Which of the following cases should be granted an abortion

Discussion in 'Abortion' started by Bowerbird, Jun 5, 2021.

?

Which of the following cases should be granted an abortion

  1. 26 year old 17 weeks pregnant with a partial miscarriage - foetus retained has heartbea

    16 vote(s)
    94.1%
  2. 11 year year old pregnant by grandmothers boyfriend 20 weeks pregnant

    16 vote(s)
    94.1%
  3. Mother of four 2 disabled children husband lost his job 8 weeks pregnant

    16 vote(s)
    94.1%
  4. 17 year old homeless girl 10 weeks pregnant

    16 vote(s)
    94.1%
  5. A 36 year old woman 28 weeks pregnant foetus diagnosed with anencephaly

    17 vote(s)
    100.0%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Bowerbird

    Bowerbird Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Messages:
    92,631
    Likes Received:
    74,078
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Female
    And how long would that take for a bioethics council to meet? Would you be happy waiting for a bioethics council to meet and decide if you were going to get a treatment you wanted?

    as for adoption - it may still be problematic especially if she has to become the breadwinner because it will limit her earning
     
    Last edited: Jul 16, 2021
    FoxHastings likes this.
  2. Bowerbird

    Bowerbird Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Messages:
    92,631
    Likes Received:
    74,078
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Female
    And if they took all precautions? Or it was one of the cases above? A 17 year old living on the streets may not have been raped in the strict legal sense but she will not have the same circle of control you or I would have
     
    FoxHastings likes this.
  3. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113

    If a woman deems her pregnancy as unwanted then it is unwanted.
    You seem to want to take that choice away from her as if she is too stupid to decide for herself.





    What TF is "moral intelligence"?....if "intelligence " enters into it then one would intelligently realize not everyone's "morals" are the same.
     
  4. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113


    Then WHY are you and other Anti-Choicers butting in ?
     
  5. crank

    crank Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2013
    Messages:
    54,812
    Likes Received:
    18,482
    Trophy Points:
    113
    1) If you life is so shambolic that it could change so dramatically within 12 weeks, you have bigger problems than a stray pregnancy.

    2) Sure, and the sky could fall. If a woman is determined not to conceive, she can do it ... and that's where the buck stops. Yes contraceptives sometimes fail (though just as often it's the user who fails to use the contraceptives correctly), but we know that - because we're not idiots or small children. We factor that risk in, if we can't afford to risk a pregnancy.

    3) EXACTLY. Women know exactly what they're doing. Glad you agree.
     
    Last edited: Jul 16, 2021
  6. crank

    crank Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2013
    Messages:
    54,812
    Likes Received:
    18,482
    Trophy Points:
    113
    I don't want to do anything but remind you how misogynistic it is to condemn women - whether by implication or directly - to some kind of childlike state wherein they don't understand cause and effect.
     
  7. crank

    crank Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2013
    Messages:
    54,812
    Likes Received:
    18,482
    Trophy Points:
    113
    To rail against the misogyny.
     
  8. crank

    crank Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2013
    Messages:
    54,812
    Likes Received:
    18,482
    Trophy Points:
    113
    17 year old homeless girls are a tiny proportion of abortion patients.
     
  9. Bowerbird

    Bowerbird Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Messages:
    92,631
    Likes Received:
    74,078
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Female
    Are they? Let me ask - who do you think is the “typical” person seeking an abortion
     
  10. kazenatsu

    kazenatsu Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    May 15, 2017
    Messages:
    34,722
    Likes Received:
    11,272
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Maybe. But a white baby will still fetch more on the adoption market than probably what that single mother will earn in an entire year.

    Just something to consider.

    Many adoptive parents seeking a baby are willing to pay the pregnant woman up front to agree to give them the baby, and are willing to assume the risk that the baby might not be healthy or could have a disability - the biological mother would still be guaranteed to get paid.
     
    Last edited: Jul 17, 2021
  11. kazenatsu

    kazenatsu Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    May 15, 2017
    Messages:
    34,722
    Likes Received:
    11,272
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Unwanted by her. There might be plenty of other loving families waiting on long lists to have a baby like that.
     
    Last edited: Jul 17, 2021
  12. Bowerbird

    Bowerbird Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Messages:
    92,631
    Likes Received:
    74,078
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Female
    You mean the misogyny evident in the “blame the woman for being a reckless slut but laud the man for being a fertile stud” misogyny?
     
    FoxHastings likes this.
  13. btthegreat

    btthegreat Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 30, 2010
    Messages:
    16,421
    Likes Received:
    7,079
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Why do you feel free to misquote me, or misrepresent my opinion? It is not my opinion that any one of any gender knows exactly what they are doing, and it never will be my position. If it is yours, claim it as yours and leave me out of it.

    Not one word that you have written undermines my position that women however flawed they may or may not be, are in the best position to decide what form of contraception to use, whether to use any at all, and whether to bring a pregnancy to term, not any govt, institution or party. They are the proper stewards of their body and of the fetus and they are inevitably in the better place to decide what should happen with that fetus.
     
    Last edited: Jul 17, 2021
    FoxHastings and Bowerbird like this.
  14. Bowerbird

    Bowerbird Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Messages:
    92,631
    Likes Received:
    74,078
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Female
    What “adoption market”?
    https://birthmotherthoughts.com/ado...urces/do-birth-mothers-get-paid-for-adoption/

    Katz next time save yourself some embarrassment and check your facts first
     
    FoxHastings likes this.
  15. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113
    FoxHastings said:
    If a woman deems her pregnancy as unwanted then it is unwanted.


    So what?

    It isn't their body or their decision OR YOURS ...it's the decision of the pregnant one....

    what can't you understand about that????? Women are not things to be used....
     
    Bowerbird likes this.
  16. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Bowerbird likes this.
  17. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113
    crank said:
    1) If you life is so shambolic that it could change so dramatically within 12 weeks, you have bigger problems than a stray pregnancy.

    2) Sure, and the sky could fall. If a woman is determined not to conceive, she can do it ... and that's where the buck stops. Yes contraceptives sometimes fail (though just as often it's the user who fails to use the contraceptives correctly), but we know that - because we're not idiots or small children. We factor that risk in, if we can't afford to risk a pregnancy.

    3) EXACTLY. Women know exactly what they're doing. Glad you agree.




    She does that to me and others also...she has no argument so she has to constantly makes up things and claim other posters say them when they never have...
     
    Bowerbird likes this.
  18. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113
    FoxHastings said:
    Then WHY are you and other Anti-Choicers butting in ?

    What misogyny ??? Pro-Choicers want to protect women's rights, not destroy them like Anti-Choicers ( misogynists)..


    So you are Pro-Choice?
     
  19. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113
    FoxHastings said:
    If a woman deems her pregnancy as unwanted then it is unwanted.
    You seem to want to take that choice away from her as if she is too stupid to decide for herself.


    Which I never did and like all your other posts is just make believe because you really don't have an argument of any merit..


    FoxHastings said:
    If a woman deems her pregnancy as unwanted then it is unwanted.
    You seem to want to take that choice away from her as if she is too stupid to decide for herself.
     
  20. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113
    It is sexist and misogynistic to expect women to never make a mistake..

    Women are human, they make mistakes. To say they shouldn't is misogynistic and sexist.
     
    Bowerbird likes this.
  21. kazenatsu

    kazenatsu Well-Known Member Past Donor

    Joined:
    May 15, 2017
    Messages:
    34,722
    Likes Received:
    11,272
    Trophy Points:
    113
    It's not the end of the world to make a mistake. We just have to take responsibility for our mistakes and make the best of the situation that exists and do the right thing from then on.
    If she only makes one mistake in her entire life, then it really won't be so bad. That's only one pregnancy.
     
  22. FoxHastings

    FoxHastings Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2014
    Messages:
    56,891
    Likes Received:
    21,025
    Trophy Points:
    113
    FoxHastings said:
    It is sexist and misogynistic to expect women to never make a mistake..

    So you take care of YOUR mistakes and let others deal with thiers...



    If anyone only makes ONE mistake in their lives it would be a miracle....here you go again entering the world of fantasy.

    It is sexist and misogynistic to expect women to never make a mistake....or only make one...
     
    Last edited: Jul 17, 2021
  23. Bowerbird

    Bowerbird Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Messages:
    92,631
    Likes Received:
    74,078
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Female
    Having an abortion often IS the responsible thing to do. You do not know the circumstances these women are in you do not know what is driving the decisions

    upload_2021-7-18_6-39-42.png

    So, what say instead of railing at women we empower them by giving out “baby bonuses” so that they can successfully raise the child or better child support or paid maternity leave or……..best yet make LARCS cheap and affordable
     
    FoxHastings likes this.
  24. crank

    crank Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2013
    Messages:
    54,812
    Likes Received:
    18,482
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Not at all. But I would protest very loudly that 17 year old homeless girls would be one of the tiniest proportions. I have no doubt that the vast majority are ordinary adult women, living indoors and simply not in a position to deal with a child.
     
  25. crank

    crank Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2013
    Messages:
    54,812
    Likes Received:
    18,482
    Trophy Points:
    113
    What drove their decision to risk a pregnancy? If they know their circumstances won't tolerate a baby .. I mean.
     

Share This Page