Gay and Lesbian rights ,well Ok define what they are ?

Because you say so? I reject this claim outright as completely unsupportable. You have nothing persuasive to back this up. It's nothing more than a concept of your own manufacture - one that only applies in your own imagination.

Meanwhile, your list reveals that you're the one with an agenda here.

Which asks us to posit as true that "gay" and "lesbian" are strictly derogatory terms, but the fact that many people of same-sex orientation use them in a manner that cannot be honestly described as derogatory contradicts this. So it's just your perception that they're derogatory - a perception that chooses to ignore any context that doesn't fit your own bias.

And the people in the USA who use the terms "homosexual", "homosexuality" exclusively because they believe it 'accurately' describes a mental illness are never going to view or treat you as normal.

See the answer to #2 above. The people here who use the term "homosexual" are not going to allow us to enjoy those freedoms or respect our privacy.

I don't think anyone should be pressured to marry. I think those who wish to should have the option, and that it needn't be based on religion. I do not agree that the abolition of marriage is a "common democratic right". I consider that nothing more than pointless rhetoric.

More empty rhetoric.

So you have something against the middle class? You have a prejudice against education? Again, I am not surprised.