Man Murders Online Date After Finding Out She's Transgender Post-Sex

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  1. crank

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    You expect someone who's effectively been sexually assaulted, to be civil?

    Are you on drugs?
     
  2. crank

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    you may well have a fight or flight response. we're programmed for it.
     
  3. Just_a_Citizen

    Just_a_Citizen Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    On behalf of my generation, I apologize.

     
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    Let's keep this question circulating til it gets an answer.
     
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    And you think being hit on is the same thing as being effectively sexually assaulted by a man?

    We've all been hit on by members of the sex we're not attracted to. It's entirely trivial.
     
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    I've always found George quite masculine. What I mean is, his natural mannishness bleeds through the fru-fru. In middle age, he seems to have allowed the mannishness more headroom.
     
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    Just_a_Citizen Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Gravity is a bitch.
     
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    Well I don't think mental illnesses like body dysmorphia lend themselves to rationally thinking through the dating market consequences. That's why you have headlines like these...

    Unlucky-in-love transgender woman reveals she's rejected by straight men because she still has 'male parts' - despite being chatted up all the time
     
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    He'd most likely just been sexually assaulted. Doesn't justify murder, but a fight back is understandable. Or do you also think rape victims should be polite?
     
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    very VERY few. a few virtue signalling posers (who may or may not flake at the 11th hour .. given it was only done to impress their friends), and maybe a couple of extremely desperate 60 year olds.
     
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    Nothing to do with how he looks. His personality seems to have settled well into the manly side of himself ... if that makes sense. He makes only the occasional effort to be effete nowadays.
     
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    Why do you paint it as "fear"?

    Perhaps not the national embarrasment and his precieved humilation on national TV and reprecussions he suffered.

    Talk abiut a stretch.
     
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    Many years ago - and it was on one of those talk shows, Oprah, Donahue, something along those lines - a post-op transsexual was asked about it, and the response was "The plumbing works, and so does the electricity!"

    Make of that what you will.
     
  14. Just_a_Citizen

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    Dropping a party lifestyle can be calming.

    Worked for me. Not that I was effete ever, or am gay.
     
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    Well sure. I just think that in his case the effeminacy (of his youth) was quite the pop star affectation. It wasn't 'natural', if you will.
     
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    Completely understand, & agree.
     
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    hardly, he should of said no and left, even said some harsh words, but murder was not a acceptable reaction

    if it concerned him that much, maybe he should of asked before hand
     
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    If he only found our DURING or after, then it's too late.
     
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    Just watched a couple of his old vids, and I'm certain now that it was an affectation. It just seems so clunky on him.
     
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    Hey, Boy George is fine. I liked some of his music. As long as he doesn't try to kiss me we don't have any problems. :D
     
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    Or... maybe some people just aren't gay. You are aware that not everyone has to share the same beliefs as you?
     
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    You do know the difference between labial tissue, vaginal mucosa and hairy ball skin don't you?
     
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    This is some of the most stupid bullsh** I've heard in my life. No one is advocating that everyone be gay. It's impossible to begin with. Where do you come up with this stupid nonsense?
     
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    Yep, and you're the one that's full of it.
     
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    If you mutilated your body, and you're pretending to be the opposite sex, just be upfront about it. It's the right, and safe thing to do.
     
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