Where have all the real men gone?

Discussion in 'Political Opinions & Beliefs' started by Spooky, Jul 2, 2018.

  1. Spooky

    Spooky Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Nov 29, 2013
    Messages:
    31,814
    Likes Received:
    13,377
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Where are they?

    There used to be a time when you could rely on a man to be a man, someone who would be there to protect you, to comfort you, someone you could fall in love with and take care of when they need it but its so fake nowadays.

    All they do is play games to get laid, to talk to their buddies, none of them seem serious about anything and when you do find one that seems legit it turns out he's insane, running from the law, is married....where have they gone?

    Today it seems men think that getting in your face and being obnoxious makes them attractive..it doesn't

    [​IMG]

    I don't want that in my life....I want a man who thinks about more than himself and how great he is and how good his job is and what clothes he wears...I want a man that thinks about others before himself

    [​IMG]

    I don't want a man that thinks being rude is hot, that not caring is the "in" thing, its not, let me tell you.

    [​IMG]
    Its ok to lie to make your woman feel special and important, sometimes we don't want or need the truth, sometimes your job is to lift us up even if we are wrong.

    Be there for us and it will come back ten fold.

    [​IMG]

    Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be any of these men left. The few that were good are taken and the rest are simply a waste of time.
     
    Ddyad, ibobbrob, Moi621 and 1 other person like this.
  2. cerberus

    cerberus Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2015
    Messages:
    25,530
    Likes Received:
    5,363
    Trophy Points:
    113
    I blame extreme feminism. I also put it down to the inherent incompatibility between the genders which, except in extremely rare instances, is one of the facts of life.
     
    Polydectes and nra37922 like this.
  3. Vernan89188

    Vernan89188 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 11, 2014
    Messages:
    8,685
    Likes Received:
    2,072
    Trophy Points:
    113

    ROFL, Only thing nice in that last pic was the car...The cuck whom is opening the door for the gold digger is just that.

    Unless that's her car...Then bravo dude.
     
    Last edited: Jul 2, 2018
  4. HonestJoe

    HonestJoe Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Oct 28, 2010
    Messages:
    14,889
    Likes Received:
    4,867
    Trophy Points:
    113
    I don’t see how men (or women) have magically changed in any significant way. There has always been a massive range of types of people so the idea that men are one particular way is clearly flawed, based on a specific perception rather than overall reality.
     
    Margot2, tealwings, Sallyally and 3 others like this.
  5. Beer w/Straw

    Beer w/Straw Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2017
    Messages:
    899
    Likes Received:
    339
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Female
    "Where have all the real men gone?"

    Well, like your hero, their out grabbing women by the *****.

    MAGA Yay!

    :EDIT:

    Oh, and I guess you're not sixteen so Roy Moore wont date you.
     
    Last edited: Jul 2, 2018
    Margot2, ibobbrob, BobbyRam and 4 others like this.
  6. doombug

    doombug Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 19, 2012
    Messages:
    56,871
    Likes Received:
    22,778
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Guys have figured out they can play the feminism game to get what they want with zero commitment. How do I know this? I am a guy.
     
  7. HonestJoe

    HonestJoe Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Oct 28, 2010
    Messages:
    14,889
    Likes Received:
    4,867
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Speak for yourself! Clearly you’d play the system to get what you want regardless. Society may have changed, you won’t have.
     
  8. Mac-7

    Mac-7 Banned

    Joined:
    Apr 21, 2011
    Messages:
    86,664
    Likes Received:
    17,636
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Blame ot on the new liberal culture
     
    roorooroo and Moi621 like this.
  9. doombug

    doombug Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 19, 2012
    Messages:
    56,871
    Likes Received:
    22,778
    Trophy Points:
    113
    That's the ticket! Never admit the truth of playing the game to get laid with no strings attached! Now tell us how "sensitive" you are. That one always makes me chuckle.
     
    roorooroo and Stevew like this.
  10. HonestJoe

    HonestJoe Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Oct 28, 2010
    Messages:
    14,889
    Likes Received:
    4,867
    Trophy Points:
    113
    I’ve never claimed to be “sensitive” but no-strings sex has never appealed to me either and I know I’m not alone in that (though admitting it brings exactly the kind of petty insults you’re flinging). Neither of our preferences are new and neither are fundamentally wrong.
     
    Margot2 likes this.
  11. Mac-7

    Mac-7 Banned

    Joined:
    Apr 21, 2011
    Messages:
    86,664
    Likes Received:
    17,636
    Trophy Points:
    113
    No strings sex is fun for men

    But over time it lowers their respect for women
     
  12. Crownline

    Crownline Banned at Members Request

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2016
    Messages:
    6,472
    Likes Received:
    6,537
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Somebody is ovulating again.
     
    Sallyally and TrackerSam like this.
  13. doombug

    doombug Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 19, 2012
    Messages:
    56,871
    Likes Received:
    22,778
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Sure, sure.....lolz!
     
  14. Tim15856

    Tim15856 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 27, 2016
    Messages:
    7,792
    Likes Received:
    4,229
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Maybe there are fewer 'good men' around these days, but it's always been this way. I often saw good men, the nice guys passed over by women for the bad boys who would give them excitement. Many didn't start looking at the nice guys until they had a couple kids and divorced the bad boys.
     
    cerberus, ibobbrob and TrackerSam like this.
  15. VotreAltesse

    VotreAltesse Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Mar 1, 2017
    Messages:
    6,163
    Likes Received:
    3,097
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Glad to see you stay always classy.
     
  16. logical1

    logical1 Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Jun 15, 2011
    Messages:
    25,426
    Likes Received:
    8,068
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Well I know that real men did NOT go the the democrat party.
     
  17. Surfer Joe

    Surfer Joe Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2008
    Messages:
    24,449
    Likes Received:
    15,623
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Lol...You're not really a woman, are you?
     
    Sallyally and Derideo_Te like this.
  18. Nonsensei436

    Nonsensei436 Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Jan 9, 2018
    Messages:
    1,450
    Likes Received:
    960
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Plenty of them out there. What you won’t acknowledge is that you have other standards too. Superficial standards that many of the men with the personality you desire don’t meet.

    People have some pretty bonkers expectations when it comes to a romantic partner, and a sense of entitlement that is sky high and fueled by TV shows and pop culture. Ever dismiss a man on sight?

    Fine if you did, but the personality traits you want can’t be seen by looking at his body. So let’s be a bit more honest here. What you want is all those things you said, but he also needs to meet your physical and financial standards. You’re a bit more choosy than you are letting on. Everyone is.
     
    Derideo_Te likes this.
  19. opion8d

    opion8d Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2018
    Messages:
    5,864
    Likes Received:
    4,631
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Define "real men."
     
    Derideo_Te likes this.
  20. garyd

    garyd Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jun 18, 2012
    Messages:
    57,406
    Likes Received:
    16,988
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Uncalled for and unnecessary. And very likely not true in this case.

    There is nothing wrong or unmanly about being courteous and kind. The best advice I ever heard was in 'Grand Torino' when Eastwood's character tells the young Hmong "Be nice but don't suck up." In fact the man who cannot be courteous and kind is also the man least sure of himself.
     
    Margot2 likes this.
  21. MMC

    MMC Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 4, 2012
    Messages:
    41,793
    Likes Received:
    14,697
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male

    Quit hanging around the leftness and their beta males. Just sayin. [​IMG]

     
    US Conservative likes this.
  22. Spooky

    Spooky Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Nov 29, 2013
    Messages:
    31,814
    Likes Received:
    13,377
    Trophy Points:
    113
    If you have to ask you obviously aren't there yet.

    No offense.
     
    RichT2705 and MMC like this.
  23. dave8383

    dave8383 Banned at Members Request Past Donor

    Joined:
    Jun 22, 2018
    Messages:
    4,995
    Likes Received:
    1,184
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    It's no less fun for women.
     
    Sallyally likes this.
  24. opion8d

    opion8d Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2018
    Messages:
    5,864
    Likes Received:
    4,631
    Trophy Points:
    113
    You obviously have no idea, just hot air. Perhaps you're looking at the wrong side of a mirror.
     
    Derideo_Te likes this.
  25. Spooky

    Spooky Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    Nov 29, 2013
    Messages:
    31,814
    Likes Received:
    13,377
    Trophy Points:
    113
    You've never seen me in a mini-skirt with my click-click heels on.
     

Share This Page