Women need to put their husbands before their kids.

Its just reversed from hollywood fantasies pushed on women about romance. Typically its the woman who thinks she's entitled to be worshipped by virtue of being a woman or mother. OP is reversing it to where the man is entitled to be worshipped by virtue of being a man or father. Both are rediculous, self centered, selfish and destructive, not demonstrative of mental health. Parents goal should be raising kids that are positive contributors to humanity, or at the very least, self sufficient and self reliant. Not being worshipped by their spouse.

OP- go get some hobbies and learn how to be happy with yourself as an individual instead of relying on others to provide you your self-worth.

 

hear hear!!!!

 

Can you get more specific? What do you mean when you talk about women putting kids first and husband's last.

 

Men will do the same thing. Men will put work, entertainment, and sex before their wives.

 

But what if dey's husband...

... is an abusive alcoholic?

 

Is this a joke?

When you fertilise an egg, you forfeit self-interests. You have made a commitment to be a SUPPORT SYSTEM for the next generation.You had your turn, from birth until that first egg was fertilised. And you get another turn after your eggs have safely reached adulthood. For that 20 or so years in between, suck it up. It's not about you.

 

the successful development, survival, and happiness of your children is priority #1.

all else is a lower priority.

most parents understand this

 

Dunno, Susan Dey was quite beautiful.
I have no idea who she married, how many times was she divorced or re-married or if her husband(s)
Were / are alcoholics etc...

Born: December 10, 1952 (age 65), Pekin, IL

Height: 5′ 7″

Spouse: Bernard Sofronski ( m. 1988 )

Lenny Hirshan ( m. 1976–1981 )

Children: Sara Dey-Hirshan

Siblings: Leslie Smith

 

Uncle Ferd says...

... Susan Dey's a honey.

 

The OP complains that not enough white Americans are having kids, and now he complains that wives give too much attention to their kids.

make up your damn mind, @Channe

 

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Women need to put their husbands before their kids.

Some men need to evaluate their testicular fortitude and become attractive to women of character.

 

If you are married and have kids the kids come first. We have real life examples of what happens if you put the kids first and what happens if you put yourself first. Asian and Jewish families (and most immigrant families from overseas for that matter) are famous for focusing on their kids performance and education and well being. The black community is infamous for being the exact opposite, by and large they don't give a crap about their kids and only think of themselves first. This is why you have so many women with different kids from different baby daddies. Is the OP arguing that everyone's family should strive to be more like the average black family?

 

That is why more Women seek out Gay Men as Husbands, because Gay Men are better Fathers.

Sarcasm / Humour warning.

 

You say that in sarcasm but there is likely truth within it. I guess I have not met these gay man seeking women/wives but know quite a few that enjoy the company of gay men as friends....it is unlikely they would befriend someone who thinks as you seem to, let alone choose to do more.
In my experience there is a balance in the middle of effeminate and macho that women seek, with this balance often comes intellectual diversity and what women would call a "Nice Guy". I will also state for the record and from experience that we seldom finish last.