You all still dragging this dead dog around? The noise males make thinking they are the end all, is equal to women who think the are the end all. One could not survive without the other... which makes them pretty much equal, in my book. Get over yourselves already.
A large percentage of women start to lose their sex drive as soon as they feel safe and secure in a relationship. So by doing all the right things, by being loving and supportive and loyal, we men sabotage our own lives. As for using sex as a weapon, please, this is too common to even mention. If you don't think this is true then you are very naive.
It has nothing to do with men, now having a secure source for sex, being about as attentive to the relationship as a paper bag. Any relationship requires involvement from both sides. Some people think that the even trade of dinner=sex is fine, if both parties agree to the contract. And if that is all that either want, then go for it. But for a permanent relationship, dinner=sex isn't a factor, when the equation looks a little more like dinner=sex, laundry, housekeeping, income, child rearing, house maintenance and bookkeeping.
And men don't have to work or have difficulties? When men have a bad day, we usually find sex a relief, not a burden. Here's a bit of irony: Sex can cure headaches.
False. It is biology. When the nesting instincts are satisfied, the natural sex drive is often reduced. This is because women use sex to catch a mate. Likewise, when women are menstruating, they wear sexier clothes; show more skin, and don't even know they're doing it. PS. My ex started cutting me off on our wedding night. She never had a real sex drive and lied about it.
You really aren't seeing the difference between your post and mine, are you. And therein lies the rub.... Muscle relaxation quite often helps a multitude of problems, including a 'headache'.
My little lady is getting on a bit and im banging with the same frequency (a lot) with no complaints.
Can most above average looking women get an above average looking man to french kiss their butt for an hour, or is that something they would let an average looking guy do, or is that something few above average looking women would want from a side partner?
It is not the same though. A woman can stay fit. A guy can't grow taller. I'd rather stay celibate. Happiness in my hobbies.
Not to the same extent. Men invest less with their sperm than women do with their wombs. Also a guy can stop a woman from his boundaries. Women can't, so they pick a guy with whom they have fewer boundaries. That excludes a lot of guys.
Yeah, no. Fit and healthy men don't 'obsess' about fat chicks, they simply want nothing to do with them (as partners). Why on earth would someone who has the self respect and self discipline to stay healthy, want to share his life with someone who doesn't give a damn, and makes zero effort to stay alive? ESPECIALLY if she's going to be the mother of his kids. It's the equivalent of hooking up with a heroin addict. And sorry to burst your bubble, but the better looking the man is the less likely he is to tolerate fat chicks.
Nope. When it comes to women over the age of 35ish, it's almost all predicated upon her hormones, life-completeness, happiness, stability, confidence, social life, and health. Very little of it hinges on the man. Unless she's 48 and ordinary, and he's a 30 year old god. That might change the dynamic somewhat.
It's not something that would happen. If you lucked out in the looks dept, you don't have to go there.
In younger years, an attractive male spends time "Exploring" his options, learning about female mentality and honing skills as well as becoming a man ( some never do). The less attractive male has fewer chances to accomplish these things inherently unless gifted or lucky. As he ages and grows attention shifts to becoming settled and content, things get serious and deeper feelings become dominant requirements. Sex is always important but Quality now takes the lead over quantity and love controls lust. For myself I grew to understand that females often take a different path to maturity and after about 40 I realized an older and more experienced mate was better for temperament. The key here was eventually finding the mix of Beauty physically and mentally and stable personality.
