What I Want From A Woman

Discussion in 'Women's Rights' started by Tram Law, Mar 7, 2015.

  1. Fugazi

    Fugazi New Member Past Donor

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    You are flogging a dead horse, just take some time a read through the MANY threads that poster has started you will see a common theme through them . .all are about how vile feminists are.

    Wiki lists 58 pages of feminist organizations, according to the poster they are all full of mother, men, and children haters who wear a mask of equality while their real agenda is to rule the world .. I wonder what trauma he suffered.
     
  2. yguy

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    No doubt you find that a comforting thought.

    I don't doubt that for a NY minute. Perhaps not coincidentally, human history has been overwhelmingly dominated by despotism.
     
  3. raytri

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    *Shrug*. Let us know when you get a date, too.

    I've been (mostly) happily married for 18 years to a wonderful woman who thinks I'm too honest sometimes. She's gotten good at telling me when she wants me to lie to her, and I think she's also quite good at knowing when I'm telling her what she wants to hear. But she still appreciates that I do so.

    She also knows that I would never lie about important stuff.

    But there is only one answer to "Do I look fat?", and the answer is never "yes". Never.
     
  4. yguy

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    Pilgrim, it hasn't been news to the y-man for many a moon that lies make you happy.

    Your conduct here tells rather a different story. ;)
     
  5. doombug

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    You will have to look internationally. When I started travelling for work I realized one thing: Women in the US are generally not suited for a relationship. I really do not fault them at all. Our society values equality and that is great but we are in a transition period that is not good for relationships. Women value their independence more than a relationship. That is bad for relationships.

    Women who have not been indoctrinated with our society's feminism are great in relationships. I have dated many and married one. Best thing I ever did. She is much more balanced. While she is an independent woman she also values our relationship. Hopefully our society will evolve but not anytime soon. Many people today will live and die alone.
     
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    Hi! I've been searching for his companion. And do not believe I met him at this dating site Adviser Edit - Rule 15 ADVERTISING He was very sweet and caring! And do not believe then in the online dating service!
     
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  8. doombug

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    Really? How many are "a lot". In case you haven't noticed the divorce rate is quite high and I hear men complaining about women here in the US all the time. The reason most women do not hear it is because the men only want to sleep with the women. Most men do not buy into feminism. They only pretend to as a way to get into a woman's panties. Sorry but it is the truth.

    I don't believe feminism is a bad thing but it has caused women confusion as far as relationships.

    Sorry but this is also true. Women in US society are lost when it comes to relationships. I do see the younger women finding more of a balance though. So there is hope.

    And I never said women should put the man first. Don't be silly.

    Really? There are women who have been trained like dogs to serve their master? Where? Perhaps Tram Law should check this place out. I have never heard of it.


    What do I need with billions of women? I only want to have a relationship with one. Is there something wrong with that?

    And yes I dated many women here in the US and other countries. I never gave up on US women because there are some good ones out there. It is just when it came down to it foreign women won.

    I wouldn't say obedient. She is as interested in my happiness as I am hers. She is quite independent and intelligent. She will be graduating college next year and has done very well. Her intelligence is one of the things I admire and find attractive about her.

    It doesn't seem that way in the US. Folks are either single or married and miserable. I always encourage single people to cast a wide net and meet as many people as possible. The chances of finding a great partner is better that way. Why do you have such a problem with that?
     
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    I think [MENTION=57649]Tram Law[/MENTION] has every right to expect these things :)
     
  10. Tram Law

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    Thank you.
     
  11. doombug

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    Me too. Sometimes it seems these feminists just do not want to see a man happy.
     
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    It appears to me that men as well as women have kind of unlearned to make compromises. We don't want to content ourselves with a partner who has minor flaws when there might be someone better. It's sad.
    People rush from one troubled short-term relationship to the other, always on the hunt for the gold at the end of the rainbow (they'll never find) and don't realize that any of those relationships might have lasted if they just put a little more work into it.
     
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    Men are stupid....and women are crazy, The main reason women are crazy is due to men being stupid. Women are emotional, hormone containers poised constantly on the edge of the cliff and awaiting the turbulent breeze of male whispers. Men are half way out the door looking for temporary solitude to avoid making everything worse.

    No man has ever "Won" an argument or dispute against his chosen woman...for if he ever did, he would be paying the price for doing so for Days/Weeks/ Forever instead of the hours of losing.

    I recommend some of the guys replying in this thread seek new places to meet women, because you are obviously hanging out around women of lesser quality.
     
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    Whether or not any of the US women want to castrate or emasculate anybody, at my friend's age, there were zero oppurtunities with the age-group of women that he found desirable. So he went overseas and found a wonderful lady 30 years his junior. Yes, it did cost him 10k and took almost a full year to get her to US. But now she's making it well worth his trouble.
     
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    First date will be hard, cross-checking all those requirements...

    She'll probably wonder why you're putting ticks and crosses on your napkin. Anyway, how many will she need to 'pass'? Fumble the science thing OK? Probably just make sure she doesn't know MORE science than you...

    Don't think this is a wish-list but a gripe-fest. If you start from a position of mistrusting, of being negative towards woman... you shouldn't be surprised when it doesn't work out for you.
     
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    A mail-order bride strikes me as more his speed.
     
  18. doombug

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    That's good advice. Negativity is bad especially for a first date. Taking a genuine interest in getting to know the other person is the best approach as well as putting your best foot forward. For a guy it is important to be respectful without being a wuss. Women are still women and on a primitive level are still wired a certain way. A man has to be a man even in this day and time.
     
  19. Tram Law

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    i have a very low ego. I'm not threatened by a woman that would know more than I or have a higher education.

    It is not a gripe fest. It's more like a finding the right store fest with the best deals.

    Why do women ALWAYS gripe about men defining the things they like and don't like in a woman? And it is also a double standard, because you women ALWAYS complain that there are no such things as a good man.

    Well, now I know why.
     
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    You're coming at all of this the wrong way. "You women ALWAYS complain there are no such things as a good man." You said that. Really?! Stop with the generalisations and open your mind. Cos it's shut.

    If you are genuinely interested in going out with a nice woman... be a nice man yourself. There.

    Keep an open mind.

    Be kind and generous and attentive... and also think about what SHE may want in a relationship. It's a two-way street. You talk about what you want and don't want but don't forgot there's an autonomous human being on the other end and she has needs and wants too. Once you recognise a nice woman, treat her well and she will treat you well. There. I'm not going to get into anything here as far as listening to your generalisations about women. Cos they're just your generalisations and NOT how life and love and women and men goes.

    If you can't keep an open mind and be less judgmental about women... it's not going to work no matter how much you think you really want it. Negativity will never get you over the line. Be positive and you will attract a nice woman. Possess and cultivate the good qualities you are seeking in a partner... and you're on your way. Like attracts like.

    Cheers.
     
  21. Tram Law

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    You are the one judging me and using dishonest bull(*)(*)(*)(*) to turn this against me.

    Just like everyone else.
     
  22. Gwendoline

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    Did you ever consider that 'everyone else' may have a point?
     
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    Did you ever consider that you could be wrong and are just making hasty judgements against me out of your own prejudices against men?

    What I've said was not what you think it is.

    i'm really tired of people saying it's always my fault and nobody else does no wrong.

    And nobody ever admits they are wrong when I point them out.

    So why should I when absolutely nobody else is mature enough to to have a rational even handed discussion without taking it personally and going off the deep end and blaming me without knowing the things I've been through.

    So, i really just don't care anymore.

    You are the ones judging me, and insulting and berating me, and assuming all kinds of things about me.

    So why can't i do the same thing back to you?

    What makes you so special that you can do this but i can't?

    You're all the same. Never thinking, just reacting, and lashing at at anybody who is different than you.
     

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