Woman explains why she left ‘super wild’ lesbian lifestyle to follow Christ

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  1. Polydectes

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    "For years now, I have been carrying a heavy burden, a secret cloaked in silence that the leaders of my church have not wanted me to share publicly. Each time I had a great desire to speak out I was challenged by other priests and leaders.

    Today, I break the silence and emerge free from the shackles of shame placed upon me at a young age. There is so much to speak about, to repair and to heal — much beyond the limits of these words in print."


    https://www.ncronline.org/news/opinion/parish-priest-breaks-silence-shares-he-gay

    As we see, here is a brave man who defied brainwashing of his cult leaders who said "be quite, " "lie to everyone even yourself if you have to," you know like Jesus commanded... or... wait..

    Anyway this priest threw off the shackles of stupid dark ages superstitions, welcomed the ridicule of those that cannot or refuse to.

    Its a choice to be a throwback. If somebody can remain a clergyman and cast off backward tribal stupidity that plays no role in modern society anybody can.

    We know it's not really a choice to be brainwashed but you can recover.
     
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  3. Polydectes

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    There really aren't any it is a separate issue that he's trying to conflate.

    He's trying to build a slippery slope. If we don't stop these gays right now we're going to lose all of our rights.

    The only reasons I can think of require some personal knowledge that I'm happy to assume on some occasions but are of no real affect here and this response.

    Basically but he doesn't like the concept of homosexual people therefore it is wrong to him and everyone else should be like him.

    If you take for instance Westboro Baptist Church their real goal is to get assaulted this is why they pick funerals to antagonize people and basically gloat over the death of soldiers. The bizarrely link this through some convoluted rationale that soldiers died or people died in tragedies because God is punishing us for not Banning, sexuality I don't know some nonsense. It doesn't really matter to smoke screen.

    As for why people who don't protest funerals of soldiers do it I can only speculate.
     
  4. sec

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    "gay rights" in and of itself is anti-constitutional because it correctly implies that civil rights are usurped from those who do not engage in the gay lifestyle. When free speech or activity is denied in order to force others to service a homosexual themed event, then rights are taken.

    When those who enjoy some gay-sex can simply accuse others of "discrimination" because of how they engage in sex, then you are empowering a small group of sexual deviants to threaten good people with financial punishment if they do not support their sex lives.

    Imagine trying to force a Muslim to work at a pig slaughterhosue because the Muslim is anti-pork ?
     
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    Oh Jesus christ, this is so incredibly stupid. This stupid article proves nothing. And sorry, you make it sound like the wrong thing in life is being a bigoted, close minded christian
     
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    When 40% of the population have engaged in anal sex it is no longer "deviant".

    http://politicalforum.com/index.php...tyle-to-follow-christ.522843/#post-1068500215
     
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    Fixed it for you.
     
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    those same civil rights are usurped when you have to service a black or a Jewish themed event tonight.

    when those who enjoy some Jewish religion can simply accuse others of discrimination then you're empowering a small group of religious people to threaten good to people with financial punishment if they don't support their spiritual lives.

    that's not even close to what's occurring. What is closer to what is occurring is telling a Muslim Bakery that they can't discriminate against people based on race religion sex and in some places sexual orientation.

    They do have to follow the same rules so quit trying to be a martyr
     
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    no one is forcing anyone to work anywhere, a better comparison is a Muslim getting a job at a pork factory and demanding they not process pork

    or even better comparison is a Muslim working for a company and demanding everyone that eats pork in their off time be fired
     
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    sadly, you are mistaken. I wish your fantasy were true but alas it is not. And in fact, large sums of money have been paid to sexual deviants and, in some cases the states have mandated that Christians attend re-education camps or face even more fines.
     
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    you can no more discriminate against someone for being gay, then for eating pork chops in their time off
     
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    and that is where you fail.

    A person isn't born gay. They choose the sexual lifestyle. Unless you can show some type of medical test which conforms that one is born wanting some gay-sex, then it must be treated as a lifestyle choice.

    If I do not wish to service a nudist convention then the govt shouldn't force me to do so. The same goes with a homosexual-themed event.

    The OP shows yet another case of a person who realized that living the gay lifestyle was wrong and switched to a normal lifestyle.

    No matter how much I might claim to be, I can never be a white male. I wasn't born that way. I could however choose to take deliveries to the rear, or have sex with animals etc.
     
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    If being gay is a "choice" then when did you choose not to be gay?
     
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    I've explained this numerous times but since you're also trying the failed gotcha, here goes

    I was raised by a mom and dad with clear-cut male/female roles

    I was the baby of the family
    my sister dated boys
    my brothers dated girls
    siblings of friends dated the opposite sex
    cousins dated the opposite sex
    there were no girly-men around me

    The tv shows that I watched did not have gay-sex nor did it encourage it

    my entire environment was heterosexual so when it was time to sow my wild oats, I only knew about normal and proper sex. That was sexual relations with the opposite sex

    Now, had I or my friends been exposed and indoctrinated in the wonders of gay-sex, we might have thought that to be normal and would have gone that route. The OP is just another of a long list of brave souls who have come forward to shatter the myth of "born gay"
     
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    So your bogus allegation is that the environment is what makes someone either straight or gay and it is NOT a choice?

    Explain why so many gays are raised in identical environments to yours but find themselves attracted to the same sex?
     
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    And what about the millions of people who realized they were force-fed religious mumbo jumbo that was a plague on their life, and rejected it for sanity and reality?

    For every "saved" person there are probably a thousand who realized it's all bs. The rest are just suckers who need to be told what to do.
     
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    it is a choice. Heck, if I were never exposed to chocolate chip cookies then I wouldn't have known to try one.

    For those who try some gay-sex and like it, no doubt there was some upbringing which promoted it or there is a mental issue be it low self-esteem or whatever that makes them choose deviant sex.
     
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    You understand that everyone knows, including you, that this is a lie right?
     
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    And so if you keep telling yourself that if you just don't suck that guys dick, whom you are extremely attracted to, then that means you really aren't gay.
     
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    well, the entire medical and scientific community disagree with you. Lol
     
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    :roflol:

    So you can't even support your own bogus environment allegation either?

    Then there is the FACT that homosexuality occurs throughout nature. Are you alleging that animals have "slow self-esteem"?

    :roflol:

    Scientific research has exposed the fallacy of the theist belief that homosexuality is a "sin". No one chooses to be gay. They are attracted to the same sex in just the same way that straight people are attracted to the opposite sex. You didn't choose to be straight and you have admitted as much. Who you find attractive is not a choice.
     
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    are you saying that it wasn't a choice the first time that you had gay sex?
     
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    Who you are attracted to has nothing whatsoever to with having sex.

    Almost half the population has had anal sex so it is obviously something that people enjoy doing.

    Those people are both straight and gay and who they are attracted to has nothing whatsoever to do with whether or not they engage in anal sex.
     
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    Let's be clear....a constitutionally protected choice. Kind of like your religion
     
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    People can and do change behaviors. Don't hear you complain when children that are otherwise born to normal behavior are traumatized and turn to homosexual lifestyle to ease their pain. Good luck with your prosylitizing.
     
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