...why do gays feel that some random person on the internet being a 'bigot' towards homosexuals is somehow going to lead to gay suicides, or stonings? The reason people say there's a 'gay mafia' is because a lot of militant gays and gay activists think it's their 'mission' to harrass random people whether on or offline just for 'not being tolerant enough' toward gays - and seem to think that the beliefs about gays of some random nobody on the internet acting plays a significant role in the 'gay rights struggle' - I think it's pretty stupid, and these whiny militant gays who sit around think they're accomplishing something by badgering anyone they deem 'homophobic' need to just get a life.
You are stereotyping here; in the most bigoted of ways. No one should take you seriously. You're just generating noise.