I can't be friends with political opponents

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  1. CCitizen

    CCitizen Well-Known Member

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    Parent have a legal duty to care for their children up to the age 18. Parents have ethical duty to care for children with disability up to perhaps 25. But it is hard for people my parents' age to care for anyone. Most American parents abandon their adult disabled children.

    In Canada and Scandinavia, the State serves as a surrogate parent for all people who can not support themselves. In USA, the State acts as a prison guard for people with disability.
     
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    That’s as stupid as someone telling people who are against abortion to adopt 10 children
     
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  3. Robert

    Robert Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    But I sprang to your own defense. Where you alerted us paying taxes to the Feds does not change a thing about your lifestyle. And it seems to me you practically love paying taxes to the Feds. What did you say wrong then since you think my comment is stupid? And it has nothing to do with adoption does it?
     
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    Robert Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    If you are who I think you are, born with autism, I thought you said here you have plenty of money. So are you just advocating for the poor who suffer disabilities? I have first hand knowledge that disabilities are a reason to collect social security payments. My own sisters daughter is but 50 and gets money each month from taxpayers. I sold a mobile home to a woman also who was grossly overweight who collected more than $1200 per month due to her claim to be fat and have autism. I was her agent.
     
  5. Le Chef

    Le Chef Banned at members request Donor

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    Obama got big crowds. So did Gandhi. So does the Pope. So does AC/DC. Are they Hitler, too? Man, this Hitler dude gets around!
     
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    Robert Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I have been to that enormous stadium in Nuremberg Germany and it is absolutely amazing. Hitler was able to speak to a million Germans in one place.
     
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    You were the one who brought up crowd sizes as if it somehow justified Trump's toxicity. I merely pointed out that even the most toxic man in recent history got big crowds too.
     
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    Le Chef Banned at members request Donor

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    I don't remember citing crowd size as justification for anybody doing anything toxic. Which of my posts are you referring to?
     
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    Just_a_Citizen Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I can't do it either chef.
    Cut ties with many family members too, even though I didn't vote Trump.

    The toxicity is too much.
     
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    william kurps Banned

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    Wow I would sure hate to use a restroom at halftime with that audience and imagine trying to get out of the parking lot?
     
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    william kurps Banned

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    You have to be civil and take the high road, never talk politics or religion with your friends or loved ones. If they want to talk let them talk.
     
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    Robert Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Come to think of it, I and 3 more guys were there in my car. I forget where we went to relieve ourselves.

    One photo I took showed the 3 squatting and assuming the pose of Hear no evil, see no evil and speak no evil. They tried to copy some photo they saw containing some monkeys.
     
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    Imagine even trying to find your car? Good gawd it must of taken days to get there and leave
     
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    i can be friends with Conservatives.

    but not if they use juvenile terms like "libbtard", "baby killer" and "cuck".
     
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    So you want conservatives to be anti science?
     
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    Ronstar Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    nope, just want them to be civil and not dumb themselves down to the use of childish and ignorant name calling and epithets.

    they're welcome to if they like, but not if they want me as a friend.
     
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    Like I said just be civil too people in real life, do what I do just nod your head and smile/change the subject to sports or something.

    Then you can vent your frustrations on some anonymous messages board
     
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    Ronstar Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    nope, i have moral commitments about certain things and if you're a real dick, we can't be real friends.
     
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    We should be able to talk politics. We used to be able to, when it was expected that any group of 2 or more would involve folk of both persuasions. We weren't bothered by the differences, and didn't regard our opposite as irredeemable demons.

    Of course the difference then was that we were interested in politics, we weren't ideologists. Very different proposition.
     
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    How do your moral convictions make someone else a 'real dick'?
     
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    That is exactly how the civilised folk do it.

    Anything beyond that is the 'real dick' move.
     
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    Robert Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    The day I was there, there were no crowds. And Hitler had been dead for about 18 years.
     
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    Watch this group.

     
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    if someone is constantly a real dick, and calls people names just because they have political disagreements, i cant be their friend
     

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