Just out of curiosity, is your wife of Asian ancestry? You don't have to answer this if you don't want to but I am just curious. You seemed to be raving about the beauty of Oriental women in that other thread.
A little weird. I don't mind the flossing so much as the stuff never seems to make it in the trash can until I have to round it all up, and those picks are horrible. I can't even use them but I find them everywhere. I use Glide tape so as long as you don't use those flosser picks, you are ahead of the game with me.
She has passed away, but she was French. BTW, I'm pretty sure the point I was making in the thread you're referencing was that all kinds of women, from all over the world, are beautiful.
Yes this ^^^ The quickest way to get bored in your marriage is to share everything, it's why marriages more often turn into friendships instead of a love affair.
Yeah, I'm not sure about the flossing being a big deal, but the other bodily functions should require some privacy. You're still trying to have a romantic relationship, and some things you just can't unsee.
Nothing my girlfriend does grosses me out anymore. Lived together for 3 years. The one thing that still bothers me is when she talks on the phone when we're both sitting on the couch watching tv. Like...go in another Fing room!!!
Yes, I floss in front of my wife and vice versa. I have no problem eliminating waste in front of her either. We have a toilet in a room off of the main bathroom, and I rarely close the door. That said, it's not like we watch each other, we just don't hide it. It all depends on you and her, and what you feel is appropriate. Every couple is different, and has to work these kind of things out.
I guess I just don't see flossing as icky. I will wipe my butt in front of her, but as I'm seated, there's not anything to see. Not flushing is just gross. My guess is that you are uptight, and you probably shouldn't ever have kids. Flossing is nothing compared to what you have to do with kids. You have to wipe their butts (even for a few months after they are toilet trained).
One of my girls doesn't care. She'll drop a deuce with the door open and talk to me the entire time. The other one hides whenever she has anything "personal" to take care of. It really all comes down to the person, I think. But as @ChrisL said early on, you really do share everything, and if that's not comfortable... well... I guess you do what you do.
I am curious what brought this up? I mean even when dating and going out of town , we shared pretty much everything.. .
Well, there was some reason you broke up or he broke up. Many women would not tolerate a man who could not make up his mind to marry them. Mom used to tell me, why buy the cow when the milk was free?
Well, you told the story about your life, not me. My thinking is that if nobody else deserves marriage, the children who often are born deserve it. By the way, if you noticed, I NEVER asked you for details. I don't really worry why you broke up.
Lol! Oops, scuse me! My ex had no fears about farting in front of me. He used to think it was funny actually. Men, they can be like 12-year-old boys sometimes. As an aside, you probably aren't really meant to be together if you can't do your "personal business" in front of your SO. Or at least that's how I feel. I want to be totally comfortable with the person that I'm with. I don't want to have to worry about being "embarrassed" about this or that.
