Can sexuality change over time?

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  1. ChrisL

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    No, you don't even know what I'm asking. You just don't understand or you just can't admit that you do not know. Why should I waste my time with a know it all who won't admit that he doesn't know something? It's like arguing with a 5-year-old child.
     
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    He acts like femininity on steroids! It's ridiculous. Ridiculous as in clown like. And you are getting away from the original question which is why do gay men find feminine men attractive when they don't find women attractive?
     
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    I think a lot of times it's just an act, just something to get attention, whether it be negative or positive attention doesn't matter. There are plenty of people like this around.
     
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    yes I do I just don't agree with you on what femininity is. That's okay.

    if you go back in the thread far enough you'll see that I did say I didn't know that's why I kept saying I did answer your question

    maybe take hold of your emotions quit throwing a little fit and read the responses before you start typing.
     
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    I disagree. No makeup no dress he doesn't talk like a woman men's haircut I mean he might shave he's Young so he might not have to. Explain what's feminine about him.

    I've already answered that question
     
  6. ChrisL

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    No, I remember you, and arguing with you is like arguing with a 5-year-old child. You won't admit that you don't know something, you will just keep arguing and moving goal posts and making up straw men.
     
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    sometimes certainly it is.
     
  8. ChrisL

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    He acts like a girl. End of story. Now, he is not the subject. He was an example of a man acting as if he is a woman. No real MEN would behave in such a manner. They would rather be shot.

    I asked the question why do gay men find feminine men attractive? If you don't know the answer, then say so and stop acting childish.
     
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    you didn't read. You're making up falsehoods
     
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    No, you are still arguing about . . . I don't even know what instead of being honest and saying you don't know why some gay men are attracted to feminine males.

    You would rather insist that their behavior is NOT feminine than admit that you don't know, and everyone knows that is a load of BS. So, I don't know who you think you are fooling but it isn't anyone with a functioning brain and with the powers of observation.
     
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    I disagree he did not act like a girl. In what ways did he act like a girl?

    a no true Scotsman fallacy?

    I've answered it twice now.
     
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    I've answered that question twice now.

    if you go back and read the post you were responding too you'll see I answered twice but I'll go ahead and answer a third time I already admitted that I didn't know.

    I just did it again but let me guess you can Overlook it yet again?

    clearly I was fooling you without even trying to.
     
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    Oh. . .my . . . god. He didn't act like a guy!!! Everything about how he acted was super feminine. Lol! I can see why you're gay. Seriously. :laughing:

    You have answered nothing. All you've done is argue about what is feminine. Apparently, you do not know that either!
     
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    Err. No, you weren't. You are acting a fool though! :D
     
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    Well prencess, i never hid it. So great job at stating the obvious.:applause:

    I have now three times.
    No, we disagree. Apparently you think it's something that you can't describe and have repeatedly fumbled through and attempted to give me an ultimatum on.

    One of the fundamental differences I've come across between women and men is a women tend to be very pig-headed.
     
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    You overlooked the answer three times the answer you wanted princess
    :roflol:

    Am I good have to quote myself and make the words you missed bold? I don't know what more I can do
     
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    One thing i have noticed that makes women different than men is women are bossy. In fact they're so bossy and hate being called the bossy so much they tried to make bossy a bad word.

    I've never encountered that from the girliest guy on the planet
     
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    Yes, I will admit that we are bossy. Lol! So what? There are much WORSE things to be than bossy and opinionated.

    If a guy like the guy in the video came bouncing up to me like that and talked to me like, I would not feel any kind of sexual attraction towards him whatsoever. I can't speak for how other women might feel about it. I would definitely want him as a friend though. I met a very feminine gay guy just recently, and he was a blast. I really had a lot of fun just talking with him. From a woman's point of view, there are guys that are going to be just friends and guys that you want, and then there are the guys you want nothing to do with whatsoever. Lol.

    PS: If you guys weren't so messy and lazy around the house, we wouldn't have to be so bossy! :D
     
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    Men generally aren't.
    That's true. Hey a lot of guys like that.

    So?

    If you didn't mind his personality wouldn't it be fun to date him?
    I think this is the crux of the whole thing. You're seeing it from a woman's point of view. There is nothing wrong with that you are a woman. I see it from a man's point of view.
    Fair enough.

    From a man's point of view, there are guys I'd never go out with. Even though some of them are gay. I'm willing to bet the type i Wouldn't want anything to do with are the type you'd like.

    every single married woman I know asks my partner how he got me to keep the house so clean. He's the slob.
     
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    if that fella came bouncing up to me and talk to me the way he did in that video after he stopped putting it on, I'd probably smile. Being a guy (straight guys are like this too) if someone barely registers as doable they're a check in the yes column. This guy wouldn't fit that he's a little young. Four five years down the road yeah probably. He'll have some five o clock shadow, a little broader in the shoulders. Those prissy guys grow out of that.

    So apparently I'm the kind of guy that likes what you would consider feminine men. They're really don't consider them feminine, just a little less manly than me.

    I do have reasons why I like those kind of guys if you're interested I'll talk to you about it
     
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    I suppose T deficiency plays a big role in explaining why some gay men act like caricature princesses. I doubt they are faking it.
     
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    Masculine and feminine are arbitrary traits that we attach to the male and female sex, and by extension, to a point, the gender as well. But these qualities have been different over the centuries and even across cultures. So a person is attracted to certain traits, in addition to whatever gender/sex they are attracted to, and this is probably "learned" behavior. Thinks it this way, if the individual we're bisexual
    Instead of homosexual, they would be attracted to both masculine men and masculine women. Or feminine as the case may be.
     
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    Actually, given what she said, then she could date a cross dresser or drag queen quite easily.
     
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    There are plenty of women who would consider it so.
     
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    You know I don't think I have ever seen women do the limp wrist thing as much as I see the flaming gay males do. And it's only the flaming ones. You don't see it in the rest.
     

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