women far, far more than I do. I think liberalism is the biggest insult to women on the planet, to treat a young girl like trash. To have sex with her, then throw her away afterward? Animals, it sickens me. Do you want me to pretend it doesn't? I admit that it is difficult for me to focus on the positive, after hearing what you people claim is "positive". Our definitions of positive are radically different. I cannot count disrespecting women as a positive, as stealing virginity and throwing young girls away, using them like tissue, as a positive. Sexual promiscuity just grosses me out. And you all attack me on this??? That is a lot of hypocrisy. You must at least admit what YOU are, first. How is this any different than slut culture, promiscuity? Isn't this what all of you preach???
My wife and I are teaching our daughter that her worth has nothing to do with sex no matter what men may tell her. We are teaching our daughter that the world is not black and white and there are more options in life than just being either a saintly "Madonna" or a whore. With any luck, our daughter will grow up to be a strong woman who is in control of her own body, has the self confidence and intelligence to decide for herself when she is ready to have sex and with whom and not fall into the cultural trap of a woman's worth being tied into her sexuality.
in your dreams, bud. and if you do the dishes, they might even roll over and take it like a man - - - Updated - - - that too, if you ask nicely and buy chocolates
Congratulations for lying to your daughter? Is that smart of you to encourage her promiscuous behavior? It would be smarter for you to educate her about which type of men will use her up like a tissue, and throw her away, after lying to her about "love". Because young girls are easily taken by liberalism today, and "free" sex. Sex isn't free though, is it? Well maybe you can teach your daughter that it is. But I assure you, all, that sex absolutely has a price. And that price is your eternal soul. The cost of Sin is in the lake of hellfire. I have an idea! Why not teach your daughter to give her virginity to a man who will truly value and honor her?!?!?!? Who will not use and abuse her, will respect her??? And how does a man respect a woman??? Do you even know, are you even aware??? - - - Updated - - - Why do you liars keep saying that I hate sex or that I hate women????? How many times do I need to rewrite the same sentences? I LOVE women. I LOVE sex that is meaningful, purposeful, and enjoyed to its fullest ability, and that means expecting to bring a new life into this world. Maybe you men just hate responsibility and consequences? Maybe you people just hate the thought of accepting the consequences of sex???? Maybe it's YOU people who hate sex??????? Or maybe, just maybe, you hate the consequences? You hate children???
How do I go against Christianity? Do you people actually believe that Christianity is about "loving everybody equally" and "everybody has value" and "human rights for everybody"??? You obviously don't know much about The Bible, The New Testament, The Old Testament, Christ our Lord, or God. You obviously don't care to know, as well. Christ may have "loved everybody", but it was not unconditional. The condition for Christ's love was self sacrifice on the cross, Crucifixion. How is that "unconditional love" when love requires a human sacrifice? EVER THINK ABOUT THAT ONE??!? NO???? Figures, I know you haven't thought about it. You people really don't think very much about these things.
Let me get this straight.....some kid who has sex will be condemn to eternal damnation? LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah...and I believe in Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy!!! It's 2013...get with it! AboveAlpha
Folks like heretic will take advantage of her and turn her into an unchaste woman. He's admitted to doing it many many times. He deflowers them and then treats em like trash.
I have never done such a thing. I have only had sex with unchaste, slutty women. And I have paid a huge price for it. I already pray forgiveness for my Sins. Do you pray forgiveness for your own????????????? Or isn't it a worse case for you, and Margot, and the other atheists, dairyair??????? You have the worst of all case, you think yourself WITHOUT SIN ENTIRELY???????????? You don't even believe Sin exists, do you? You can do no harm, no evil, to others, completely blameless and innocent? You sound sooooooooo innocent. But you're not. - - - Updated - - - I'm not with it???????????? Truly??????????? Let's get the mirrors out and look into them long and hard, before we all start throwing stones! I'm very, VERY aware of which time and age and era we live in today. History repeats.
Sin is thought, word, and deed according to my christian upbringing. So by that definition, living is a sin for humans
Reminds me of that song by Gene Simmons called....LIVING IN SIN AT THE HOLIDAY INN!! LOL!!! Yahoo! AboveAlpha
Why do you atheists feel that you have the capacity or ability to judge me? When it is I who sees right through you???? Why do you hate chastity, innocence, purity, virginity???? Why do you attack me, for valuing and honoring these things??? Oh I already know the reasons. You say that I "hate" women, how??? Where have I ever once claimed that I hate a virgin, chaste, beautiful young girl??? Isn't she valuable? Isn't she worth fighting for? Isn't she worth protecting? Should I protect a prostitute, who sells herself on the street for pennies on the dollar? Should I defend trash??? Should I defend you??? Should I cherish and honor YOUR lifestyles that YOU have chosen????? And then you deny and mock Sin??? Take a good look in the mirrors. You know naught the weight of Judgment. You are unfit for it. And when your time comes, and you look back on the lives you have led, I can only pray for your lost souls. You have been led astray your whole lives. Where have you ONCE chosen, just one time, to love and honor something truly worthy of love and honor??? Do you even know what innocence is, and why it is valuable? Of course you don't. You don't think of such things. Animals don't think, to begin with. Am I the first person in your lives who implore you, and make it necessary, for you to BEGIN THINKING about your souls??? Is this the first time that you've reflected on Sin???? Probably.
First of all I am not an atheist....I am AGNOSTIC. Secondly who are you to caste the first stone? Yes...a person is supposed to protect Prostitutes and Criminals and the like if one truly believes in GOD. AboveAlpha
Actually the atheists and jaded women have already cast plenty of stones against me. Secondly, a prostitute is not the same as a virgin child. And I doubt Christ/God would hold them both to the same Judgment. Because a prostitute is not a virgin child. And a virgin child is not a prostitute, that is, until this modern secular humanist liberal culture turns the young girl into a whore. Which they will. And don't you advocate the same????? Where are YOUR morals??? For me it's simple. Let's RE HONOR what we used to honor. Let's re value traditional marriage, in front of the community, between families, and HONOR TRUE LOVE. Not this mockery of love, this filth, sleaze culture. Prostitution is not the same virginity. Unchaste women are not comparable to chaste women. Don't confuse them.